The confusion

I see tons of threads stating that people are confused about where they stand in a relationship. I'm constantly seeing people ask if they are even in an actual relationship or just fucking. I get that everyone approaches relationships differently and at d...

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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
But you have to know how to choose the right guys to date. If they can't respect you....cut them off.

You act like you can't say NO


It's more than choosing the right guys to date. Like I said if everyone is honest with themselves and the other person then there would be no confusion.

My male friends are just that friends
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Honest about what? How do you know if you like someone or if they like you without getting to know them?

Somebody can like you in the beginning and then not like you. You act like somebody is going to have the answer to everything on a first date.
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Oh I don't keep just one either. I enjoy dating!

Dating Leo, Aries-Taurus, Scorpio

I like them in that order too. One fall off he'll be replaced.
What the absolute F.
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Yes and I'm not sexing none of them. I'm not in a relationship. Y'all need to wake up and stop becoming emotionally invested in one dude when no commitment has been made.
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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
And what do you call someone you're dating? Your man Lol.

He's a friend until you guys have decided on something different.

How do you get to know someone without dating then and being friends?

Y'all are some backwards females.


It's not backwards the concert example you gave I'm going to go by myself not with someone i know i have no interest in.

He'd be a person I'm getting to know
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But why he is a cool guy. He has never made me feel uncomfortable around him. If he was coming on to me I would not want to go with him. But he is very respectful. I used to work with him. I look at him like a friend. I don't have to have a sexual interest in someone to hang out with them. He's not ugly, he's just not my type. But we have fun around each other.

Where are you guys from? Seriously everything ain't about sex
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Since I was a kid, I've always been the tomboy with mainly male friebds. As I got older, male friebds made it difficult to date cuz guys I'd meet would wonder why I hang out with dudes.

Anyways, I'm pretty black and white with guys I met. If I dated them, it was to get to know them and I never really clicked with anyone. I hate my space invaded and loved living alone, doing whatever I wanted.

I had one off and on fwb for 6 years that was a Capricorn actor. We were frievdsl since we were young and I was never interested in a relationship.

Actually I only ever wanted to get into relationships once I was over 25, and uni was done and I had travelled a lot by myself.

Men have always gotten possessive with me and it just makes me avoidant.
I do everything I want. Nobody controls me. I do things alone as well. If someone invites me somewhere and we are cool, I will decide if I want to go. If I go it's because I want to go.

If I meet a guy I like I will date and get to know him. If I meet another guy I like I will date and get to know him. I'm single I'm not investing all my time in one guy. Yes I may like one more than the other, but that could change next week as I get to know them.

This is why I don't hang around females they are too emotional and deep.
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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
But you have to know how to choose the right guys to date. If they can't respect you....cut them off.

You act like you can't say NO


It's more than choosing the right guys to date. Like I said if everyone is honest with themselves and the other person then there would be no confusion.

My male friends are just that friends
Honest about what? How do you know if you like someone or if they like you without getting to know them?

Somebody can like you in the beginning and then not like you. You act like somebody is going to have the answer to everything on a first date.
I never said that. You know you'd never commit to tge one guy right? That's my point. If after months of getting to know someone & you consider them a friend. Then you've already capped the relationship it's not going any further. It does take anyone long to decide what they want from a person. Ask anyone yourself included
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Where else would it go? Everyone is a friend I don't have sex with them. I'll commit to the one who wants the commitment that I like and see after knowing him, he is decent and has most of the qualities I find attractive.
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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
And what do you call someone you're dating? Your man Lol.

He's a friend until you guys have decided on something different.

How do you get to know someone without dating then and being friends?

Y'all are some backwards females.


It's not backwards the concert example you gave I'm going to go by myself not with someone i know i have no interest in.

He'd be a person I'm getting to know
But why he is a cool guy. He has never made me feel uncomfortable around him. If he was coming on to me I would not want to go with him. But he is very respectful. I used to work with him. I look at him like a friend. I don't have to have a sexual interest in someone to hang out with them. He's not ugly, he's just not my type. But we have fun around each other.

Where are you guys from? Seriously everything ain't about sex


Then Then you're not dating you're ur then you're not dating you're just hanging out not dating u just hanging out
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So sex is dating? You guys are lost.

If I meet a guy and we start going out, I consider that dating. If he calls me texts me during the week we are dating. All of these guys have a interest in me. They aren't doing this to kill time.

But they are smart enough to know it might not work out.
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I think online dating puts some pressure on chicks to hook a man through sex or fwb. Like tinder seems to give ppl various options of ppl.

They don't need a bf/gf if they are busy and just have time for hookups. It depends what you want long term.

For the chicks who get in fwb to get a bf, that's going nowhere cuz the guy can have fwb with other tinder dates.

But the chick can actively date others too, but they don't cuz they think the sex means something. That's why you don't put out unless you know you want next level...

Or you're perfectly okay in having a fwb situation without assuming more can come of it.
What the hell are you talking about?!? I will never be a FWB I didn't know what that stupid lingo meant until I got on here.

I care nothing about a man's penis. He can't hypnotize me with that sh1t!
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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
And what do you call someone you're dating? Your man Lol.

He's a friend until you guys have decided on something different.

How do you get to know someone without dating then and being friends?

Y'all are some backwards females.


It's not backwards the concert example you gave I'm going to go by myself not with someone i know i have no interest in.

He'd be a person I'm getting to know
But why he is a cool guy. He has never made me feel uncomfortable around him. If he was coming on to me I would not want to go with him. But he is very respectful. I used to work with him. I look at him like a friend. I don't have to have a sexual interest in someone to hang out with them. He's not ugly, he's just not my type. But we have fun around each other.

Where are you guys from? Seriously everything ain't about sex


I didn't say there was anything wrong with it. You said you're friends, he's not your type, you guys hang out, sounds like you have clearly defined boundaries so you're platonic friends. I wouldn't include him in the I'm dating, but I know I wouldn't settle with him...that's just me
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It's a date I didn't come out my pocket. When I come out my pocket we're hanging out. He still a friend like the others.
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I see initially yes cuz ur weeding out but after decided it's a no go why continue
Because he's a cool friend that respects me. When he crosses the line he gets cut off. Or when he sees its not going in anywhere he falls off. It's not that deep. That man is not worried he enjoys my company more than anything.
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Like how long do u stay around once u know it's a no go?

Just curious
As long as they respect me, until I'm in a committed relationship.

I've had male friends for years. I had a Pisces and Virgo friend for 3 years before I got married. They respect me because I respect myself.
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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
And what do you call someone you're dating? Your man Lol.

He's a friend until you guys have decided on something different.

How do you get to know someone without dating then and being friends?

Y'all are some backwards females.


It's not backwards the concert example you gave I'm going to go by myself not with someone i know i have no interest in.

He'd be a person I'm getting to know
But why he is a cool guy. He has never made me feel uncomfortable around him. If he was coming on to me I would not want to go with him. But he is very respectful. I used to work with him. I look at him like a friend. I don't have to have a sexual interest in someone to hang out with them. He's not ugly, he's just not my type. But we have fun around each other.

Where are you guys from? Seriously everything ain't about sex


Then Then you're not dating you're ur then you're not dating you're just hanging out not dating u just hanging out
So sex is dating? You guys are lost.

If I meet a guy and we start going out, I consider that dating. If he calls me texts me during the week we are dating. All of these guys have a interest in me. They aren't doing this to kill time.

But they are smart enough to know it might not work out.
Who said anything about sex? If all i want is sex then i will be clear on that as well.

This is what i mean by being honest. You just said they all have an interest in you. You don't have an interest in him. So why are you wasting his time?
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He might be dating other people too. I don't know I don't ask. How is it wasting time when y'all have a good time together. Everyone is not emotional like that.
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Freinds is not dating though
So what are they called? Your man, boyfriend? Lol

That's why y'all are confused. Everyone is a friend in my book until we are in a committed relationship.
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The confusion is when actions don't match words on either side.

I don't date just to date. If we're friends then we're friends. If we're dating then we're dating.

People will say we're friends then want to make out...no!
And what do you call someone you're dating? Your man Lol.

He's a friend until you guys have decided on something different.

How do you get to know someone without dating then and being friends?

Y'all are some backwards females.


It's not backwards the concert example you gave I'm going to go by myself not with someone i know i have no interest in.

He'd be a person I'm getting to know
But why he is a cool guy. He has never made me feel uncomfortable around him. If he was coming on to me I would not want to go with him. But he is very respectful. I used to work with him. I look at him like a friend. I don't have to have a sexual interest in someone to hang out with them. He's not ugly, he's just not my type. But we have fun around each other.

Where are you guys from? Seriously everything ain't about sex


Then Then you're not dating you're ur then you're not dating you're just hanging out not dating u just hanging out
So sex is dating? You guys are lost.

If I meet a guy and we start going out, I consider that dating. If he calls me texts me during the week we are dating. All of these guys have a interest in me. They aren't doing this to kill time.

But they are smart enough to know it might not work out.
Who said anything about sex? If all i want is sex then i will be clear on that as well.

This is what i mean by being honest. You just said they all have an interest in you. You don't have an interest in him. So why are you wasting his time?
He might be dating other people too. I don't know I don't ask. How is it wasting time when y'all have a good time together. Everyone is not emotional like that.


Nothing to do with emotions. Everything to do with respect
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How am I disrespecting him? I'm not lying to him

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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol
He's a Scorpio. And I had a male Pisces friend for 3 years who liked me. I made it clear as day, he didn't care we still did things together at his expense. He even had girlfriends in between when things didn't work out, who you think he was calling to hang out at his expense.

I don't mind paying my way, but if you invite me out...how should it be? Drinks, meals, movies, concerts, sports games is really no money.
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I think online dating puts some pressure on chicks to hook a man through sex or fwb. Like tinder seems to give ppl various options of ppl.

They don't need a bf/gf if they are busy and just have time for hookups. It depends what you want long term.

For the chicks who get in fwb to get a bf, that's going nowhere cuz the guy can have fwb with other tinder dates.

But the chick can actively date others too, but they don't cuz they think the sex means something. That's why you don't put out unless you know you want next level...

Or you're perfectly okay in having a fwb situation without assuming more can come of it.
What the hell are you talking about?!? I will never be a FWB I didn't know what that stupid lingo meant until I got on here.

I care nothing about a man's penis. He can't hypnotize me with that sh1t!
Why are you going crazy at me? This whole time I'm referencing the OP.

I don't know what your life is.
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OP is gone...he's a Leo, he threw a temper tantrum, deleted his post and left. I'm not kissing up to him Leo fashion.
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Posted by Impulsv
You have told them point blank

Hey I don't see u as a romantic interest

N they continue. Is that how it goes ?

Otherwise withholding ur not interest is not any better
Yes the ones that come at me. I tell them we are cool as friends. Some men want what they can't have. But not all men are dogs some have been taught the proper way to treat a women. That's all they know.
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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation


She does n thinks it's lightly no harm done
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He is a grown man, not a child. You got men throwing money at strippers and y'all worried about what this man paying for.

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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation
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Just try closing your legs sometime...you will understand everything I'm talking about
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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation


She does n thinks it's lightly no harm done
He is a grown man, not a child. You got men throwing money at strippers and y'all worried about what this man paying for.




Until u hurt someone badly

U just said most men are good

Not The kind to throw money at strippers

So instead of throwing money at strippers

Through it at you. Mmmm

It's about getting free entertainment then

About let them spend money on you.
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Hurting someone badly is lying about how you feel and using them.

I can pay my own way, and I don't lie about nothing. Guys aren't like girls they don't pry into your feelings.

It's good company, great convo and entertainment. I don't ask them for nothing. They aren't paying my bills.

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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation


She does n thinks it's lightly no harm done
He is a grown man, not a child. You got men throwing money at strippers and y'all worried about what this man paying for.




Again it's a thing called honesty
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Honest about what. That man never asked me if I want to be with him. Never asked me for sex. Never asked for nothing but to go out and chill. He is 30 something man with no mouths to feed and a job. He is not stupid. I treat him with respect.
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Do u ever offer to pay or split bill?
If after a few dates...I'll be like "you straight". They'll be like yeah yeah girl don't ask me that.

If a guy invites you somewhere let him be a man. But sometimes we just chill indoors, talking, drinking, laughing.

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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation


She does n thinks it's lightly no harm done
He is a grown man, not a child. You got men throwing money at strippers and y'all worried about what this man paying for.




Until u hurt someone badly

U just said most men are good

Not The kind to throw money at strippers

So instead of throwing money at strippers

Through it at you. Mmmm

It's about getting free entertainment then

About let them spend money on you.
Hurting someone badly is lying about how you feel and using them.

I can pay my own way, and I don't lie about nothing. Guys aren't like girls they don't pry into your feelings.

It's good company, great convo and entertainment. I don't ask them for nothing. They aren't paying my bills.




Time is the 1 resource you don't get back so I'd rather spend my time with those who care about me as a person & my well being & who have my best interest at heart whether that's as a friend, familyn or s/o
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A 2-3 hour date with a decent person who is a friend is not wasting my time. I'm not disgusted with him lol. I like his company but I'm not going to marry him. Life is about having fun, y'all are so uptight.
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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation


She does n thinks it's lightly no harm done
He is a grown man, not a child. You got men throwing money at strippers and y'all worried about what this man paying for.




Again it's a thing called honesty
Honest about what. That man never asked me if I want to be with him. Never asked me for sex. Never asked for nothing but to go out and chill. He is 30 something man with no mouths to feed and a job. He is not stupid. I treat him with respect.


When a guy throws money at a stripper he knows what he's getting
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Exactly. Point proven. He ain't stupid...he knows what he's getting. I'm not selling that man a false dream.
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Diferent kind of fun

I have my fun in other ways

But that's why I'm scorp n u Aries lol

I'm not into chitter patter with no depth

Clubbing bar hoping,

More traveling , exploring , concerts but for that I can do it with Freinds , self ,

Not on a date with someone I have no interest N if I'm hanging out then clear we are just Freinds.

It's interesting differences thanks for sharing

No clubs. Sports bars, sporting events, movies, restaurants, fairs, concerts, crib.

I travel with my family or S/O, go shopping with my sisters or alone, etc etc. I'm not missing nothing. I do everything. I hang out with employees at work and go on dates with those I have an interest in. Whether it be short term or long term.

Everything you do I do and a little bit more because I have an open mind and enjoy life. I'm not missing nothing.

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Oh I don't keep just one either. I enjoy dating!

Dating Leo, Aries-Taurus, Scorpio

I like them in that order too. One fall off he'll be replaced.
Where do you meet guys?
Why? You want her leftovers? She uses them till they get sick of her shit and they broke AF trying to keep her.
I don't want anyone's leftovers. I'm just trying to understand how she has three and easily replace another. I've got zero. I'm curious as to where i can find at least one
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@ryoko why are you in a hurry to find love, be patience, when was your last relationship?
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Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation


She does n thinks it's lightly no harm done
He is a grown man, not a child. You got men throwing money at strippers and y'all worried about what this man paying for.




Until u hurt someone badly

U just said most men are good

Not The kind to throw money at strippers

So instead of throwing money at strippers

Through it at you. Mmmm

It's about getting free entertainment then

About let them spend money on you.
Hurting someone badly is lying about how you feel and using them.

I can pay my own way, and I don't lie about nothing. Guys aren't like girls they don't pry into your feelings.

It's good company, great convo and entertainment. I don't ask them for nothing. They aren't paying my bills.




Time is the 1 resource you don't get back so I'd rather spend my time with those who care about me as a person & my well being & who have my best interest at heart whether that's as a friend, familyn or s/o
A 2-3 hour date with a decent person who is a friend is not wasting my time. I'm not disgusted with him lol. I like his company but I'm not going to marry him. Life is about having fun, y'all are so uptight.
Some people date for fun. Some people date for a purpose. It's not uptight, right, or wrong, just different.
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My purpose is to enjoy life without thinking to hard in the process and over analyzing simple sh1t.
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I mean no attraction I will not consider it even for date

I turned them away

I feel like a prostitute if I accept just to "go on a date"

n I have zero attraction. I found him unattractive to me. I feel I'm not lossing out on fun In my life.

If anything I am removing unnecessary drama of having to cut them off later , in ur example for making an advance
A prostitue is a giving her body away. I'm not giving nothing away but time to a cool person that I don't plan to marry or have sex with. I'm not wasting time because I'm not being forced and I want to go out and have fun. He is no drama, not disrespectful and cool AF.

You don't understand because you don't have guy friends. That's all I have. He probably think I'm cool AF too, that's why it doesn't bother him. If he comes to me in a sexual way I keep it real.

Everything ain't physical, emotional or deep. It's just life.



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Freinds is not dating though
So what are they called? Your man, boyfriend? Lol

That's why y'all are confused. Everyone is a friend in my book until we are in a committed relationship.


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If you consider these guys just friends, and are not into them, and you're not having sex, then it isn't dating. It's just hanging out, like if they're your buddies or something. The reason for all of the "confusion" about your remarks is because you kept calling it dating. In dating, both parties have some sort of romantic interest that transcends otherwise strictly platonic friendship.

You're hanging out with your friends, not dating.

If I misinterpreted you yet again, and you do see these guys as more than just strictly platonic friends to hang out with, then you are indeed stringing all of them along.

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yeah if you're chilling with your opposite sex friends, you're just chilling...its not a date...

if they pay, you can get them back next time, just like how ppl do anyways.

not paying implies that this is a date...or not offering
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I'm not paying
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Freinds is not dating though
So what are they called? Your man, boyfriend? Lol

That's why y'all are confused. Everyone is a friend in my book until we are in a committed relationship.


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If you consider these guys just friends, and are not into them, and you're not having sex, then it isn't dating. It's just hanging out, like if they're your buddies or something. The reason for all of the "confusion" about your remarks is because you kept calling it dating. In dating, both parties have some sort of romantic interest that transcends otherwise strictly platonic friendship.

You're hanging out with your friends, not dating.

If I misinterpreted you yet again, and you do see these guys as more than just strictly platonic friends to hang out with, then you are indeed stringing all of them along.

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I am interested in 2 of them. The other I like as a buddy. But none are getting sex, so I don't care if it's 10 dates it's the same outcome. They are all friends. I'm not stringing no one along because I'm not in a relationship with none of them. When I'm ready to settle with one then all others will get cut off.

It's called having options. Everybody has then and you are a fool not to use them.
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I swear I'm dealing with a bunch of dumb females who honestly think this little sh1t these guys are doing is out of line.

How the heck are you going to know someone and decide if you like them or you like each other without hanging out? And what man would allow a woman to pay if they like the girl and they ask her out?!?

I don't fall in love with someone after a couple of dates. Why would I stop dating and focus on one person if no one has established a commitment. That's how your head gets all fawked up...waiting around on somebody.

Y'all gone be mad though cuz I had dinner and a movie with the Scorp on Saturday and the Aries-Taurus wants to see me tomorrow. He already said he wanted to go out the last time I saw him. But I made him a plate again to take to work. See I'm nice all while eager to meet my Leo at the end of the week. Gosh that man so sexy. But then it's this gorgeous Aries man at my gym...he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I was like "I don't have that problem" and I laughed cuz I can't take him serious sometimes, but I didn't realize he was trying to ask me out until now. So I'll be at the gym everyday this week Lol.
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For the slow people....

http://dating.about.com/od/glossarywordsc/g/casualdating.htm
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Oh I don't keep just one either. I enjoy dating!

Dating Leo, Aries-Taurus, Scorpio

I like them in that order too. One fall off he'll be replaced.
is this just sun signs?

cause you an aries sun female right? chart matters lady.
What else would it be?!? They all act like their Sun Signs. Don't have time to do all that soul searching, chart investigating. I don't care about 10 percent of the equation.
haha. I have a sister who IS aries sun, and shes married to a Libra sun.

gimme a break. how come you aren't with an air sun, or any of the other air suns?
I don't like Aquarius or Libra. Libras are stalkers and Aquarius too wild. Gemini I can deal with, haven't met any decent ones.

I like Fire Signs. But this Scorpio is cool, he treats me very good. We have a great time together, but I know it's only temporary because I would never settle with him.
So, you're a user. Got it.
How am I using him? We are friends. I don't lead him on, I never told him anything more than he is cool. We used to work together. He's not stupid, but I don't plan on marrying dude. I got my own sh1t I don't have to use anyone.
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Look, do you have 3 dudes on lock or not? If he's on lock then you are leading him on. Dude isn't gonna stay if there no chance. Get your stories straight. You're confusing me on a post I made to give women clarity.
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@Sssupes

How am I going to have some dudes on lock? Grown men who are free to do as they choose. Date whoever they choose we are not in committed relationships. We are getting to know each other. I'm not stringing old dude along because I like him he's just not the usual physical type I like. But I like being around him, I don't see a future no.....but how many people that you dated you married or began a relationship with?

Dating can be long term or short term. I have learned more about him and I definitely look at him differently. But I have a type and he is not that type. But still he is fun to be around. No I will not be calling him to do things but if he calls me to go out and I'm in the mood I will. Because he's cool.

And guy will continue to hang around you and take you out if they know they don't have a chance. No different than a confused a $ $ female living in denial.
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@foreverloveme

You are not "black and white" so give that up right now.

I don't have time for all them definitions, thinking, classifying, categorizing on this simple sh1t.

Everybody is a friend. We go on a date more than once, I talk to you on the phone, text, you know anything other than my name we are friends. I didn't say besties.

I have a interests in all of them, for different reasons. One is average, one is handsome, one is sexy. I'm not looking for average in the long term. I have never kissed old dude he already know. He is a Scorpio that boy is not dumb.
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Sorry for making your post go sideways, but it all ties together.

Bunch of confused females
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@ariesloveme I hope some dude treats you as an option so you can make a post about it and I can laugh my ass off. Guys will see your shit attitude and dump you. By the time you change your outlook you'll be jaded as fuck and ugly too. Then all you'll have are the memories of what you HAD. Salty bitches get what they deserve.
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I don't have time to do all that explaining.

I just go with the flow. If you don't ask I'm not telling. I'm not spilling all them feelings when I'm dating someone in the beginning.

If I'm around you I obviously like you in some form or fashion.

Ain't nobody starting a relationship or getting married tomorrow.

I know you read he was "temporary". As soon as that Aries ask me out I probably won't have time for him. But he still cool so I might go out every now and then as buddies.
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@Sssupes

I probably am an option to one of them. Why would I be salty about that? We aren't in a relationship. I haven't caught them kind of feelings for none of them. We aren't even having sex.

It's dating....who the fawk stops talking to people because you start dating someone else. WTF! Nobody has even talked commitment.

How can someone be dumped without a relationship?

I could loose all 3 today and still have a big a $ $ smile on my face, I haven't lost anything.

You sound like a scorned a $ $ old man. I guess you plan on marrying that crazy Capricorn because you sure stated you didn't like that sh1t she did at the restaurant. But I'm sure you are still stringing her a $ $ along.
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That's why I don't men over 35. Them MF scorned and rusty.

What man makes a thread about females assuming sh1t and being confused but then gets butt hurt because a man can't get the picture either?!?
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People don't like that realness.

So sit your butt at home waiting on a man to make his mind up what he wants to do with you. Since you don't plan on dating anyone else and probably miss out on other opportunities. Sad

I can't invest that much mentally when I just start dating someone. Give me a few months and a conversation about where it's going then I'll put some feelings into it.

If a average dude call me up wants to chill at his expense I'm going if I'm in the mood. I'm not kissing, holding hands, talking relationship or sex. If he wants to be Bozo the Clown I'll still treat him with respect.
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You got issues. Seek help
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I got issues because I want to date people and have friends.

You got issues because you are just as confused as the women this post was supposed to be about before you threw your temper tantrum like a 8 year old and deleted your post.
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Posted by AriesLovesMe

I am interested in 2 of them.

It's called having options. Everybody has then and you are a fool not to use them.


You're a player, end of discussion. I don't understand why you spent the last however many pages jumping between platonic friendship and romantic interest, confusing the shit out of everyone.

You're a player, just own it. Don't be ashamed, don't hide, don't make it out to be something else. Just own up to being a player and be proud of it and save everyone the damn confusion, lmfao. Avoiding sex doesn't make you not a player, you still are one, stop being afraid of the label.

Or maybe you didn't realize that about yourself, but now have thanks to us? No thanks necessary. Btw, you'd do well with an aquarius. They share your mindset to a T. They love their "friends/options/potential interests", fear labels, and make everything confusing and ambiguous. You should add them to your options. Again, no thanks necessary.
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I said they were "friends" you all confused yourself putting labels. Trying to classify each one. I kept it simple.

Now you came up with another dumb label "player"

How can someone play people if everyone is single?!? Lol

These men don't care, don't know, not trying to know, just getting to know me like I'm knowing them.

This is the exact reason why this thread was made. You delusional females keep putting labels on things that don't exist, was never stated, and keep getting feelings involved over obvious sh1t.

Your welcome @Sssupes. Your point was proven by me.
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I don't have time to do all that explaining.

I just go with the flow. If you don't ask I'm not telling. I'm not spilling all them feelings when I'm dating someone in the beginning.

If I'm around you I obviously like you in some form or fashion.

Ain't nobody starting a relationship or getting married tomorrow.

I know you read he was "temporary". As soon as that Aries ask me out I probably won't have time for him. But he still cool so I might go out every now and then as buddies.
lol


I like the comment in this topic where one woman asked," how come i'm single and don't get so many men like her??"

Laughing

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Oh I don't keep just one either. I enjoy dating!

Dating Leo, Aries-Taurus, Scorpio

I like them in that order too. One fall off he'll be replaced.
Where do you meet guys?
Everywhere....gym, grocery store, church, work, online.

I'm sexy AF
I don't generally make eye contact with people. Is that a big thing in this?
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haha... it was ryoko. Tongue

the men are everywhere!!!

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Oh I don't keep just one either. I enjoy dating!

Dating Leo, Aries-Taurus, Scorpio

I like them in that order too. One fall off he'll be replaced.
Where do you meet guys?
Everywhere....gym, grocery store, church, work, online.

I'm sexy AF
I don't generally make eye contact with people. Is that a big thing in this?


haha... it was ryoko. Tongue

the men are everywhere!!!


I clearly don't see any desirable men where i live. At least I'm not in alaska...
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Alaska would be very very lonely.


in the cosmopolitian areas, I have read/seen on tv. a lot of competition going on. the women fight for the men, and the men look for women everywhere.

like a meat market it seems.
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Yeah but Alaskans need to keep warm.
lol

gotta give the men lots of OYSTERS and eggs, for protein and reproduction.


lmao @ryoko,

ohhh wooeee. maybe next lifetime?
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Posted by Impulsv
Don t date a Scorpio or water sign lol


Lol i thought she said she had a scorpio in her rotation
Just try closing your legs sometime...you will understand everything I'm talking about


I'm not fake so...I will not understand. Legs have been closed thanks
Hey is this the same user throwing hate at me for no reason?

Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
Libra with cancer moon.

I don't know

Wouldn't change a thing about you. You'd still be fake. With the Libra though your fakeness would be more apparent because you'd be trying to hard to please and look good in front of others.

Cancers are more low key fake. You pretend everything is good but when someone starts talking to you and you feel comfortable, you eventually spill the beans on your own.

Damn.


I'm getting tired of the bitter troll cunts trying to rain on my day at the beach.
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Yes it's the same person. I'm not able to log into my account due to DXP issues but I own it and I'm not trolling. Point?
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Damn Rocky.......finally speechless!
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