What to expect with a Scorpio Mars?

Posted by AgentP911

Has he asked you out on a date?

Posted by DMV

That would depend on your level of comfort.

Are you okay with the conversations?

If you are....proceed

If not...speak up

Posted by lilyofthevalley

Posted by DMV

That would depend on your level of comfort.

Are you okay with the conversations?

If you are....proceed

If not...speak up

I’m not very comfortable and I do speak up about it without being outright rude, but I feel like he likes the challenge.. it’s like a push and pull.

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Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by DMV

Posted by lilyofthevalley

Posted by DMV

That would depend on your level of comfort.

Are you okay with the conversations?

If you are....proceed

If not...speak up

I’m not very comfortable and I do speak up about it without being outright rude, but I feel like he likes the challenge.. it’s like a push and pull.

He has several fixed placements and fixed signs are very my way or the highway.

Mars in Scorpio, you have to be strong and confident and not let them try to rule over you. Set healthy boundaries early on.

A lot of men and women will temperature check you. See how much they can get away with.

Tell him how you expect to be treated. You want to be treated like a precious object that he would never want to lose. You want to be treated like tickets to his favorite concert and not like some old T-shirt that he can replace.

That’s the thing with people. Most are so used to stuff that they don’t know how to cherish things when they have them.

You almost have to scare a Mars in Scorpio into respecting you

^this is exactly it. Great description.

They are very pushy and it makes me run for the hills because I’m not about those games.

I don’t notice this with the women as much but I’ve dealt with several Scorpio Mars men and it’s annoying as hell.

It’s so unattractive.

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Posted by LittleStar_II

Posted by MyStarsShine

Being openly sexual is good but when you're trying to get to know someone initially and the sex talk takes precedent over all else, that can be annoying. I've had men do that and it just turns me off unlike when I'm with someone in a relationship, then sexual openness (for me) is a must....

This.

All the pushiness and sex talk before I barely know them and also haven’t even had a chance to become attracted makes them come across very shallow and self centered.

Seems like they are desperate to meet their own needs.

But they might be totally different that’s just how they’ve come across to me.

I have Cancer Mars and I can deal with Pisces Mars but Scorpio Mars just harshes my mellow.

My Pluto is smack in the middle of Scorpio tho so it could be that conjunction that’s creating that annoyance.

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by lilyofthevalley

I’m talking with this guy who’s a Cap Sun, Scorpio Mars, Aqua Venus and Taurus Moon.

He’s got me on edge. We’ll talk for hours about intellectual things (and we get along really well in this regard) but he’s starting to go really heavy on the blunt flirting and sexual talk. The longer he knows me, the more it happens. We’re still talking intellectually, but now it’s always ending with sex talk, no matter if I try to discourage him..

I want to know, what does it mean? Should I be concerned about his intentions for me? Or is this normal Scorp Mars behavior after the intellectual door has been opened and he feels comfortable?

By the way I’m Libra sun, Virgo Venus, Aries Mars and Cap moon

As a scorp mars, the mars is a very small part of the zodiac picture. I would think more about his venus, there's probably truth in the venus being the man's idealised woman. Is he into quirky girls? Or save the planet idealists?

It sounds like you have the brakes on. Maybe for a justified reason.

I don't do sex talk unless I comfortable with someone. The way the mars could manifest itself during sex is about pushing boundaries. Maybe he is gauging your comfort level. Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who was on a different level sexually.

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Posted by lilyofthevalley

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by lilyofthevalley

I’m talking with this guy who’s a Cap Sun, Scorpio Mars, Aqua Venus and Taurus Moon.

He’s got me on edge. We’ll talk for hours about intellectual things (and we get along really well in this regard) but he’s starting to go really heavy on the blunt flirting and sexual talk. The longer he knows me, the more it happens. We’re still talking intellectually, but now it’s always ending with sex talk, no matter if I try to discourage him..

I want to know, what does it mean? Should I be concerned about his intentions for me? Or is this normal Scorp Mars behavior after the intellectual door has been opened and he feels comfortable?

By the way I’m Libra sun, Virgo Venus, Aries Mars and Cap moon

As a scorp mars, the mars is a very small part of the zodiac picture. I would think more about his venus, there's probably truth in the venus being the man's idealised woman. Is he into quirky girls? Or save the planet idealists?

It sounds like you have the brakes on. Maybe for a justified reason.

I don't do sex talk unless I comfortable with someone. The way the mars could manifest itself during sex is about pushing boundaries. Maybe he is gauging your comfort level. Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who was on a different level sexually.

Well the thing is, I love really sexual men. Love them! So I could handle this if we were in a relationship. But all the sex talk before even meeting the guy is turning on my fear instincts a bit. Also, I don’t want him to see me that way, just a sex partner...he’s a successful, smart guy and can have whatever girl he wants, but I don’t want to just be a girl on his list. Which is why I ask if it’s possible that he could take me seriously, talking like this. To be honest it seems so second nature to him. Like a part of his personality. Which is why I thought his Mars could be involved

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Posted by LittleStar_II

Scorpio Mars men are fuckbois in my experience. Have never been able to take them seriously.

Posted by lilyofthevalley

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by lilyofthevalley

I’m talking with this guy who’s a Cap Sun, Scorpio Mars, Aqua Venus and Taurus Moon.

He’s got me on edge. We’ll talk for hours about intellectual things (and we get along really well in this regard) but he’s starting to go really heavy on the blunt flirting and sexual talk. The longer he knows me, the more it happens. We’re still talking intellectually, but now it’s always ending with sex talk, no matter if I try to discourage him..

I want to know, what does it mean? Should I be concerned about his intentions for me? Or is this normal Scorp Mars behavior after the intellectual door has been opened and he feels comfortable?

By the way I’m Libra sun, Virgo Venus, Aries Mars and Cap moon

As a scorp mars, the mars is a very small part of the zodiac picture. I would think more about his venus, there's probably truth in the venus being the man's idealised woman. Is he into quirky girls? Or save the planet idealists?

It sounds like you have the brakes on. Maybe for a justified reason.

I don't do sex talk unless I comfortable with someone. The way the mars could manifest itself during sex is about pushing boundaries. Maybe he is gauging your comfort level. Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who was on a different level sexually.

Well the thing is, I love really sexual men. Love them! So I could handle this if we were in a relationship. But all the sex talk before even meeting the guy is turning on my fear instincts a bit. Also, I don’t want him to see me that way, just a sex partner...he’s a successful, smart guy and can have whatever girl he wants, but I don’t want to just be a girl on his list. Which is why I ask if it’s possible that he could take me seriously, talking like this. To be honest it seems so second nature to him. Like a part of his personality. Which is why I thought his Mars could be involved

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