My Scorpio man...makes me feel? (Page 3)

I get it and then I don't. Lol I can be cynical too neuro! It was more of wondering what he found funny vs getting offended 🙂

Is that what it is, my air mercury? Sheesh.

And I think neuro is a huge Trololo. He brings the comedy to this drama.

Awwwkward lol

Lol thanks watery...


And if only things were that simple.

It is a troll lol. Type in Trololo song on YouTube, ultimate troll

It's just a joke and also used for snarky people, even if helpful.

Oh you get to be snarky but I don't? That's a shitty card I was dealt.

....your wife, kids? Lol

Posted by Agentgem24
And did it cut off or did you get the whole novel? It's showing cut off midpoint on my end

There's more? *put on kettle and get comfortable*

Posted by Agentgem24
Noo irresistible Scorp, I didn't say that TO him. I was speaking out loud.

I told him I liked not just his looks but his personality too. I liked that he had ambition and goals very similar to mine and a good head on his shoulders. I liked that he is sweet and romantic and loyal to me. I also said although he has quirks and things he does that highly annoy me I tolerate them because I want him in my life and it's what makes up who he is. I know I have quirks etc he didn't like. I said there were certain things I didn't like in guys I dated and the 2nd it surfaced I ran away because it was too much drama to deal with. I said if he does something that bothers me I will tell him and an genuinely interested in making us work. Some of the quirks annoy me yet I smile at them deep down oddly enough.

I told him in the short time we have been together I have seen more in the future and had thoughts I never had before than when with an ex of 4 years. I told him I am not going anywhere and want to be with him...just not to be cold with me or push me away because then there will be nothing I can do but I want to do everything in my power to be with him and make him happy.

Uhhh, wasn't the question "what do you like about me?" There seems to be a lot of focus on you....just sayin'.

And yes, you talk a lot, but you're growing on me. Odd....

Posted by Agentgem24
It's abandonment issues and needing to be reassured. It's an inner demon I have just like Scorp has inner demon he needs to work on as to opening up more and showing more affection.

Define more affection please. This^^^seems to contradict something you wrote earlier.

Posted by Agentgem24


Perhaps he can help make me more of a confident and secure person...

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I'd tread lightly here. This is not his responsibility; it's yours.

Posted by Neurotoxin
Bah.

You're on my shit list now.

LOL!

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Posted by PhoenixRising
There seems to be a lot of focus on you....just sayin'.

And yes, you talk a lot, but you're growing on me. Odd....

Not to be funny but I hear this is pretty much how all Gem-Scorp relationships start out.

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in my experience Gem females yes, Gem males, not so much. There is a Gem girl in my office and she has said more in 6 months than my office husband has said in the 7 years we've worked together. I had to tell her to be "still" once....she's growing on me though.

I find Gem males insightful, stimulating--and here's the bonus know when to STFU!!!...this works better with my need for silence. This is not to say that I don't find Gem females stimulating, I have just found that the ones I have encountered rattle on way too much about nothing at all.

Posted by tiziani
So it's like she's one of you now.

I think what makes the length of this thread so amazing is ...the length of this thread. And the fact that it takes seven years to post a comment lately.

anyrate... now i dont feel as bad about going on and on after my ex and i broke up

Posted by robyn808


Lol, So.. something that's not a great thing to say to Taurus, would be anything that would give them the impression you would bail. Obvious motivation being security. Is very difficult to take back any doubt that has been planted about how much we can count on you, b/c we will hold on to that expectation, and see you differently. We wont put a lot of effort into trusting you, and can limit how we figure you into our future plans. This doesn't mean you can't override what you said and move forward. It's just a lot easier and faster if you never say something like that in the first place.

Now back to similar behavior??_ Testing people, pushing people away. Even though I can look at that after and say, yeah that's not fair for me to do that, or always totally realistic. I don't really know I'm doing it when it happens. The best way I can describe it??_ It's just an instinctual natural reaction I have to certain situations.

Like if in the heat of the moment someone says —I can't deal with you anymore??...it might be my instinct to take that literally and tell them to get the fuck out, and never come back if that's the way they feel. And I will believe that until they explain they meant otherwise. Or different situation could be me like... —Oh really this is want you want? You sure about that? Let's see if you can take me at my worst!?? And if you don't give up on me, ok I??ll trust you 😄

Well, I can't (and won't) speak for other Scorps, but this pretty much sums up how I approach the issue of trusting someone and allowing them in my space. I am trying to manage the impulse to push (which is done in an effort to protect myself) when I think someone might bail ("I can't deal with you anymore"), but I believe it is an instinctual response. I will protect myself at all cost. I always found it an interesting paradox. I can handle almost anything the world throws at me and approach many challenges in life with this mindset ("I can survive anything"), but apply that to matters of the heart? I'm not taking the risk. I may crumble to bits if I trust the wrong person. So if I get even the smallest hint that a person will withdraw, I am already preparing for and starting to live a life without them. Months later they are just figuring it out.

I'd post more beyond my response above, but this slow sh*t is getting on my last nerve. I never know what will post and what won't. I think I answered the question anyway.

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Posted by Agentgem24
Yeah I really want to work towards my insecurities. That is the best feeling to have. Knowing security and they love you even if they are with a female friend, are acting distant, or that they will come back after a fight,

If just takes time to build up to it. It's not out of love people get possessive and insecure, it's fear.

Also, fuck I phone for having the worst auto corrects and typos.

Yes, I hope you do b/c they will destroy relationships!!

Not to sound rude but you would drive me away if I were your man. Have you ever thought about if he was emotional like you all the time? I always try to picture what I would feel if I were in the others shoes.

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Right. But people's perceptions of others are always different. What you may run away from, he just may very well run to... perhaps he wants to 'fix' something in her that he wants to fix in himself...thus the attraction and why he would stay with her when someone else may leave.

Hm who knows! Yeah I'm Gemini sun, Aquarius rising, libra moon, with Gemini mercury and jupiter...plus ADHD. I'm one talkative mofo!

I may drive you crazy at times but I feel people wouldn't waste their time if they hated me. The sheer post number! Wow. That was sweet neuro btw🙂

Still annoyed at how long it takes to post....

I have noticed one thing though and not just here...people LOVE to pick on me lol. They mean well though. I guess I'm easy target...or have a lot of material.

The Scorpio female that sits next to me finds me hilarious for some reason. My facial expressions, stories, and randomness.

I said something that I really didn't think was that funny the other day and she was laughing so hard she couldn't breathe? 0.o

I like the abuse...deep down😉

I used to purposely do stupid things or make myself an easy target for my Leo ex because I know he liked picking on me and I liked his reaction lol. Sometimes I didn't do it on purpose, but there were many times when I did!

Agreed.

Voodoo...Voodoo.

Also Neuro, your picture creeps me out. But yes, I am an Aquarius rising so I will not object to my weirdness.