I dont know what happened...scorpion woman.pisces man

We have been dating 6 months liked each other for a year. Everything was great until I asked him about why he lied about a woman that brought him a gift. The lie was silly and as a follow up I asked him if there was something he needed to sort out I would...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Angie35scorp on Friday, September 23, 2016 and has 71 replies.
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Why are you following his order about your cat and other stuff? Go get it lady. Not unless he is away.

Yeah cat favorite pet of most Scorpios.

I have that too when I was young.

He said he wont be around hes in a different state to so dont want to waste the airfare
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Posted by Angie35scorp
Another update this man is screwing with me he sent me a simple txt ...love you... what on earth??? I think I need to just cut him off my mental health is at stake if I entertain him
Because he just realize you are not a fool OR he just realize you don't react on what he says and and thinking you are still cool. I know that calm exterior of a scorpio there lies the raging volcano going to erupt. An angry Scorpio willing to die and die with honor. We don't know the word defeat. We keep fighting till we get the victory. The battle is real for us. And we rarely forgive of betrayal.

We get even. We don't want that disrespect and betrayal just pass by. Revenge will takes place but takes time planning to make it succeed.and I am sure he will be wounded and you're gonna be satisfied after that. Omg. I did that as well during my 20's to 30's. But Angie, if you can overcome that madness, do it lady. The Eagle scorp will rise above of that hatred, anger, revenge thing. They soar high and heal themselves with forgiveness and compassion. That dark energy will only hurt your soul even if you succeed the revenge.
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Thank you xxx

Posted by Angie35scorp
He said he wont be around hes in a different state to so dont want to waste the airfare
So who is taking care of your cat while he is away?


Posted by cosmica
Posted by Angie35scorp
He said he wont be around hes in a different state to so dont want to waste the airfare
So who is taking care of your cat while he is away?


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His son. Hes 17.
Go get your cat back then
Posted by cosmica
Go get your cat back then
Yes your right ...I don't know why I'm so unsure of what to do.
You love(d) him and he played you. I would feel very insecure myself.

Don't let him get away with this any longer. Get your stuff together and move on to better things. You've got this!
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You love(d) him and he played you. I would feel very insecure myself.

Don't let him get away with this any longer. Get your stuff together and move on to better things. You've got this!
Hes now.ignoring me everytime I txt about collecting my things. I thought when men don't want to be with you they cant wait to get rid of you im really getting annoyed. Good thing out of this is that love cloud is lifting.
Just a quick update: He has agreed I can collect my cat in a couple if weeks or whenever I want. It was like pulling teeth he was ignoring me for a long time. Now hes agreed I no longer contact him. I've realised he loves being the one to ignore me so I just don't give him the opportunity to. When he sends me pics and videos of my cat I just say....she looks well thank you. Thats it.

Right now I have to focus on finding somewhere to live. As like I said I'm sharing with a friend as the plan was to move to his state in a couple of months. I'm looking forward to being on my own and concentrating on me.

I'm still hurt but not in the fog.

Thank you all for helping me.

Xxx
Posted by Angie35scorp
You guys have really helped me to see things clearly. Like I said I was in an emotional blur. Now having to find somewhere to live etc. I just couldn't figure out what actually happened it all happened so quickly and sometimes when your going through it you cant tell what the hell is going on.
there are definitely bad men out there who cause this "emotional blur" to confuse and cover up what's REALLY going on at the time... the constant pleas to believe him LOL sounds aaaaaaall too familiar... my ex looked directly into my eyes and told me a lie, which I knew was one, and kept telling me, "look at my eyes... you believe me right?!" so i swallowed my better judgement, and chose to believe him. this only prolonged the mess that was my own emotional blur. he had me so confused geezus... it ended up VERY badly for me... i dont want the same for you. find a healthier man.
Posted by Angie35scorp
Just a quick update: He has agreed I can collect my cat in a couple if weeks or whenever I want. It was like pulling teeth he was ignoring me for a long time. Now hes agreed I no longer contact him. I've realised he loves being the one to ignore me so I just don't give him the opportunity to. When he sends me pics and videos of my cat I just say....she looks well thank you. Thats it.

Right now I have to focus on finding somewhere to live. As like I said I'm sharing with a friend as the plan was to move to his state in a couple of months. I'm looking forward to being on my own and concentrating on me.

I'm still hurt but not in the fog.

Thank you all for helping me.

Xxx
you are doing the right thing for you and your fur baby... your responses to the videos are perfect. just hope he really does stop contact for your own sake. they like to try to swim back every now and then to test the waters. just keep your distance in every way from now on.

Is anyone here I need some urgent advice. I went to collect my cat and he is not home. I've called a billion times but he hasn't answered I've left loads of messages nothing his son hasn't come home either I'm not sure what to do. Can I call the police even though he's not home? I'm in the USA but I'm British and I am not sure how it works out here
UPDATE: So it turns out he has been in a relationship with a woman for the past 12yrs. They split 2yrs ago but as far as the woman was concerned they were trying to work things out. She has 1 child for him and shes pregnant again. She told him she was pregnant a few days before he finished with me.

Found this out this weekend. His daughter called me asking sooo many questions eventually she told me what was going on shes so upset he's having another child he has quite a few.

I don't feel upset. I feel vindicated if you like. He really tried to make out that I was a bad person. Coming on here some people said it was my fault and my character that caused what happened to happen.

In fact he's just a lying cheat. Nothing to do with me.

I'm guilty of just being naïve.



I don't know if his behaviour is typical of a Pisces man.


So, you couldn't get anyone's attention on your other thread ... so you decided to try this one and see if you can get anyone to bite, to come entertain you with your continuing ridiculous story that revolves around you being a victim.


You're not a victim, nor a martyr .... you're just an attention whore, trying to drum up more pity by pretending to be an innocent bystander to circumstances.


the truth is ... you're at fault for all of it. You're not naïve .. you're stupid.
Posted by Angie35scorp
UPDATE: So it turns out he has been in a relationship with a woman for the past 12yrs. They split 2yrs ago but as far as the woman was concerned they were trying to work things out. She has 1 child for him and shes pregnant again. She told him she was pregnant a few days before he finished with me.

Found this out this weekend. His daughter called me asking sooo many questions eventually she told me what was going on shes so upset he's having another child he has quite a few.

I don't feel upset. I feel vindicated if you like. He really tried to make out that I was a bad person. Coming on here some people said it was my fault and my character that caused what happened to happen.

In fact he's just a lying cheat. Nothing to do with me.

I'm guilty of just being naïve.



I don't know if his behaviour is typical of a Pisces man.
he sounds like an okay guy.

He was split for two years with the other woman when he started dating you. And he split with you when she told him she was pregnant.

It's just bad luck you can't have that gentleman.
Update: so the woman that he's been having a relationship with called me today! She found me on Facebook apparently she found something with my name on it left in the house she didn't go into details. Sooooooo here comes the good part!! He was literally telling us exactly the same things about moving buying a house etc. The difference was he dumped me before it came into reality and she was about to move in with him!! When I was staying with him he was picking fights with her so she wouldn't call or talk to him. We spoke about time lines and it turned out he did a great job hiding us from each other ...I was even impressed at his organizational skills!!

So I think this concludes my question of what happened. Oh I almost forgot there is a 3rd woman that the first woman met I'm just unsure how far he went with her.

Posted by Infinite8

Wow. You really know how to pick-um?




It's doubtful that any of this is even real.

She seems to get off on getting attention from the drama she sends out.

For example: a mature adult would just walk away, whereas, she appears to be bathing in the drama of it

There's no need for updates .. unless you're a drama queen

Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Angie35scorp
Update: so the woman that he's been having a relationship with called me today! She found me on Facebook apparently she found something with my name on it left in the house she didn't go into details. Sooooooo here comes the good part!! He was literally telling us exactly the same things about moving buying a house etc. The difference was he dumped me before it came into reality and she was about to move in with him!! When I was staying with him he was picking fights with her so she wouldn't call or talk to him. We spoke about time lines and it turned out he did a great job hiding us from each other ...I was even impressed at his organizational skills!!

So I think this concludes my question of what happened. Oh I almost forgot there is a 3rd woman that the first woman met I'm just unsure how far he went with her.

Wow. You really know how to pick-um?


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When I look back it all makes sense I'm so grateful Im not as invested as the other woman she has 12yrs with him on and off and she said every time there has been other women. I had a lucky escape she has alot more to sort out she's been moving her things into his home she's got another little child. She also explained the reason why he was reluctant to give me my stuff back. She says he always keeps his ex's close and him holding on was to make sure I would have to communicate with him regardless. She seems nice enough but after it all really sunk in she was very upset. I'm just pleased I'm out of it!!
Posted by Infinite8
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Posted by Infinite8

Wow. You really know how to pick-um?




It's doubtful that any of this is even real.

She seems to get off on getting attention from the drama she sends out.

For example: a mature adult would just walk away, whereas, she appears to be bathing in the drama of it

There's no need for updates .. unless you're a drama queen

I don't see the need for an update either. Most of us just cared about the safety of the CAT

All these updates are just a rehash of something that should be insignificant in her life right now.

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Like I said I came on here to find out ab
Like I said I came here to find out about pisces men not that I learned a whole lot about them on here but when I was reading around some people never concluded their experience. If anyone in the future reads this we they will understand from beginning to end what happened. They may be in a similar position. So if your not interested don't read it! Move swiftly along!