Forever the other woman ??

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by LaSag on Tuesday, September 17, 2013 and has 69 replies.
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18 y/o with a 30 y/o?????
im calling shenanigans
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Call it what you want but its true
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if u wanna stay, stay
if u wanna go, go
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Posted by LaSag
i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife.


He wants you to just shut up, and be his side piece of ass.
That's about it.
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Posted by KingVirgo
Posted by Wynter
Posted by LaSag
i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife.


He wants you to just shut up, and be his side piece of ass.
That's about it.


lol I was trying to say that but in a nice way.
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I was being nice too Tongue
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I would advise on not being a home wrecker. Also, if he does leave her for you, what makes you think he won't cheat on you too?
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Also for 18....yeah he's totally a pig and using you as tail on the side and you are naive if think otherwise. I don't mean to be harsh, but this is true. Get outta there
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Posted by Wynter
Posted by LaSag
i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife.


He wants you to just shut up, and be his side piece of ass.
That's about it.
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This would drive me insane. I'm furious just reading it. Where does he get the nerve to yell at you when he is the one at fault. He should be humble. But then again I get where he is coming from, he knows he has you. This guy have lost respect for you. It could be because you took him back so easily. All he did was shrug- he gave you no explanations, no apologies..nothing.
You're too young to be wasting your life on a married man, drop him.
I was in a situation exactly like yours with my libra ex. But unlike yours he showed me some respect. Respect or not, I still walked. It's not easy but it can be done. I've had my moments of weakness too with mine so I know it's not easy. If he really wants you he'll get a divorce. Whatever you do please do not wait around while he figures out what to do next. Cut him out or be friends, whatever..just don't be in any kind of a romantic relationship with him. What an asshole!
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Now, you know good and well you saw the ring. Winking
Since you are 18 and in your own words naive, I am going to talk to you like I would my daughter if I had one.
Babygirl, at 18 you have your whole life ahead of you. You will meet many men. Some will love you and some will hurt you. That's life and you really have no control over any of it. What you do have control over is how a man treats you.
I have been where you are at...a few times. It never ends well. If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you and that's real.
Nothing anyone says here is going to make you walk away from him. You will do that in your own time.
What I can tell you is that you are beautiful and smart and you deserve your own man.

P.S. They are not going to take it easy on you in here just so you know. Armor up.
Oh yea one last thing, since you know now when the wife finds out and she will find out since the two of you are meeting each other families and whatnot...she is going to want to fight you and rightly so. I would punch you square in the face. IJS
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she doesnt want to leave....so if u want to know how to handle the situation thats a more realistic question.
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thats sounds like something Frye would say
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I really hope you do leave this ass hole
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daddy isssuesssssssss
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Posted by Neurotoxin
You should tell him you're on the pill then get pregnant with his child.
That will solve all your problems.


+ 1 That is what love is all about. Now I want a sandwich.
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What's your moon and Venus sign?
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Posted by LaSag
when i asked him about him being married his reply was "well i mean i still had on my ring so i wasnt hiding it." but coming from my perspective dudes my age now adays wear rings for fashion so i mean i saw it but i never really paid it any attention because i mean being my age somebody being married never tried to talk to me and i guess being sort of nieve i just didnt think it would ever happen. so he kept asking me what do i want to do its all up to me on were were going and so i stayed knowing everything i know now because the love i have for him is surreal....


Wow....just what the many f*cks are you going on about?
Posted by LaSag
ive noticed he's stopped wearing his wedding ring...


I wonder why that is....Perhaps because:
Posted by LaSag
hes met all my family.....


he knows your family would call him out on his BS, or make you see the reality of the situation. Do they know he's married?
Posted by LaSag
he still is married and its something that we just never talk about or bring up.. i just dont know what to do i dont want him to leave me nor do i want to just be in denial for the rest of my life not knowing where we're going with this. i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife. any advice ??
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Find Jesus.
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Posted by Sag89
daddy isssuesssssssss


Saturn is definitely at play here. maybe touching venus or the 7th house.
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lol @ find Jesus. Jesus aint lost, she is lol.
did u see the part about meeting his "important" family members. which ones were those exactly?
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She's got Scorp Venus for sure. Maybe an air moon.
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Posted by DMV
lol @ find Jesus. Jesus aint lost, she is lol.
did u see the part about meeting his "important" family members. which ones were those exactly?


lol, yeah
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Posted by KingVirgo
Posted by Wynter
Posted by LaSag
i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife.


He wants you to just shut up, and be his side piece of ass.
That's about it.


lol I was trying to say that but in a nice way.
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Information gets lost in translation when you "try" to say something.
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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by KingVirgo
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Posted by LaSag
i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife.


He wants you to just shut up, and be his side piece of ass.
That's about it.


lol I was trying to say that but in a nice way.


Information gets lost in translation when you "try" to say something.
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thats a virgo thing. beating around the bush
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Posted by DMV
lol @ find Jesus. Jesus aint lost, she is lol.
did u see the part about meeting his "important" family members. which ones were those exactly?


Lol. Okay, find Iyanla?
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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by DMV
lol @ find Jesus. Jesus aint lost, she is lol.
did u see the part about meeting his "important" family members. which ones were those exactly?


Lol. Okay, find Iyanla?
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bwahaahahahaha #fixmylife
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Posted by DMV

did u see the part about meeting his "important" family members. which ones were those exactly?


I was, but I'm not interested in getting caught up in her fairy tale as if meeting these "important family member" make their relationship more legit.
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And who wears a ring on their ring finger "for fashion"? Where they do that at?
He completely turned that on her too..."what do you want to do? It's all up to you." Seriously?
Well.....as you were.
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Posted by PhoenixRising
And who wears a ring on their ring finger "for fashion"? Where they do that at?
He completely turned that on her too..."what do you want to do? It's all up to you." Seriously?
Well.....as you were.


i know a few dudes who have told "stories" like that. they only tell it because it worked on another girl.
men will try anything to get ass.
the good ol redirection works every time. especially on one who hasnt LIVED.
i still say this is Tamia in disguise.
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Posted by LaSag
Ive been seeing this Libra (im a Sagittarius) guy for 7 months and maybe about 2 months into it i found out he was married because his best friend slipped and told me. i'm 18 and he's 30. so alot of people think hes to old for me but i love him.. but besides that when i asked him about him being married his reply was "well i mean i still had on my ring so i wasnt hiding it." but coming from my perspective dudes my age now adays wear rings for fashion so i mean i saw it but i never really paid it any attention because i mean being my age somebody being married never tried to talk to me and i guess being sort of nieve i just didnt think it would ever happen. so he kept asking me what do i want to do its all up to me on were were going and so i stayed knowing everything i know now because the love i have for him is surreal. i asked him once before where i stood in his life and he told me i was his heart and that he never wanted me to go anywhere so again im still here. ive noticed he's stopped wearing his wedding ring and he comes over alot more and hes met all my family and ive met the important ones in his.. but i mean he still is married and its something that we just never talk about or bring up.. i just dont know what to do i dont want him to leave me nor do i want to just be in denial for the rest of my life not knowing where we're going with this. i would give anything for him to just tell me what he wants with me instead of dragging me along and ignoring me or yelling at me whenever i bring up the topic of his wife. any advice ??


"Nieve"...as in naive? Yeah I would say so :/
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where are you, op?
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Posted by Agentgem24
Also for 18....yeah he's totally a pig and using you as tail on the side and you are naive if think otherwise. I don't mean to be harsh, but this is true. Get outta there


Why is she the home wrecker when he plays an equal part in this? As if she stalked him, ran game like he's a victim. He made the choice to see her.
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Posted by SugarAries
If this story is true then you had just turned 18 when you got involved with him and you're likely still in High School. Pretty disgusting. If she has daddy issues, he has just as many other issues.


Agreed
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by Agentgem24
Also for 18....yeah he's totally a pig and using you as tail on the side and you are naive if think otherwise. I don't mean to be harsh, but this is true. Get outta there


Why is she the home wrecker when he plays an equal part in this? As if she stalked him, ran game like he's a victim. He made the choice to see her.
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True
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Posted by SugarAries
If this story is true then you had just turned 18 when you got involved with him and you're likely still in High School. Pretty disgusting. If she has daddy issues, he has just as many other issues.


+1
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Tamia, huh? Hmmmm...interesting
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She put some pictures up....looks like a Sag smile
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And spelling naive wrong doesn't make me less mature it was a typo get over yourself
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Posted by LaSag
Idk who tamia is.. I'm Drea


You don't wanna know who she is lol
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Posted by LaSag
I mean he's with me everyday and I stay over his house alot and no I'm not in high school I'm a freshman in college and as regarding to his important family members I mean like mom dad brother sisters and a couple of aunts and uncles. Some of them he doesn't speak to.


What you're experiencing is the lesson that will constantly smack you if you don't change. The people may change but the storyline won't. Bu with each experience you lose a piece of your spirit...your heart. Regardless of the fact that they're legally separated, he's keeping you out of the most important thing...himself. The fact tat they're separated only adds insult to injury.
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Obviously he is equally to blame, although given age I think more so him. He sounds like a huge jerk..I would get out now.
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Does anyone really think that a 30 yr old leaves family for an 18 he old? Nah.
Personally this feels slightly creepy. You can be 18 and still in high school! Ew


He aint leavin shit for some youngster who cant even go have a drink at a bar. Wtf
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@Size: I agree. One of the undertones of the statement I quoted is the, well, prevailing belief that men are somehow not capable of being responsible so therefore the woman's actions are addressed. Then some wonder why men continue to do this sort of stuff...like getting on two women for fighting over a man as if they strapped him to a chair from the beginning lol.
To me the worst I injustice of his actions and this whole situation is this,this is a first and very lasting impression of love for her as she is likely to repeat this pattern for a long time. Hence the foreshadowing in the title of this thread. While she has some responsibility, the brunt of fault lies with him and yes...because he knows better. He should've simply said no...period. It is a grave injustice to put a very young person in that kind of emotional danger. I'm simply pissed about it.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What's your moon and Venus sign?


Moon: Virgo Venus: Libra
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Posted by beautifulsoul74

What you're experiencing is the lesson that will constantly smack you if you don't change. The people may change but the storyline won't. But with each experience you lose a piece of your spirit...your heart. Regardless of the fact that they're legally separated, he's keeping you out of the most important thing...



This.
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Posted by DMV
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Does anyone really think that a 30 yr old leaves family for an 18 he old? Nah.
Personally this feels slightly creepy. You can be 18 and still in high school! Ew


He aint leavin shit for some youngster who cant even go have a drink at a bar. Wtf
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Lol!
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Posted by LaSag
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Does anyone really think that a 30 yr old leaves family for an 18 he old? Nah.
Personally this feels slightly creepy. You can be 18 and still in high school! Ew


Doesnt have any kids and she doesnt even live there so what family are you talking about ?
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would u let your 18 year old teenager date a 30 year old man?
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Posted by LaSag
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Does anyone really think that a 30 yr old leaves family for an 18 he old? Nah.
Personally this feels slightly creepy. You can be 18 and still in high school! Ew


Doesnt have any kids and she doesnt even live there so what family are you talking about ?


would u let your 18 year old teenager date a 30 year old man?


i dont have any kids so i wouldnt know.. my mom is fine with it and shes 75 her and my dad have been married for 56 years and my dad is 10 years older than my mom and i personally dont believe age has anything to do with how much you care about a person

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its unnatural and extremely taboo. Beautiful Soul is right, your doing a great disservice to yourself because your allowing this to set the template of how you view relationships going forward.
are there no guys your own age that you like? that like you back?
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Posted by feby16aqua
Your Mom is 75 and you are 18...and your Dad is 85?


im adopted
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i dont believe a word of your story
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why in the world would 1 person in her 50s and 1 in his 60s adopt a kid?
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Posted by DMV
i dont believe a word of your story


sorry you feel that way but its true..
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