Moving too fast and cold feet

The sag wants to move in ... two kids in tow ... apparently she's been dreaming about a relationship with me for a few years now and just waited until now to tell me. So, she's ready to move really fast.

All I have to really go on is the feeling I have when I'm with her ... it's soooo strong, indescribable, spiritual, sub-conscious feeling of contentment with her

...but, I dare say ... we don't really know what each other are like in the day to day grind. Our time together has always been so limited that all we do when we are together is sex.

I've already bought tickets to Hawaii. Hopefully spending 2 weeks there with her and her family will clear some things up.

Two weeks ain't gonna do it. I know it feels like a "strike while the iron is hot moment" but you should take your time. She thinking of the past...the old you. You have no idea what each of you is like now.

Isn't she married or something? Sound to me like she trying to escape and landing right into your lap without resolving her current situation.

I also want to say that if there is a connection, its always going to be there regardless. Be smart and take your time.

u & ur crazy women

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I also want to say that if there is a connection, its always going to be there regardless. Be smart and take your time.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I also want to say that if there is a connection, its always going to be there regardless. Be smart and take your time.

but if i follow your advice, think of all the great drama you guys will miss out on.

So, instead, i just bought her a plane ticket to Texas. She was only going to stay for a couple of days, the purpose being to meet my kids so they wouldn't feel so "thrown into it" when she shows up for good later. That plan has already morphed into she's staying with me for 2 weeks and just flying out when she has to meet up w/ her kids for the flight to Hawaii.

I'm excited, but lol, a couple of red flags are popping up. Whatever, I will hope that the love lasts forever, but if it doesn't, I will enjoy it for as long as it does last ... and then you guys will start hearing a lot of crazy shit again 😛

but yes, beautifulSoul, she is fleeing into my lap so to speak ... so you have the situation surmised well. But I had a vision man ... at least for a moment we were happy and old together.