Scorpio mental dissatisfaction limits

Posted by Apis

How long has your ass been seeing this guy?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Apis

How long has your ass been seeing this guy?

9 years! Does it make any difference for you? You don’t follow me do you? Too bad...lol

Nope, sorry.

9 fucking years? Are you kidding me?

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Posted by Jade_Alexander

How long have you been together?

He should leave because he’s done, not because he’s hopping into another relationship. But most men won’t leave and be done alone... they don’t like alone.

Does this mean you’re leaving your husband now?

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So you were 61 when you met him?

Posted by Gemitati

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

Posted by GemCurio

Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Jade_Alexander

How long have you been together?

He should leave because he’s done, not because he’s hopping into another relationship. But most men won’t leave and be done alone... they don’t like alone.

Does this mean you’re leaving your husband now?

I am not leaving my husband NOW!

I am just living my life waiting for Scorp to get on same page with me.

And shit is boiling so...I just can’t write a book here...just chapters. Lol

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Posted by JuneGeminiGirl

Posted by Gemitati

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by GemCurio

Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

I was just giving a real example.. Point is as "passionate" as those Scorps are they are either doing it or not doing it. They really aren't ones to make excuses. Unless.... You already know what goes here.

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Posted by Apis

You're Italian, right?

Posted by Apis

Just buy a fucking Vespa, a dildo with a suction cup, and call it a day like a normal old lady..

Just wear a helmet.

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by JuneGeminiGirl

Posted by Gemitati

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yep! You dwelling on fucking HUG!

I have history...

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Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std??? This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

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No, he is just as set on appearing happy, just like his wife, and will continue to mess with you until you finally realize it’s not going anywhere.

He is never going to leave her, someday you will see that.

I think if he had the choice, he would.

9 years is a damn long time and jelllllll, what is love anyway.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Get married! Gave birth to kids. Ease them. Love them. Have a 30 years life together...then speak up!

Now forever hold your peace!

Really! How can you even talk on a subject never had nusband, children, in-laws?

Common! Shit up!

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Posted by Apis

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You're Italian, right?

No! He is...lol

Does he wear a gold chain and show his chest hair with his button down shirt?

I have a theory that all scorpio men are basically Burt Reynolds.

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Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std??? This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

Yeah true, that's another very possible option. He might be victimizing himself to keep her around cause making up stories is what gets him in the place who got to with her...wife might be perfectly fine and have no clue about any of that meanwhile he is a proven cheater. Well I'm not sure how can anyone trust a guy with such situation, he doesn't even sound too persuasive. It's almost like he's making fun of it and just checking how far can his bs selling go

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Posted by Sag898

WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Apis

Just buy a fucking Vespa, a dildo with a suction cup, and call it a day like a normal old lady..

Just wear a helmet.

My mother is 6 years older than op, happily divorced, and a bf whose 38 😏

There is life after divorce, even if your older. Op is just to chicken shit to pull the trigger.

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Posted by JuneGeminiGirl

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by JuneGeminiGirl

Posted by Gemitati

Several months ago I’ve posted that I had stumbled upon his wife FB where in every picture she was hanging over him and he was just hands down staring in the camera...

I never told him about it. We don’t have social media and this visual made me sick and sad because as I’ve explained before I rather die him to be happy even if I am not involved than unhappy because of him being involved with me.

So today we had longest ever phone conversation and all of a sudden he said ‘when we are eating out they want me to be in a picture with them and I refuse and they give me shit about it and I just don’t want my pictures on FB for their satisfaction that all of their friends looking and thinking about our happy family witch is crap!’

I almost said I saw some of those ‘happy’ images but I’ve decided I’ll say in person...

So he asked ‘what would you say? How would you get out of this fake crap and refuse to be in a picture?’

I said well...my love...I would simply say I do not want to participate in the game you are playing with your FB friends because I don’t want to pretend to be happy because I am not’...he sigh...then said yes, that’s exactly what is running trough my mind...’ and I had interrupted and said ‘wait! You aren’t me! You aren’t ready yet but when you ready - this will come to you and jump out of you like it was the only thing was there to say...but THEN you will have to face concequences and think about one thing...what worse can happen than dreaming of being buried alive and live in a horror of those dreams hunting you?

I said you will be ready when you are. Just make sure it won’t be in a cardiology unit! Because I wouldn’t be able to be there to save you...

He said ‘too bad...I’ll try to have you there no matter what’...I said STFU!

And of course we laughed...

Before ‘pictures’ crap he told me things that’s going on that he used to let go and Nevermind and now he doesn’t let it slide! He gets right back at whoever is trying to ‘be smartass’...

We were discussing business and people and I was yelling in his face about him MUST to come out dark place and stale pond...and he shared last days details etc.

My question is...can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying FUCK! Enough is enough!

I am claiming my life back!

I can’t Do It anymore!!!

Years of torture are over!!!

I want to breathe...and yes...you will all be financially taken care of!

Pack and leave...

AND YOU BEEN COMING FOR ME....GIRL PLEASE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yep! You dwelling on fucking HUG!

I have history...

Fuck you SIDE CHICK....LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std??? This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

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Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by GemCurio

Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

I was just giving a real example.. Point is as "passionate" as those Scorps are they are either doing it or not doing it. They really aren't ones to make excuses. Unless.... You already know what goes here.

Of course I know! I am just wondering how long can he survive this shit before his Scorpio brain will say...enough!!!

He's not going to. He's getting everything he needs from the secrecy and anticipation. The thoughts behind it, the codependency, the darker side initiative without the act. It has become enough. It's sometimes better than actually doing for both your signs. If it was really an upsetting situation for him, he'd just explode and run. My best friend is Scorpio of and I've known him for half my life. There would be arguments daily, he'd have reasons to walk out or be in a room all night by himself. The environment would be so hostile that everyone would see it coming. All his close friends would know about his problems at home & that he was on the verge of separation. He would take care of all his duties, but the environment would be chaotic.

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Posted by GemCurio

I apologize but people are not what they say. That's the mask they wear. We ALL are what we do. You are listening and laughing to sweet words waiting on a never coming promise land, and the Scorpio is the crooked preacher selling you a dream while robbing you of time, life, thoughts, and emotions you don't get back. He's a vampire and you're his sippie cup...

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std??? This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

Yeah true, that's another very possible option. He might be victimizing himself to keep her around cause making up stories is what gets him in the place who got to with her...wife might be perfectly fine and have no clue about any of that meanwhile he is a proven cheater. Well I'm not sure how can anyone trust a guy with such situation, he doesn't even sound too persuasive. It's almost like he's making fun of it and just checking how far can his bs selling go

Reading her threads always makes me feel grateful to have my life. I hope I’m never that lonely and afraid where I have to settle for someone whose unavailable.

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Posted by Apis

You're Italian, right?

No! He is...lol

Does he wear a gold chain and show his chest hair with his button down shirt?

I have a theory that all scorpio men are basically Burt Reynolds.

Lmao! Yes he does!!! I would like you but that clapping hand shot reminds me of my Cap husband who does it and I WANT TO KILL HIM!!! are you a Cap? What is this shit means...clapping hands? Not working dick??? Lmao

No, not a Cap. The clapping is for the gem side hoes as they take the walk of shame in the morning

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Posted by ellesbelles

"can something drive a strong and hard headed Scorpio into throwing a towel and saying treetrunk! Enough is enough!"

Yes.

However, it has to be substantial. He has an Aries Moon like me....and we are forever optimists. Tomorrow is a new day...blah, blah, blah....and we will endure for gotdamn forever thinking if we just hold on a little longer we will turn that corner and all will be right in the world.

The only time I give up is when there was clear disrespect on their side...like unforgivable events of disrespect where people cant come back from.

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I just can't anymore! She has turned into DXP's Benny Hill.

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Posted by GemCurio

Side chicks aren't priorities to no man and for some reason I have met plenty of Scorpio men with Gemini Women as side chicks. I know one Scorpio man who just was in jail for 3 years and had his Gemini side chick still claiming them as closest friends even though he's going home to another woman.. And he still has another year in jail and went to jail for beating her up...It is what it is..

I am not side chick! We don’t have sexual anymore. We sort things out until we know what’s what and all we do is discussing things. As a friends. But it is probably will fly above your cocoo best anyway!

I was just giving a real example.. Point is as "passionate" as those Scorps are they are either doing it or not doing it. They really aren't ones to make excuses. Unless.... You already know what goes here.

Of course I know! I am just wondering how long can he survive this shit before his Scorpio brain will say...enough!!!

He's not going to. He's getting everything he needs from the secrecy and anticipation. The thoughts behind it, the codependency, the darker side initiative without the act. It has become enough. It's sometimes better than actually doing for both your signs. If it was really an upsetting situation for him, he'd just explode and run. My best friend is Scorpio of and I've known him for half my life. There would be arguments daily, he'd have reasons to walk out or be in a room all night by himself. The environment would be so hostile that everyone would see it coming. All his close friends would know about his problems at home & that he was on the verge of separation. He would take care of all his duties, but the environment would be chaotic.

So...is it still going on? For how long?

If he is not pulling away hard and fast and what I mean by that is within a 60 day period, he's not moving away. His actions are not pointing in that directions and either way, now or later, it will cost time, money, and people are going to be hurt if his happiness is outside his "home". So he would just do it, get it over with and stand for what he wants, and explain to his children, attorneys, and colleagues. Scorpios DO NOT Fuuuukboi around with their emotions or the things they want no matter the cost, judgments of others, or who it hurts. You should just stop watching the clock because you're going to be in this moment/situation/scenario you're in for a long while.. My condolences..

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Posted by LadyNeptune

If his wife (allegedly according to the story he fed you) cheated and infected him with an std and it STILL wasn’t enough to get him to end the marriage...idk why you would think his annoyance at taking photos with her is gonna change anything.

Kinda idiotic logic there...

Wait what? wife cheated on him AND gave him std??? This detail I didn't read before lol

Yep, he's never leaving her. 100% sure. He's just cheating cause of his own pride got hurt, getting mental satisfaction for the hurt that was done to him

Again, according to him...

Personally I think he’s just covering his ass, explaining the std he got from another side chick. This is what cheaters do, they vilify their wife/gf to normalize the cheating. We don’t know his wife...we do know he’s been a cheater for (minimum) 9 years 🤷‍♀️

Yeah true, that's another very possible option. He might be victimizing himself to keep her around cause making up stories is what gets him in the place who got to with her...wife might be perfectly fine and have no clue about any of that meanwhile he is a proven cheater. Well I'm not sure how can anyone trust a guy with such situation, he doesn't even sound too persuasive. It's almost like he's making fun of it and just checking how far can his bs selling go

Reading her threads always makes me feel grateful to have my life. I hope I’m never that lonely and afraid where I have to settle for someone whose unavailable.

You might die looking for your dream at 103! What a great perspective! At least I have accomplished something by bringing a person to the world!

What are you gonna do? Harbor dogs and paint old wooden shit?

Ok. To each it’s own!

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Posted by hydorah

how long have you been married together?

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Posted by Sag898

WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

5 years was just a business shit.

We were crazy but he was holding on because I was coming with my husband and they were ‘business partners’ so he held his horses! Lol

Then shit just happened...it’s a such a long story! Fuck or no fuck - we are emotionally together and he comes to me for every little thing and we had tried to brake up but it just not in a near future.

We bonded. By whatever means.

Our kids grown up now.

He is getting fed up. More and more...

So...my question remains...I can wait! I don’t care! He is the man!

And no one marching up!

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Posted by i-xy

It is good to consider all options until all has been implemented to no success. Then people can call quits. Otherwise, it is passively letting the relationship go while providing commentaries.

Posted by Sag898

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Posted by Sag898

WOW you have been having an affair for 9 years and the wife never found out? LOL she sounds like a dumbass ( sorry ) but really?

Maybe she hates him

5 years was just a business shit.

We were crazy but he was holding on because I was coming with my husband and they were ‘business partners’ so he held his horses! Lol

Then shit just happened...it’s a such a long story! Fuck or no fuck - we are emotionally together and he comes to me for every little thing and we had tried to brake up but it just not in a near future.

We bonded. By whatever means.

Our kids grown up now.

He is getting fed up. More and more...

So...my question remains...I can wait! I don’t care! He is the man!

And no one marching up!

Interesting

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I just can't anymore! She has turned into DXP's Benny Hill.

ROFLMAO!

STAHP

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Posted by i-xy

It is good to consider all options until all has been implemented to no success. Then people can call quits. Otherwise, it is passively letting the relationship go while providing commentaries.

Pricinding commentaries? Elaborate please...

I mean, if he has problems with the wife, has he brought it up to her? Seek counseling? It seems like he vents and watches it all fall but that's about it. It's not actually trying but instead it's avoiding guilt if it all falls apart.

It's almost safe to say that it's good to stay in the sideline bc you're never going to be right or wrong. You play that neutral position and that's what he likes. The fact that he can come to you while he vents about his relationship and at the same time gets to have sex with you. There's an appeal to it. The question is, will it stay the same once you both decide to get out of that safe zone.

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