When Guys

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by beautifulsoul74
No offense but I get a chuckle out of the premise that a guy is being lazy. Hell, what do you define as "pursuit?" Isn't it obvious that he's pursuing you when he offers his number? I mean, isn't it lazy to then say he had to ask for yours. Him giving you his number says nothing and boils down to simple over analysis. It doesn't say anaything really. There are plenty of players, assholes, etc that ask for your number. Simply put, it says nothing...expectations say everything. The same stsndard can be applied. If he's lazy etc then it can be said that you are. Sadly, it stuff like this that keeps men and women from having a good relationship or even starting one.
What if the two people involved had a really great conversation beforehand? So you discount him because he gave you his number? Honestly, who gives their or asks for a number shouldn't matter or even be a big deal. Its a freakin number exchange not marriage! Smh

Yea, it was different but I didn't want to automatically assume anything. Shit, he may of just wanted to chill and nothing more. We played pool the whole night and hung out w our buddies.
You never really know peoples intentions till you make the text or call I think.
Sort of stuck-up to assume people are automatically into you. I will either ask or make a move to see whats up.

I wonder if thats your venus aqua talking

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by beautifulsoul74
No offense but I get a chuckle out of the premise that a guy is being lazy. Hell, what do you define as "pursuit?" Isn't it obvious that he's pursuing you when he offers his number? I mean, isn't it lazy to then say he had to ask for yours. Him giving you his number says nothing and boils down to simple over analysis. It doesn't say anaything really. There are plenty of players, assholes, etc that ask for your number. Simply put, it says nothing...expectations say everything. The same stsndard can be applied. If he's lazy etc then it can be said that you are. Sadly, it stuff like this that keeps men and women from having a good relationship or even starting one.
What if the two people involved had a really great conversation beforehand? So you discount him because he gave you his number? Honestly, who gives their or asks for a number shouldn't matter or even be a big deal. Its a freakin number exchange not marriage! Smh

Yea, it was different but I didn't want to automatically assume anything. Shit, he may of just wanted to chill and nothing more. We played pool the whole night and hung out w our buddies.
You never really know peoples intentions till you make the text or call I think.
Sort of stuck-up to assume people are automatically into you. I will either ask or make a move to see whats up.

That's funny, I've heard many women say this when previously I'd assumed it was something more negative.
Innocuous miscommunication on both sides, I guess.
I personally think the only thing that's lazy is giving people a facebook or something non-personal. I like the whole scenario of playing pool for a whole night when we've just met. But I like dreamy soulmate type stuff like that!

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Posted by DMV
This is the world weve created ladies. Fatherless sons, baby daddys, more fatherless sons, cycle continues. Women raising men, doesnt work. The generations before us have failed and here we are. Women asking men out. #FAIL

Posted by DMV
wait hold up. He didnt even tell you to give him a ring sometime? He just dropped it on your lap? Did he say anything?

Posted by Sag89

Posted by DMV
wait hold up. He didnt even tell you to give him a ring sometime? He just dropped it on your lap? Did he say anything?

No lol I mean when me and my friends were leaving he said you should take down my number and we should hang out sometime. I was just using it in a way of speech.
I feel like pisces guys always so weird towards me. Weird little fishes.

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by DMV
wait hold up. He didnt even tell you to give him a ring sometime? He just dropped it on your lap? Did he say anything?

No lol I mean when me and my friends were leaving he said you should take down my number and we should hang out sometime. I was just using it in a way of speech.
I feel like pisces guys always so weird towards me. Weird little fishes.

yeah fish men can be pretty evasive and sooo passive

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Posted by DMV
the square aint easy. starts out well and crashes n burn. thats my experience every time. My Mars in Virgo also square their sun.

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
So lemme ask yall womens a question. Are yall scared of rejection??? I've always thought thats why most women never ask a man for his number.

men can be cruel sometimes. When things go wrong in a relationship, most like to remind you that you were the one that chased them. Women don't do that. And besides, traditionally, it is a man's job to lead...take initiative. Nobody wants some feminine dude that waits on you to make all the moves. That's so unattractive to me. Speak up or forever hold your piece, Mich

Bullshit.
Secondly, I personally have no problem asking a woman for her number because as a youngin I slept with rejection, so as a man, It doesn't bother me. Plus, all that ass, face,and personality, has got to be mine because obviously closed mouth's don't get fed since most women don't initiate contact. On the flipside, men and women can only see physical appearance and personality when they first see someone that jumps their bone, but not if this person is relationship quality for your preference.
Thirdly, you're basically saying that if a man waits on a woman to ask him for his number, he's a man bitch? So if he didn't, and he asks you first, he can't be bitch? How many men have asked you for your number and in the end, he ended up being a bitch/fake? Be honest. This goes back to my second statement because you can only see what is shown..

Do women really say that, "you asked me 1st"? I mean it's so expected for a guy to be the initiator, I don't see how it'd turn into a big deal in the end.
To address your other points, I like aggressive men period. I don't deal with pussy men. A man, in my preference/mind, should be like a lion & a woman be like an impala (type of deer). Hunt, baby

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Posted by Sag89

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by beautifulsoul74
No offense but I get a chuckle out of the premise that a guy is being lazy. Hell, what do you define as "pursuit?" Isn't it obvious that he's pursuing you when he offers his number? I mean, isn't it lazy to then say he had to ask for yours. Him giving you his number says nothing and boils down to simple over analysis. It doesn't say anaything really. There are plenty of players, assholes, etc that ask for your number. Simply put, it says nothing...expectations say everything. The same stsndard can be applied. If he's lazy etc then it can be said that you are. Sadly, it stuff like this that keeps men and women from having a good relationship or even starting one.
What if the two people involved had a really great conversation beforehand? So you discount him because he gave you his number? Honestly, who gives their or asks for a number shouldn't matter or even be a big deal. Its a freakin number exchange not marriage! Smh

Yea, it was different but I didn't want to automatically assume anything. Shit, he may of just wanted to chill and nothing more. We played pool the whole night and hung out w our buddies.
You never really know peoples intentions till you make the text or call I think.
Sort of stuck-up to assume people are automatically into you. I will either ask or make a move to see whats up.

That's funny, I've heard many women say this when previously I'd assumed it was something more negative.
Innocuous miscommunication on both sides, I guess.
I personally think the only thing that's lazy is giving people a facebook or something non-personal. I like the whole scenario of playing pool for a whole night when we've just met. But I like dreamy soulmate type stuff like that!

I'll play pool with you anytime T!

It's been a crappy couple of days for me and you made me smile

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by DMV
everything cool Tiz?

I've accepted I attract the type of relationship where a woman acts impulsively without thinking about me when it counts. I've attracted that my whole life so far, so the common denominator has to be me. Nothing major has to change but I just recognise what I want now and let everyone know this week.

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Damn, Pvaf just deleted, lololol.
D.I.P.

thats unfortunate

yea!

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
So lemme ask yall womens a question. Are yall scared of rejection??? I've always thought thats why most women never ask a man for his number.

Nah I just like it when men take initiative. Plus I'm traditional in many ways and prefer it when men take the lead.

Besides being a traditionalist, why can't a man take the lead after you've asked him for his number? Does it make you look aggressive?

Pardon the interruption. To be honest it's a fair question. However I really don't know how that would turn out because I've never tried it.

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Posted by DMV
everything cool Tiz?

yeah, I wouldn't know where to begin. No massive drama. I've accepted I attract the type of relationship where a woman acts impulsively without thinking about me when it counts. I've attracted that my whole life so far, so the common denominator has to be me. Nothing major has to change but I just recognise what I want now and let everyone know this week. A little stability is actually very exciting for me nowadays, all that cute impulsive stuff of the past does nothing for me right now.

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Posted by Sag89
I feel like my post brought up alot of bad history for people : / I'm sorry!

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
So lemme ask yall womens a question. Are yall scared of rejection??? I've always thought thats why most women never ask a man for his number.

My guy friends tell me one of the reasons i'm single is that i'm direct. .

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
So lemme ask yall womens a question. Are yall scared of rejection??? I've always thought thats why most women never ask a man for his number.

My guy friends tell me one of the reasons i'm single is that i'm direct. .

Thank god for that. Rare in a woman these days!

Ha. Yes and no. The thing about apparently being intimidating is it's almost solely the douchebags that approach me. At least they're easily identifiable by their Axe.
But yeah, aces in every other aspect. Thanks.

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
So lemme ask yall womens a question. Are yall scared of rejection??? I've always thought thats why most women never ask a man for his number.

My guy friends tell me one of the reasons i'm single is that i'm direct. .

Thank god for that. Rare in a woman these days!

Ha. Yes and no. The thing about apparently being intimidating is it's almost solely the douchebags that approach me. At least they're easily identifiable by their Axe.
But yeah, aces in every other aspect. Thanks.

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Posted by WaterCup

Posted by TheProphetProdigy
lol ya really think like that when a guy gives you his number? what if he didn't have his phone on him.

LOL I've seen guys scratch a girl's # on their ashy legs, so not having a phone with you is so excuse. Scratch it on that ashy leg if you're really serious.

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Posted by Sag89
Give you their number...

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by Sag89
Give you their number...

I always ask the woman for her number.
Sure she might be playing games, but what is up with guys giving a chick their number?
Does the guy pull the pen and paper out of his little man-purse?

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Posted by TheProphetProdigy
Lol @young and dumb if you give a woman your number. I'm not looking for love when I exchange numbers with a woman, I'm looking to continue what we had earlier which was a conversation and getting to know another. I feel too much of a thought process gets put into who trying to get who's number.

Posted by DMV
This is the world weve created ladies. Fatherless sons, baby daddys, more fatherless sons, cycle continues. Women raising men, doesnt work. The generations before us have failed and here we are. Women asking men out. #FAIL

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
There is nothing dramatic about exchanging numbers. Nor is it gender specific.
And since you want everything to be how it used to be, you're letting out the fact that back in the day women were supposed to be seen not heard.
So why are you speaking? I guess you only mirror what benefits you.