What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females
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TaurusLovesScorpio,
wow you really love your Scorpion woman. Its a great feeling knowing a man notices the depths of a scorpion, rather than just her appearance x
wow you really love your Scorpion woman. Its a great feeling knowing a man notices the depths of a scorpion, rather than just her appearance x
Scorpio woman will take you on a Journey you'll never forget 
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..Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Alright look....I wrote all of that off of just two months of making frequent eye contact with this girl. That's how smitten I am from the spell she has weaved. Perhaps I know nothing. Give me some real advice....hahahaha...Maybe that is a bunch of idealistic bullshit. Truth is - I'm terrified of this woman. But I do feel like I love her and FEEL more for her than any other woman I've ever been with, and all of this off of just LOOKING at her. And the thing is - that really impresses me. I just never *feel* this much. I'm usually SO emotionally strong and in control. I swear on my life I looked at this woman one day and caught her eyes, and I had to leave my desk because I almost shed a tear. I DO *NOT* CRY. Not because I'm too cool or tough to cry; I often wish I could cry just to feel something more deeply emotionally. Even have tried to make myself cry.....
Fellow bulls - please share your stories. My deepest fear is that this woman is just fucking with me, because she can...
Does she know this? How you strongly feel about her?!?
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
This woman is a metaphysical anomaly, a glitch in the Matrix; she is Jean Grey of the X-Men straight out of the Marvel Universe. Fellow Taurus men - listen to me like you have never listened to anyone before. Put down the potato chips and get your slow, plodding, lazy ass into the gym and lean out so you are as sexy as possible and your own magnetism is at full force. Broaden those shoulders, and replace that pathetic pouch around your waste with a rippling vest of abs. Bring your body to her in its best condition out of respect for what this woman has to offer. Seek out your Scorpion Queen and position yourself next to her as often as you can. Let the magic just happen. If you are proud of your Taurean magnetism as I was, let me tell you that you have nothing on the Scorpio female's magnetism. You are a refrigerator magnet; she is a whirling dynamo of molten metal at the core of the earth, generating the magnetic field that protects it. Thank the Creator of the Universe for this strange undeserved blessing -- that this woman is somehow instantly intrigued or attracted to you in some way.
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Hey 87 - I mean I kinda have. I've given her that "Oh my God, you are the hottest thing I have ever seen!" sort of look. Its very obvious, so much so that she smoulders deeper in response to it. Almost an evil smoulder which I like. I like my women to be a little dark and have that evil sort of sexiness. I kinda take a deep breath and shake my head, widening my eyes, like "wow" when she walks towards me with that sexy walk. The walk is out of this world, she knows JUST how to move her hips. I doubt she thinks I know that she does that very intentionally. No woman walks that sexy naturally. The hips just do not have to move that much to get a person from point A to B. Plus I looked out the window and saw her walking in the parking lot, and her walk is NOTHING like that naturally. Hahahahha...Even in the morning when she's obviously a little tired and grumpy, the walk is not like that. She sexes it up real big when her energy peaks around lunchtime and our stare games really begin. Scorpio women seem to have a really good understanding of what their great attributes are, and when courting someone they seem to be very ready to use them. And they have alot - the eyes, the movement, the facial expressions - it is all deadly weaponry. They aim that stuff right at you. The Scorpion is a predator so I guess it makes sense. I wouldn't go too far in this direction, but I think there are obvious analogies between the nature of the person and their respective zodiac symbol. There's alot about me that's physically and behaviorally like a bull for instance. So I actually read about scorpions to better understand this girl (yes, that is how bad I have it for her. I am out of my mind.)
One thing I was wondering about was the Scorpio psychic ability/telepathy, whatever the hell it is - magic basically. Do you feel like you have that? This woman is SO PERCEPTIVE. She knows exactly when I'm looking at her and I can tell. She doesnt' look around at other people that much at all, but she seems to always be aware of everything that is going on around her. Its hard to explain how I know that, but its just obvious to me. In reading about Scorpions I found an analogy for this in the fact that their bodies are covered with eyes.
I plan on telling her how I feel but in a much more cryptic and indirect way. She'll know, but I'm not going to gush all over her now like I want to. I think I would've, had I not had time to think about it.
One thing I was wondering about was the Scorpio psychic ability/telepathy, whatever the hell it is - magic basically. Do you feel like you have that? This woman is SO PERCEPTIVE. She knows exactly when I'm looking at her and I can tell. She doesnt' look around at other people that much at all, but she seems to always be aware of everything that is going on around her. Its hard to explain how I know that, but its just obvious to me. In reading about Scorpions I found an analogy for this in the fact that their bodies are covered with eyes.
I plan on telling her how I feel but in a much more cryptic and indirect way. She'll know, but I'm not going to gush all over her now like I want to. I think I would've, had I not had time to think about it.
scorched - I'm laughing at myself, believe me. I read that s h i t that I posted at the beginning of this thread again today. Pretty embarrassing. That's not me to talk like that (plus I come off as foolish giving advice to other people on the kind of woman they want, when I am obviously not even IN a relationship with this girl).
But that's where my emotions are at at this point. If a Scorpio puts this hex on you, you are gonna be searching this forum for this thread...hahahhahah
But that's where my emotions are at at this point. If a Scorpio puts this hex on you, you are gonna be searching this forum for this thread...hahahhahah
Here's another possible analogy between the Scorpio and the Scorpion. I have never been involved in such a powerful exchange of energy during a courtship with any other sign. Everything seems to be through vibes/energy/magnetism/etc. From the wiki entry on Scorpions:
"Mating starts with the male and female locating and identifying each other using a mixture of pheromones and vibrational communication. Once they have satisfied the other that they are of opposite sex and of the correct species, mating can commence"
These little things are quite erotic and like foreplay alot. They dance, kiss each other, massage each other, sting each other, there's apparently even some sex toys involved...Hahahaha....There is something called the spermatophore that he plants and lowers her onto...Sorry if this is grossing anyone out.
They do this kind of kiss where they are massaging each other's mouth parts, some think to keep the female from becoming too aggressive and eating the male. Hahahaha...let me know if you see any analogies here. I get the feeling that if this girl and I ever locked lips, we would be kissing and making alot of eye contact the majority of the time we made love.
Doesn't sound like they are the type that likes to cuddle after sex though: "Immediately after sperm transfer, the scorpions will violently disengage and one or both of them will attempt to escape."
hahaha...
"Mating starts with the male and female locating and identifying each other using a mixture of pheromones and vibrational communication. Once they have satisfied the other that they are of opposite sex and of the correct species, mating can commence"
These little things are quite erotic and like foreplay alot. They dance, kiss each other, massage each other, sting each other, there's apparently even some sex toys involved...Hahahaha....There is something called the spermatophore that he plants and lowers her onto...Sorry if this is grossing anyone out.
They do this kind of kiss where they are massaging each other's mouth parts, some think to keep the female from becoming too aggressive and eating the male. Hahahaha...let me know if you see any analogies here. I get the feeling that if this girl and I ever locked lips, we would be kissing and making alot of eye contact the majority of the time we made love.
Doesn't sound like they are the type that likes to cuddle after sex though: "Immediately after sperm transfer, the scorpions will violently disengage and one or both of them will attempt to escape."
hahaha...
scorched, you wrote: " i've seen them bewitch people before but i honestly have no idea why their victims fall for it. once you understand the "why" behind what they're doing it takes a lot of the power away. i guess you just haven't been around a lot of them."
Can you give me some insight into the "why" in some of these scenarios? Is power over others or power of any form just the goal here? My readings say they are oriented towards power mainly.
My father is a Scorpio. Most amazing man I have ever met in my life, not manipulative at all. Very kind and we just click and understand each other like no other people on earth. Male scorpios seem *very* different though.
Maybe your experience of the familial female scorpios oriented you away from them romantically. That happened with me and Virgos. They say taurus loves virgo. I think they make good business associates, but I could NEVER consider one of them romantically. My mom was so frigid; she seemed to have no sexuality to her or aesthetic sense at all. She never slept with my scorpio dad, made him sleep on the couch because he snored, and eventually left him and has stayed alone for the rest of her life. I was a very affectionate child and I could sense she didnt' really like it. From an infant, I would kiss her alot and try to hug her, etc. and she would almost cringe. They seem to be really practical in love and not very passionate. When I see that weakness they have (they seem really weak as far as their presence and constitution), and that nervous energy crackling behind their eyes, I just instantly see them through the lense of my mother. I see that Virgos are almost always attracted to me. We click on a communication level but they hold NO sex appeal for me, and they always seem to want romantic relationships from me. I have to keep pushing them off.
There was one super hot Virgo I knew in college; she threw herself at me. Literally grabbed my hand at a party and walked me back to my apartment (a few floors up), told me she wanted to hook up acting all passionate, then she flopped herself in my lap....As soon as I initiated touch, she seemed to get overwhelmed; she got super nervous and was like "maybe we shouldnt' do this" and then just wanted to talk and hang out. Probably the most un-sexy annoying experience of my life.
Can you give me some insight into the "why" in some of these scenarios? Is power over others or power of any form just the goal here? My readings say they are oriented towards power mainly.
My father is a Scorpio. Most amazing man I have ever met in my life, not manipulative at all. Very kind and we just click and understand each other like no other people on earth. Male scorpios seem *very* different though.
Maybe your experience of the familial female scorpios oriented you away from them romantically. That happened with me and Virgos. They say taurus loves virgo. I think they make good business associates, but I could NEVER consider one of them romantically. My mom was so frigid; she seemed to have no sexuality to her or aesthetic sense at all. She never slept with my scorpio dad, made him sleep on the couch because he snored, and eventually left him and has stayed alone for the rest of her life. I was a very affectionate child and I could sense she didnt' really like it. From an infant, I would kiss her alot and try to hug her, etc. and she would almost cringe. They seem to be really practical in love and not very passionate. When I see that weakness they have (they seem really weak as far as their presence and constitution), and that nervous energy crackling behind their eyes, I just instantly see them through the lense of my mother. I see that Virgos are almost always attracted to me. We click on a communication level but they hold NO sex appeal for me, and they always seem to want romantic relationships from me. I have to keep pushing them off.
There was one super hot Virgo I knew in college; she threw herself at me. Literally grabbed my hand at a party and walked me back to my apartment (a few floors up), told me she wanted to hook up acting all passionate, then she flopped herself in my lap....As soon as I initiated touch, she seemed to get overwhelmed; she got super nervous and was like "maybe we shouldnt' do this" and then just wanted to talk and hang out. Probably the most un-sexy annoying experience of my life.
87Scorpio,
May 14, have a bunch of Leos. I am: Sun - Taurus/Moon - Leo/Mercury - Aries/Venus - Gemini/Mars - Leo/Jupiter - Cancer/Saturn - Leo/Uranus - Scorpio/Neptune - Sagitarrius/Pluto - Libra/Ascendant: Capricorn/Midheaven: Scorpio
I can't overstate how much our situation is similar. I have never felt like this before. She makes me nervous, scared, etc. And I can *tell* she is picking up that her sexuality doesn't work on me in the same way. I'm probably *more* attracted to her than any other woman I've seen in my life, and I'm also more attracted to her than the other men around me. They all think she is hot but I literally ask them questions like "Are you falling in love with this girl? Is she the hottest woman you've ever seen?" to see if they are experiencing what I am. They are not.
I can tell she's confused. I don't know what to do. I can almost never bring myself to approach her. I actually mustered up the courage on Friday and she was on her phone talking on the way out when I went to go do it, so I just turned around. I watched her walk through the parking lot from the window. Total creepy stalker move. Again, not me. I'm doing things and expressing myself in ways that are totally uncharacteristic of my normal self.
I'm afraid you're right about where this will all go. After this weekend I've thought about things and pretty much talked myself out of going up to her and any chance of this working. I'm feeling like she'll get bored, I won't move, and it'll just fade. But we'll see - with us being so close to each other, we are going to be bumping into one another alot. The worst part with my situation is I feel like I've rejected her somewhat out of fear, and she is going to sting my ass! I definitely saw a look of anger or frustration a few times from her. One day I had kinda ignored her just trying to get her out of my head, and by day's end she looked REAL angry! She walked out and was actually looking right in my eyes mouthing some words, with a real mean look. AAAA! I was terrified. LOL!! I couldn't tell what she was doing - singing a song, putting a curse on me, etc. The next day she looked all sweet though.
May 14, have a bunch of Leos. I am: Sun - Taurus/Moon - Leo/Mercury - Aries/Venus - Gemini/Mars - Leo/Jupiter - Cancer/Saturn - Leo/Uranus - Scorpio/Neptune - Sagitarrius/Pluto - Libra/Ascendant: Capricorn/Midheaven: Scorpio
I can't overstate how much our situation is similar. I have never felt like this before. She makes me nervous, scared, etc. And I can *tell* she is picking up that her sexuality doesn't work on me in the same way. I'm probably *more* attracted to her than any other woman I've seen in my life, and I'm also more attracted to her than the other men around me. They all think she is hot but I literally ask them questions like "Are you falling in love with this girl? Is she the hottest woman you've ever seen?" to see if they are experiencing what I am. They are not.
I can tell she's confused. I don't know what to do. I can almost never bring myself to approach her. I actually mustered up the courage on Friday and she was on her phone talking on the way out when I went to go do it, so I just turned around. I watched her walk through the parking lot from the window. Total creepy stalker move. Again, not me. I'm doing things and expressing myself in ways that are totally uncharacteristic of my normal self.
I'm afraid you're right about where this will all go. After this weekend I've thought about things and pretty much talked myself out of going up to her and any chance of this working. I'm feeling like she'll get bored, I won't move, and it'll just fade. But we'll see - with us being so close to each other, we are going to be bumping into one another alot. The worst part with my situation is I feel like I've rejected her somewhat out of fear, and she is going to sting my ass! I definitely saw a look of anger or frustration a few times from her. One day I had kinda ignored her just trying to get her out of my head, and by day's end she looked REAL angry! She walked out and was actually looking right in my eyes mouthing some words, with a real mean look. AAAA! I was terrified. LOL!! I couldn't tell what she was doing - singing a song, putting a curse on me, etc. The next day she looked all sweet though.
87Scorpio (continued),
I think she is testing me, and I am sort of testing her. This is definitely a kind of power struggle we get locked in and its probably a microcosm of what the relationship would be like. But I get high off her - its like an intense opiate when I feel we are both looking at each other and expressing that interest/attraction.
I find it really interesting and mysterious to be locked in this sort of phenomena that apparently alot of Taurus/Scorpios are experiencing. I've read alot of boards and there are a ton of them doing this same dance. A scorp just posted a new thread on this board last night, going through the same thing.
What about your fantasies and daydreams and stuff? Do you think about this guy like alot? Honestly, she consumes my thoughts.
I think she is testing me, and I am sort of testing her. This is definitely a kind of power struggle we get locked in and its probably a microcosm of what the relationship would be like. But I get high off her - its like an intense opiate when I feel we are both looking at each other and expressing that interest/attraction.
I find it really interesting and mysterious to be locked in this sort of phenomena that apparently alot of Taurus/Scorpios are experiencing. I've read alot of boards and there are a ton of them doing this same dance. A scorp just posted a new thread on this board last night, going through the same thing.
What about your fantasies and daydreams and stuff? Do you think about this guy like alot? Honestly, she consumes my thoughts.
87scorp:
I'm going to give you my advice for whatever its worth....
I think the scorpion, being the natural predator (with all those weapons and whatnot), and usually the braver to just go after what she wants, should approach. She has the more assertive energy. But most scorpions are photophobic - afraid of light; hide in dark places to avoid exposure and vulnerability to other predators. There's an analogy in there to the Scorpio woman afraid to be vulnerable with her emotions, for fear of being hurt. And really it seems, from what I've read, that she's more than scared of being hurt, but scared of being out of that control she usually has, and without power in general. From what I've read a Scorpio will seldom discuss her own weaknesses, be able to laugh at herself, etc. She has a strong sense of pride and takes herself and life very seriously - also is just sensitive deep down despite the hard armor.
Bulls on the other hand, in *my* experience, even though they may tell a lie here or there (usually to protect someone's feelings) and can also be proud, have a very strong ability to be honest about their own weaknesses (e.g. see every post I write here) and to be open about their feelings. They are romantics at heart and if you let them know its safe for them to do this, and you won't see it as mushy or *weak*, they will open up with you.
Just tell him up front you need him to take the lead in being open emotionally because you're distrusting at first. If he tries to convince you its ok to trust him and to be open on the spot, tell him he just completely ignored you..hahaha
I *would* encourage you to eventually be vulnerable with your bull though. We are very protective, and it will activate that protectiveness. He sees the way you carry your self and can sense the kind of power you have as a Scorpio just intuitively; this is what attracts him to you. He sees the ability to be vulnerable as a strength (which it truly is, btw). I've seen the Scorpio girl I like vulnerable - looking hurt and confused over some of my dodginess. I really thought it was incredibly *cute* (something men love to see in a woman, but the Scorpio probably isn't too comfortable with), and it was during those times I wanted most to tell her how I'm feeling.
I'm going to give you my advice for whatever its worth....
I think the scorpion, being the natural predator (with all those weapons and whatnot), and usually the braver to just go after what she wants, should approach. She has the more assertive energy. But most scorpions are photophobic - afraid of light; hide in dark places to avoid exposure and vulnerability to other predators. There's an analogy in there to the Scorpio woman afraid to be vulnerable with her emotions, for fear of being hurt. And really it seems, from what I've read, that she's more than scared of being hurt, but scared of being out of that control she usually has, and without power in general. From what I've read a Scorpio will seldom discuss her own weaknesses, be able to laugh at herself, etc. She has a strong sense of pride and takes herself and life very seriously - also is just sensitive deep down despite the hard armor.
Bulls on the other hand, in *my* experience, even though they may tell a lie here or there (usually to protect someone's feelings) and can also be proud, have a very strong ability to be honest about their own weaknesses (e.g. see every post I write here) and to be open about their feelings. They are romantics at heart and if you let them know its safe for them to do this, and you won't see it as mushy or *weak*, they will open up with you.
Just tell him up front you need him to take the lead in being open emotionally because you're distrusting at first. If he tries to convince you its ok to trust him and to be open on the spot, tell him he just completely ignored you..hahaha
I *would* encourage you to eventually be vulnerable with your bull though. We are very protective, and it will activate that protectiveness. He sees the way you carry your self and can sense the kind of power you have as a Scorpio just intuitively; this is what attracts him to you. He sees the ability to be vulnerable as a strength (which it truly is, btw). I've seen the Scorpio girl I like vulnerable - looking hurt and confused over some of my dodginess. I really thought it was incredibly *cute* (something men love to see in a woman, but the Scorpio probably isn't too comfortable with), and it was during those times I wanted most to tell her how I'm feeling.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
87Scorpio,
May 14, have a bunch of Leos.
I am:
Sun - Taurus
Moon - Leo
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Cancer
Saturn - Leo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Ascendant: Capricorn
Midheaven: Scorpio
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
here's why you're dumb...
I've never pursued a woman in my life from the get-go................
I am always the less needy in the relationship (probably bc I've mostly dated Cancers).
huh?click to expand
You were probably "less needy" because you have a fire stellum.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
TAURUSbelle, definitely love writing/storytelling. My Venus is in Gemini (don't gasp; I know that has a bad rep.). I actually prefer to court through writing back and forth with a potential lover. I feel that the medium of writing gives the deepest look into the fabric of a person's mind. Mercury in Aries.
You wrote: "...but remember to STAY GROUNDED. Keep it SLOOooOOOW & STEADY fellow bull. I write my "overflowing" emotions in a Journal. Its only every now & then I verbally express myself to my Scorp in spurts. Slooowly..crumb- by- crumb. If you give EVERYTHING away..she will eat and drink you, EMPTY & DRY..Leaving nothing behind.?
WOAH, that hit me hard. That is really good advice, so obviously true, and the exact opposite of what I was going to do. I was going to just confront her Friday and finally sit down and have that convo about what the hell is going on. You know what the plan was? To spill the beans entirely, even though everything I've read says Scorpio probably wont' respond that well to the *full* disclosure, and I need to keep the mystery alive (fairly easy to do as long as I have that in mind).
Thx for the welcome and sound advice, which I will take. Isn't it amazing? Information that you just conveyed to me will alter the course of my destiny with this other person, when I finally confront her. Ripple effect blows my mind.
PLEASE follow my advice to a "T"...bcuz the fall from the steep cliff that ur currently standing on now..will be a deep & hurtful one if you don't keep your feelings in check, to yourself and on reserve. The only thing you need to do is "Elevator small talk"..introduce yourself..and see where it goes from there..
And please refrain from calling anyone names on here.. you haven't even been here for 5 days and you're starting to spark up fire in one the calmest boards here on DXP.. please keep the peace. Scorched was only telling you the truth, mainly because reading your posts is like watching a spinning top spin haywire at the edge of the table right before it falls off.
I completely understand that you may be infatuated with the scorpio woman..but you haven't even EXCHANGED NAMES with her yet. Personally, I like your writing style , you write how you think. These posts, let us into your [obsessive] thoughts.
You probably even speak fast...but once again, RESPECT 1st.
LunarMaiden,
You wrote: "You were probably "less needy" because you have a fire stellum."
>>>Can you elaborate on this?
TLS
You wrote: "You were probably "less needy" because you have a fire stellum."
>>>Can you elaborate on this?
TLS
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LunarMaiden,
You wrote: "You were probably "less needy" because you have a fire stellum."
>>>Can you elaborate on this?
TLS
You chart is predominantly fire which would make you a bit more independent and less in need of attention and reassurance.
Even though you may love this, it's probably not something you persistently seek!!!
Thx Lunar....yeah, I'm like 40% fire, then the next largest is 25% water. Leo is the dominant sign in my chart, and I just realized Scorpio is the second most dominant. Need to look further into all this. Haven't really given serious attention to dominant planets, signs, or the modes/elements.
Posted by scorchedearth
TLS, i'm sorry if i hurt your feelings when i said that. that wasn't my intention. i'm a really blunt person and sometimes it gets me in trouble.
my thing is really that your feelings are at an obsessive degree and that can get really unsafe really quickly. you're building this girl up in your head and have written about how scorpios are our soul mates when you don't even know her. in truth, you could take her out to coffee and be so bored you don't even want to finish the date. you know nothing about this girl. you're just allowing your fixation to make decisions for you.
you could always talk to her and ask her on a date. you might take her out a few times and realize there's no chemistry at all.
He sounds like a scorpio
TaurusLovesScorpio, You're gonna have to make move. She already did when you said she "squared" up to you but you ignored it by staring at your computer. And having read all that, I am not creeped out at all, because I can relate, lol
Yeah some of us can be predatory to an extent, and going by your scorpion mating analogy, maybe she was seeing how the vibrations were since she thought she was feeling something from you. But we are a bit paranoid, so since you didn't respond in kind, she probably thought it was all in her head.
Yeah some of us can be predatory to an extent, and going by your scorpion mating analogy, maybe she was seeing how the vibrations were since she thought she was feeling something from you. But we are a bit paranoid, so since you didn't respond in kind, she probably thought it was all in her head.
The connection is what caught her attention. Its not something that happens to every man a scorpio is around, obviously. That is why relationships can move incredibly fast with scorpios IF they start out from the vibes you describe. If I feel that, it hits me suddenly. Then I observe the person for a while to see if the other person can feel it too. If it looks like it, I approach and make contact. If the person is not receptive, I move on and think it was all in my head or wishful thinking.
And I approach only if I feel that, otherwise the guy has to initiate. My ex leo hubby is an example of that crazy connection, along with my first love (a scorpio, and the only scorp since). Sadly, both didn't work out though, but that connection I felt drew me in instantly.
I had a virgo ex too, but I did not approach him, he did all of the work at first then I developed feelings later.Gemini ex, the same, he had to do the work at first. That connection is the only way to really turn my predatory drive on, otherwise, I act more traditional female
I had a virgo ex too, but I did not approach him, he did all of the work at first then I developed feelings later.Gemini ex, the same, he had to do the work at first. That connection is the only way to really turn my predatory drive on, otherwise, I act more traditional female
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
AreTwoFour, you wrote: "She already did when you said she "squared" up to you but you ignored it by staring at your computer."
>>>LOL. That was one of the most intense moments of my life. The thing is - if I can pick your Scorpio brain here - WHAT in the hell was I supposed to do there? I mean, it was so intense it scared me (in a good way) and I just couldn't hold the gaze, but IN HER HEAD, what response did she want? Stare/smoulder back for eternity? I mean I tuned in for a few seconds....I see that as a turning point. Things were really escalating quickly. She was sexing it up REALLY heavy until that point and I know my reaction confused and possibly hurt her (which sucks). If we had any chance of being friends (doubtful), I would love to *discuss* that moment, apologize, and ultimately laugh about it (at myself of course).
She wanted something... maybe a date? yes, stare back, smile and remember the bull has a HUGE pair, horns and hooves, so play it up. Look at her back and imagine yourself ravaging her on your desk top. That will get herattention, because she may have had that same thought (not that she would actually do that) but we do have dirty minds, and think of millions of things that we would never really do. If she is ignoring you now, think about screwing her brains out and look at her every now and then. If there is a connection, she will feel it, and don't be shy next time, or pretend youre not. Yeah, she will see thru it, but will appreciate it
But be careful what you wish for
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Kinda sad that some bulls think if you show your emotions in free flow we'll just suck you dry. Not all Scorp are vampires. This thinking is probably why my Bull never showed real overflowing emotion for me while we were together. It hurt our connection.
Be who you are! Say what you want when you want to! We want every part of you if we like you. You can never be too emotional if you mean it! We FEED off emotions and are filled up by EMOTIONS. Starving us of emotions gets us looking elsewhere the ole Scorp opening options technique.
JUST BE YOURSELF at all times. Best advice when dealing with Scorp.
Of course we are ourselves..we're just more guarded, logical in the BEGINNING. One can never be too careful with matters of the heart. This is how we are not just with Scorps, but with every and anyone in general. Slowww, calculated and logical..with little expressions at a time..your job is to OBSERVE our actions of dedication & devotion to you, not just our words..
Overflowing emotion, like what TauruslovesScorpio has openly displayed here during the 1st few posts were an ODE!! A Virtual LOVE letter.. DEFINITELY beautiful, but that amount of passion is something one would express LONG AFTER an established & committed relationship has been settled into.
My fellow Taurean here, hasn't even learned her name or had coffee with her yet!!!
There is nothing wrong with being expressive, but to present such a HEAVY infatuation BEFORE even finding out what her name is?? is Troubling.
Now that TauruslovesScorpio, has been able to get that out of his system by writing it all out and re-reading it himself...along with receiving some helpful advice, He can now hopefully be able to think more strategically & clearly and find a way to TAKE action and let the momentum between them build naturally... its his choice.
AreTwoFour, you wrote: yes, stare back, smile and remember the bull has a HUGE pair, horns and hooves, so play it up. Look at her back and imagine yourself ravaging her on your desk top. That will get herattention, because she may have had that same thought (not that she would actually do that) but we do have dirty minds, and think of millions of things that we would never really do. If she is ignoring you now, think about screwing her brains out and look at her every now and then. If there is a connection, she will feel it, and don't be shy next time, or pretend youre not. Yeah, she will see thru it, but will appreciate it
TLS: Ugh...I did this today. You weren't the only one who gave me this advice. I found it on a "How to seduce a Scorpio" website as well. LOL!
So today she was wearing super tight clothing. Incredible body, very curvy and muscular. So she is not making prolonged eye contact when she walks by anymore, but it is *crazy* because at the last second when she is about to go completely out of my sight, she *always* looks over at me; it never fails. I get the feeling that she doesn't give up easily; she retains some bit of optimism even with all the confusion I've given her. Anyway, my eyes drank real deeply of her body today. And I don't have to fake those thoughts of wanting to ravage her; all I have to do is stare at her body and they arise instantly. She definitely picked up on it. She went to the very end of my row - maybe 40-50 feet, positioned herself in one of her little arched sexy/curvy poses, to where she is perpendicular to me, and can tilt her head just a bit to see me staring. (As a quick aside here - people are funny. It is so much safer to give and receive those "I want to ravage you" looks at a distance. As the person gets closer, it really takes balls. That look turns into a platonic "hi, how are you?" and a friendly/professional smile real fast.) So she totally caught me, and I was stunned by how fast she reacted. Sure enough she instantly smiled that evil sexy smile, and here we go all over again....Turned directly towards me, walked straight at me with the sexy temptress walk and smouldering looks; it felt like some sort of lusty reunion with a side of her I hadn't seen in a week. Felt my heart swell up (ever feel that?) and I actually let out this semi-loud moan/sigh thing as I took a deep breath. I do that alot and cannot help it when she walks by...My co-workers probably think I'm real stressed...
TLS: Ugh...I did this today. You weren't the only one who gave me this advice. I found it on a "How to seduce a Scorpio" website as well. LOL!
So today she was wearing super tight clothing. Incredible body, very curvy and muscular. So she is not making prolonged eye contact when she walks by anymore, but it is *crazy* because at the last second when she is about to go completely out of my sight, she *always* looks over at me; it never fails. I get the feeling that she doesn't give up easily; she retains some bit of optimism even with all the confusion I've given her. Anyway, my eyes drank real deeply of her body today. And I don't have to fake those thoughts of wanting to ravage her; all I have to do is stare at her body and they arise instantly. She definitely picked up on it. She went to the very end of my row - maybe 40-50 feet, positioned herself in one of her little arched sexy/curvy poses, to where she is perpendicular to me, and can tilt her head just a bit to see me staring. (As a quick aside here - people are funny. It is so much safer to give and receive those "I want to ravage you" looks at a distance. As the person gets closer, it really takes balls. That look turns into a platonic "hi, how are you?" and a friendly/professional smile real fast.) So she totally caught me, and I was stunned by how fast she reacted. Sure enough she instantly smiled that evil sexy smile, and here we go all over again....Turned directly towards me, walked straight at me with the sexy temptress walk and smouldering looks; it felt like some sort of lusty reunion with a side of her I hadn't seen in a week. Felt my heart swell up (ever feel that?) and I actually let out this semi-loud moan/sigh thing as I took a deep breath. I do that alot and cannot help it when she walks by...My co-workers probably think I'm real stressed...
To AreTwoFour (continued...)
So as she walked towards me, again it was frightening. I could not maintain the look and I actually thought she was going to just walk right up! I looked away again, and she turned and went to the left down an intersecting row.
Anyway - you (and the website) were 100% correct. If I feed her sexual energy, she definitely will lap it up and get aggressive. Something about that saddens me though. The sexual attraction to her comes from a real place, I just find it sad that that is the only place we can meet right now, because it totally sells the feelings I'm having for her short. No exaggeration, this is the most sexually attracted I've been to a woman, but at the same time, I am so much more interested in getting to know her and just talking. Maybe if I just feed her enough of that, she'll approach.
I've figured the problem out though (I think). Let me know if this makes sense. I really think I've stumbled upon a deep insight here:
Neither sign wants to lose the control. Its a balance of power thing. When I am cocky and confident, and even ready to approach her, I can tell she is nervous and feeling out of control. I gain my control and power by *waiting* things out, by *not* pursuing and being passive. The *result* of this delaying is that she (being naturally assertive/aggressive) is utterly confused about how I feel, and she will get a little dodgy (her dodginess is really easy to read - she gets on the phone when she walks by, etc. - total prop - still staring right at me). Now when I feed her ego by showing her how bad I want her - giving her that sexual energy, she charges in so aggressively, that *I* get scared and shut down. As a bull, I naturally just take things SOOOOOO SLOOOOOOOOW that this assertiveness just causes me to duck out, and I become dodgy and unapproachable. After she did the sexy walk today, I hid under my monitor for the last hour of work. No goodbye staredown; I felt bad
LOL.
Does that make sense? From my POV, I think this describes one of the fundamental issues (and problems) in this Taurus/Scorpio mating game.
So as she walked towards me, again it was frightening. I could not maintain the look and I actually thought she was going to just walk right up! I looked away again, and she turned and went to the left down an intersecting row.
Anyway - you (and the website) were 100% correct. If I feed her sexual energy, she definitely will lap it up and get aggressive. Something about that saddens me though. The sexual attraction to her comes from a real place, I just find it sad that that is the only place we can meet right now, because it totally sells the feelings I'm having for her short. No exaggeration, this is the most sexually attracted I've been to a woman, but at the same time, I am so much more interested in getting to know her and just talking. Maybe if I just feed her enough of that, she'll approach.
I've figured the problem out though (I think). Let me know if this makes sense. I really think I've stumbled upon a deep insight here:
Neither sign wants to lose the control. Its a balance of power thing. When I am cocky and confident, and even ready to approach her, I can tell she is nervous and feeling out of control. I gain my control and power by *waiting* things out, by *not* pursuing and being passive. The *result* of this delaying is that she (being naturally assertive/aggressive) is utterly confused about how I feel, and she will get a little dodgy (her dodginess is really easy to read - she gets on the phone when she walks by, etc. - total prop - still staring right at me). Now when I feed her ego by showing her how bad I want her - giving her that sexual energy, she charges in so aggressively, that *I* get scared and shut down. As a bull, I naturally just take things SOOOOOO SLOOOOOOOOW that this assertiveness just causes me to duck out, and I become dodgy and unapproachable. After she did the sexy walk today, I hid under my monitor for the last hour of work. No goodbye staredown; I felt bad
LOL.Does that make sense? From my POV, I think this describes one of the fundamental issues (and problems) in this Taurus/Scorpio mating game.
AreTwoFour - one last thing...sorry for all the blather....
You wrote: But be careful what you wish for
>>>Spoken like every discussion of Scorpio I've read. They all say basically "do not f u c k around with this woman if your intentions are not sincere". And that's the reality right there. At the end of the day, what am I really doing? I've decided I just can't pursue it (esp. if she's in a relationship), and she is a real person with sensitive emotions. So testing her with all these signals is deadly, isn't it? My ultimate goal of reeling her in is just to express to her that I think she is the sexiest most precious thing I have ever set my eyes on, and that it *sucks* that we cannot be together (I'd probably risk losing my job just to let her know that). If we ever get to that point of sharing our feelings, and I pull this sort of romantic tragedy angle, what are the chances my ass is going to get stung? I'm feeling like chances are 60% or greater....Especially if I lure her in with lusty signals; if I don't intend to sleep with her, isn't it just hurtful to convey my lust for her?....At the least its a tease. I've had problems with being a tease (apparently its my venus in gemini) and leading women on the past. I vowed not to do it again after a really bad situation, but its definitely a part of my nature....
You wrote: But be careful what you wish for
>>>Spoken like every discussion of Scorpio I've read. They all say basically "do not f u c k around with this woman if your intentions are not sincere". And that's the reality right there. At the end of the day, what am I really doing? I've decided I just can't pursue it (esp. if she's in a relationship), and she is a real person with sensitive emotions. So testing her with all these signals is deadly, isn't it? My ultimate goal of reeling her in is just to express to her that I think she is the sexiest most precious thing I have ever set my eyes on, and that it *sucks* that we cannot be together (I'd probably risk losing my job just to let her know that). If we ever get to that point of sharing our feelings, and I pull this sort of romantic tragedy angle, what are the chances my ass is going to get stung? I'm feeling like chances are 60% or greater....Especially if I lure her in with lusty signals; if I don't intend to sleep with her, isn't it just hurtful to convey my lust for her?....At the least its a tease. I've had problems with being a tease (apparently its my venus in gemini) and leading women on the past. I vowed not to do it again after a really bad situation, but its definitely a part of my nature....
IntriguedScorp,
thx for the kind words and really encouraging advice. Feels great to be understood. I am still embarrassed by those first posts. It was lame of me to sermonize like that towards other bulls - "Tauruses everywhere! I have gone bat-s h i t crazy and here's why you should too!". I could've expressed the same emotions without the pontificating.
thx for the kind words and really encouraging advice. Feels great to be understood. I am still embarrassed by those first posts. It was lame of me to sermonize like that towards other bulls - "Tauruses everywhere! I have gone bat-s h i t crazy and here's why you should too!". I could've expressed the same emotions without the pontificating.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
To AreTwoFour (continued...)
So as she walked towards me, again it was frightening. I could not maintain the look and I actually thought she was going to just walk right up! I looked away again, and she turned and went to the left down an intersecting row.
Anyway - you (and the website) were 100% correct. If I feed her sexual energy, she definitely will lap it up and get aggressive. Something about that saddens me though. The sexual attraction to her comes from a real place, I just find it sad that that is the only place we can meet right now, because it totally sells the feelings I'm having for her short. No exaggeration, this is the most sexually attracted I've been to a woman, but at the same time, I am so much more interested in getting to know her and just talking. Maybe if I just feed her enough of that, she'll approach.
TLS, don't be sad about that. Don't think scorpio sexual attraction is something shallow. At least not in my experience. You are giving into the stereotype that just because we have sex on the brain all the time, that we are looking for it all the time,and doing it all the time, just to get a physical release. Not necessarily true. Many scorps are celibate until we find that strange, mystical vibe that forms a connection/attraction with someone. When that happens, we want to see where that goes. Shallow unmeaningful sex is disappointing for scorps, and we may have a promiscuous phase in our youth (or not) and learn that, thus the celibacy until we can find it with someone who can transcend the mere physical experience. That is more important that the performance, the position, the duration, or any kinkiness (which is not necessary) or any mechanical aspect of the sex act itself. If I am feeling that connection and wanting that person oh so bad, that I am burning for them night after night, and I can tell they want me the same way, boy oh boy, when it finally happens!.. But then I can almost feel their inner consciousness, their intentions, fears, anger, love, thoughts and their primal hidden animal side, and that is what I want from sex. A connection. Its how I get to know the person, really know them. If I don't feel any of that, its just a physical experience. Meh, I could have just done it myself in the shower or something...
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
wow, " c o c k " is replaced with "chicken" on this forum, so you can't even use the word "c o c k y". I'm so embarrassed by the word "chickeny" showing up in my post, that I had to point that out...
Yeah its the profanity filter. You can turn it off in your settings. That is why the words like "butter, treetrunk, kitty, chicken, just like me, etc.,etc" are so common place. I used to blame it on all the European posters in my lurker days, lol, then I became a potty-mouthed member
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I've figured the problem out though (I think). Let me know if this makes sense. I really think I've stumbled upon a deep insight here:
Neither sign wants to lose the control. Its a balance of power thing. When I am cocky and confident, and even ready to approach her, I can tell she is nervous and feeling out of control. I gain my control and power by *waiting* things out, by *not* pursuing and being passive. The *result* of this delaying is that she (being naturally assertive/aggressive) is utterly confused about how I feel, and she will get a little dodgy (her dodginess is really easy to read - she gets on the phone when she walks by, etc. - total prop - still staring right at me). Now when I feed her ego by showing her how bad I want her - giving her that sexual energy, she charges in so aggressively, that *I* get scared and shut down. As a bull, I naturally just take things SOOOOOO SLOOOOOOOOW that this assertiveness just causes me to duck out, and I become dodgy and unapproachable. After she did the sexy walk today, I hid under my monitor for the last hour of work. No goodbye staredown; I felt bad
Does that make sense? From my POV, I think this describes one of the fundamental issues (and problems) in this Taurus/Scorpio mating game.
I don't think it is a control thing from her, but you have that male ego which turns it into that. Its just probably her thinking "I feel something going on here, Imma check it out and see" and you interpreting that as her trying to capture you or something
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
AreTwoFour - one last thing...sorry for all the blather....
You wrote: But be careful what you wish for
>>>Spoken like every discussion of Scorpio I've read. They all say basically "do not f u c k around with this woman if your intentions are not sincere". And that's the reality right there. At the end of the day, what am I really doing? I've decided I just can't pursue it (esp. if she's in a relationship), and she is a real person with sensitive emotions. So testing her with all these signals is deadly, isn't it? My ultimate goal of reeling her in is just to express to her that I think she is the sexiest most precious thing I have ever set my eyes on, and that it *sucks* that we cannot be together (I'd probably risk losing my job just to let her know that). If we ever get to that point of sharing our feelings, and I pull this sort of romantic tragedy angle, what are the chances my ass is going to get stung? I'm feeling like chances are 60% or greater....Especially if I lure her in with lusty signals; if I don't intend to sleep with her, isn't it just hurtful to convey my lust for her?....At the least its a tease. I've had problems with being a tease (apparently its my venus in gemini) and leading women on the past. I vowed not to do it again after a really bad situation, but its definitely a part of my nature....
That probably won't get you stung because you are being honest. Most scorps respect that. What turns on the crazy is someone knowing that they don't want something meaningful but leading me on and on, because a lot a scorps can be devoted and sacrificing (IF they love you)
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by AreTwoFourPosted by scorchedearth
TLS, i'm sorry if i hurt your feelings when i said that. that wasn't my intention. i'm a really blunt person and sometimes it gets me in trouble.
my thing is really that your feelings are at an obsessive degree and that can get really unsafe really quickly. you're building this girl up in your head and have written about how scorpios are our soul mates when you don't even know her. in truth, you could take her out to coffee and be so bored you don't even want to finish the date. you know nothing about this girl. you're just allowing your fixation to make decisions for you.
you could always talk to her and ask her on a date. you might take her out a few times and realize there's no chemistry at all.
He sounds like a scorpio
i've felt that way about girls before but those are the girls that i slow it down and start a friendship with first. i don't let my scorpio bits win. no sir!
you have to control those feelings or they can take on a life of their own. that can end up really unsafe. as i said.click to expand
My scorpio bits usually win, sadly... lol (not) *sigh*
Posted by AreTwoFourPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I've figured the problem out though (I think). Let me know if this makes sense. I really think I've stumbled upon a deep insight here:
Neither sign wants to lose the control. Its a balance of power thing. When I am cocky and confident, and even ready to approach her, I can tell she is nervous and feeling out of control. I gain my control and power by *waiting* things out, by *not* pursuing and being passive. The *result* of this delaying is that she (being naturally assertive/aggressive) is utterly confused about how I feel, and she will get a little dodgy (her dodginess is really easy to read - she gets on the phone when she walks by, etc. - total prop - still staring right at me). Now when I feed her ego by showing her how bad I want her - giving her that sexual energy, she charges in so aggressively, that *I* get scared and shut down. As a bull, I naturally just take things SOOOOOO SLOOOOOOOOW that this assertiveness just causes me to duck out, and I become dodgy and unapproachable. After she did the sexy walk today, I hid under my monitor for the last hour of work. No goodbye staredown; I felt bad
Does that make sense? From my POV, I think this describes one of the fundamental issues (and problems) in this Taurus/Scorpio mating game.
I don't think it is a control thing from her, but you have that male ego which turns it into that. Its just probably her thinking "I feel something going on here, Imma check it out and see" and you interpreting that as her trying to capture you or somethingclick to expand
Nevermind... cuz that is what we want in a way. Capture you, Yes. Dominate, not really. We might try, but a scorp woman wants a man to be a man.
Posted by 87scorpioPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
This is true. I think that this is where scorps get their "sting" reputation. I have had the experience with too many men, where I have been almost fooled into thinking they want something more intimate (which is what I desire as a scorpio) and then as soon as they get what they want (the sex) then they are off, and that when I personally, feel the need to sting. I have been tricked and usually have to make myself feel better and take back some control rather than being left feeling used.
I don't know if it is the same for other scorpio women, but its these experiences for me, that make it so difficult to open up to new men, and these sorts of feelings (as you get with scorp/bulls) that sometimes can feel too good to be true in a sense. I have to play the games myself to test if they are truly interested in getting to know me better, or whether it is just a sexual magnetism that is going on.
That's my input anyway...
So much in here resonates with the experience with this Scorpio girl. First, I feel she's definitely been conditioned by her experiences with other men to a really significant degree. She seems like she sees men as only wanting sex. The crazy part is that, given that she's in a relationship, that's not what I'm wanting. I really actually just wanted to get to know her; I can tell there is such an amazing person inside of that shell. With the kind of feelings that I've had over this girl, even if it isn't in the cards for now, I can imagine myself meeting up with her when we are old and gray, and falling in love then. What you said about playing games and testing is crazy; she is playing those, I am playing those for the same reasons you mention, and we are both kinda failing each other's tests. I know I am failing her's. I have a dilemma. Usually when women try to use their sex powers on me (Leos are the biggest culprits), like the bent over cleavage flash or whatever, I look them straight in the eye to show them I'm different. I don't want to reinforce the perverted male stereotype. But with this girl, I just can't maintain the eye-contact; it is too intense. So I *have* to look at her waist or some part of her body, and she interprets that as totally sexual. In fact, I project the sexuality with the look bc I know it turns her on soclick to expand
Closing thoughts...
I think this one has pretty much fizzled out for her....which is heartbreaking really, but probably for the best given circumstances. Yesterday I boosted her ego as I said, gave her the sexy looks, and today she is super confident and didn't really even glance my way much at all. Ouch. Its become a game of dominance, without any real trust, and she's gonna take that confidence and run with it. Its probably good that we didn't have that convo; I'm sure attraction would've just increased and put us in a worse spot. I'm honestly going to try to let this one go and not even look her way anymore. It'll be hard, I ordered a scorpion paperweight and I'm going to put it on my desk and stare at it every time I think about looking at her...lol. Sorry, symbolic s h i t like that helps me to adjust my compulsive behaviors.
Strangest thing happened??_.Had a kind of Jungian synchronicity occur when driving home today. A female friend of mine makes me listen to her girly music and I was playing the xx album she is pushing on me ("coexist"). There's a song on there I was listening to where the lyrics really described how things have went in this stare affair ??? how things had kinda gotten hopeless. As I was listening, a car cut in front of me with a giant scorpion bumper sticker (no words). I??m going to take that as a sign??_I??ve never seen a scorpion on a bumper sticker before.
I think this one has pretty much fizzled out for her....which is heartbreaking really, but probably for the best given circumstances. Yesterday I boosted her ego as I said, gave her the sexy looks, and today she is super confident and didn't really even glance my way much at all. Ouch. Its become a game of dominance, without any real trust, and she's gonna take that confidence and run with it. Its probably good that we didn't have that convo; I'm sure attraction would've just increased and put us in a worse spot. I'm honestly going to try to let this one go and not even look her way anymore. It'll be hard, I ordered a scorpion paperweight and I'm going to put it on my desk and stare at it every time I think about looking at her...lol. Sorry, symbolic s h i t like that helps me to adjust my compulsive behaviors.
Strangest thing happened??_.Had a kind of Jungian synchronicity occur when driving home today. A female friend of mine makes me listen to her girly music and I was playing the xx album she is pushing on me ("coexist"). There's a song on there I was listening to where the lyrics really described how things have went in this stare affair ??? how things had kinda gotten hopeless. As I was listening, a car cut in front of me with a giant scorpion bumper sticker (no words). I??m going to take that as a sign??_I??ve never seen a scorpion on a bumper sticker before.
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- On Obsessive Love - I think I'm a fan. There's something in me that wants a chick to boil my rabbit. I can see how this would be scary for a woman if a man is obsessive, but I'm not really worried about it. If I came into work at night and found this girl rummaging through my desk, I'd be like "Wait! Don't run! I understand. And I love you too!" hahahahaha....I'm sorry. I know this won't go over well with some, but truth is I've already seen her obsessive nature. This girl has hawked me more than any other woman ever; I can see a slight craziness in those eyes and honestly it turns me on. Its adorable. Just being looked at by a woman like that, who is that aggressive to just put you right in her sights like you are her prey - that feeling that this woman really knows what she wants and *you* are it - it was SO flattering.
- On my expression here ??? I??m glad I had somewhere to channel some of this. And really you folks just caught the tail-end of it. I was rolling down that river euphoric for a WHILE. And honestly it was divine. In my teenage years I tried every drug. Nothing can compare to this. I still don??t know whether this came from the power of this girl, the chemistry betw. the signs or what, but it is something DIFFERENT. I??m glad I got slapped with a paddle or two before I rowed over the waterfall and dashed against the rocks, but this experience has opened me up emotionally and healed me in some ways. Just the confidence boost to be desired by such a powerful woman is something I will treasure forever. I??m going to be taking some time and using this experience to inspire my music; it is exactly what I needed.
- On Obsessive Love - I think I'm a fan. There's something in me that wants a chick to boil my rabbit. I can see how this would be scary for a woman if a man is obsessive, but I'm not really worried about it. If I came into work at night and found this girl rummaging through my desk, I'd be like "Wait! Don't run! I understand. And I love you too!" hahahahaha....I'm sorry. I know this won't go over well with some, but truth is I've already seen her obsessive nature. This girl has hawked me more than any other woman ever; I can see a slight craziness in those eyes and honestly it turns me on. Its adorable. Just being looked at by a woman like that, who is that aggressive to just put you right in her sights like you are her prey - that feeling that this woman really knows what she wants and *you* are it - it was SO flattering.
- On my expression here ??? I??m glad I had somewhere to channel some of this. And really you folks just caught the tail-end of it. I was rolling down that river euphoric for a WHILE. And honestly it was divine. In my teenage years I tried every drug. Nothing can compare to this. I still don??t know whether this came from the power of this girl, the chemistry betw. the signs or what, but it is something DIFFERENT. I??m glad I got slapped with a paddle or two before I rowed over the waterfall and dashed against the rocks, but this experience has opened me up emotionally and healed me in some ways. Just the confidence boost to be desired by such a powerful woman is something I will treasure forever. I??m going to be taking some time and using this experience to inspire my music; it is exactly what I needed.
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- I still want to catch a Scorpion. The love and interest I??ve felt for this specific scorp, which can??t be pursued, I??m going to apply generally to the archetypal Scorpio woman and just continue to try to understand her so I??ll be ready one day. I??m kinda obligated to give this one Sag girl a try who I??ve been talking to through all this. If that doesn??t work out, I??m going hunting. I may trot on over to the Scorpio den to ask questions and get more pointers. Some time while I am here on this earth, I have to experience this kind of love. I want to thank the Scorps in this thread who have given their insight. Its been tremendously helpful (not to mention flattering) and has convinced me even moreso that there are DEEP unexplored similarities betw. Scorp and Taurus. For years I??ve been dating these Cancers and Virgos and its just not doing it for me. Leos are very attractive to me and I love their sexuality as well, but what I??m really looking for is that *depth* of mental connection and emotion (and the bonus of looking into magical eyes while having freaky mystical soul-melding sex doesn??t hurt either??_lol). I feel like I can really relate to this sign mentally and I??m pissed that I didn??t?? learn this sooner. Not sure where you female Scorps hide out there in the real world. My best male friends have always been Scorpios and they impress the hell out of me. I talk for hours on the phone with my male scorp friends about the deepest s h i t. I have just NEVER met a Scorpio woman.
TLS
- I still want to catch a Scorpion. The love and interest I??ve felt for this specific scorp, which can??t be pursued, I??m going to apply generally to the archetypal Scorpio woman and just continue to try to understand her so I??ll be ready one day. I??m kinda obligated to give this one Sag girl a try who I??ve been talking to through all this. If that doesn??t work out, I??m going hunting. I may trot on over to the Scorpio den to ask questions and get more pointers. Some time while I am here on this earth, I have to experience this kind of love. I want to thank the Scorps in this thread who have given their insight. Its been tremendously helpful (not to mention flattering) and has convinced me even moreso that there are DEEP unexplored similarities betw. Scorp and Taurus. For years I??ve been dating these Cancers and Virgos and its just not doing it for me. Leos are very attractive to me and I love their sexuality as well, but what I??m really looking for is that *depth* of mental connection and emotion (and the bonus of looking into magical eyes while having freaky mystical soul-melding sex doesn??t hurt either??_lol). I feel like I can really relate to this sign mentally and I??m pissed that I didn??t?? learn this sooner. Not sure where you female Scorps hide out there in the real world. My best male friends have always been Scorpios and they impress the hell out of me. I talk for hours on the phone with my male scorp friends about the deepest s h i t. I have just NEVER met a Scorpio woman.
TLS
AreTwoFour wrote: "Many scorps are celibate until we find that strange, mystical vibe that forms a connection/attraction with someone. When that happens, we want to see where that goes. Shallow unmeaningful sex is disappointing for scorps, and we may have a promiscuous phase in our youth (or not) and learn that, thus the celibacy until we can find it with someone who can transcend the mere physical experience. That is more important that the performance, the position, the duration, or any kinkiness (which is not necessary) or any mechanical aspect of the sex act itself. If I am feeling that connection and wanting that person oh so bad, that I am burning for them night after night, and I can tell they want me the same way, boy oh boy, when it finally happens!.. But then I can almost feel their inner consciousness, their intentions, fears, anger, love, thoughts and their primal hidden animal side, and that is what I want from sex. A connection. Its how I get to know the person, really know them. If I don't feel any of that, its just a physical experience. Meh, I could have just done it myself in the shower or something..."
>>>>I just wanted to acknowledge this as one of the greatest things I've ever read. If that is not just idealistic, but *actually* true, that's f u c k i n g amazing.
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>>>>I just wanted to acknowledge this as one of the greatest things I've ever read. If that is not just idealistic, but *actually* true, that's f u c k i n g amazing.
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Posted by IntriguedScorp
BTW. Listen to AreTwo. She's saying it ALL
xoxo
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Closing thoughts...
I think this one has pretty much fizzled out for her....which is heartbreaking really, but probably for the best given circumstances. Yesterday I boosted her ego as I said, gave her the sexy looks, and today she is super confident and didn't really even glance my way much at all. Ouch. Its become a game of dominance, without any real trust, and she's gonna take that confidence and run with it. Its probably good that we didn't have that convo; I'm sure attraction would've just increased and put us in a worse spot. I'm honestly going to try to let this one go and not even look her way anymore. It'll be hard, I ordered a scorpion paperweight and I'm going to put it on my desk and stare at it every time I think about looking at her...lol. Sorry, symbolic s h i t like that helps me to adjust my compulsive behaviors.
Strangest thing happened??_.Had a kind of Jungian synchronicity occur when driving home today. A female friend of mine makes me listen to her girly music and I was playing the xx album she is pushing on me ("coexist"). There's a song on there I was listening to where the lyrics really described how things have went in this stare affair ??? how things had kinda gotten hopeless. As I was listening, a car cut in front of me with a giant scorpion bumper sticker (no words). I??m going to take that as a sign??_I??ve never seen a scorpion on a bumper sticker before.
I didn't know she was in a relationship. That puts a different spin on it altogether. She might be wildly attracted, flirt mentally/nonverbally, fantasize, but I doubt she will actually cheat on her S/O. Unless he is cheating on her. You wouldn't want to be a revenge fuck anyway. She may want to explore a friendship of establish a rapport with you anyway... for now. But she may be trying to block you because who knows or not whether she is thinking obsessively about you but is trying to refocus on her current relationship. I have done this
"Jungian syncronicity" happens when there are connections like that. Too weird to describe. Not every relationship has that. I had it with my 1st love (fellow scorp) a cancer ex, aries ex, the leo ex. Others I've felt this, but nothing ever happened so I don't know their signs. And usually it didn't happen because I was in a relationship, or I knew the guy was, so I blocked it the best I could. Just weird as he
I can see the rapport thing. As of this morning, I dont' feel blocked. 87scorp's comment was prophetic. I went in today; ignored her on two passings. Then I went into the cafeteria. She was in there, in line for an omelette. I went to get my usual oatmeal about 20 feet away from her. She looks over, sees me, and walks over to get oatmeal. Standing there 4 feet across from me - both of us facing each other. LOL, she changed her breakfast choice to creep over! I didn't look at her at all (as I'm in ignore mode). Now she's back to constant staring at every pass. I am *so* confused.
I bounce my eyes off her real quick and every time she's looking. She did this other move - I wonder if this also is in the Scorpio bag of tricks. I'm no longer staring, buuuuuut, she has a really nice figure and when she was walking away (hips swinging), I did soak it in. She INSTANTLY whipped her head back 180 degrees, and looks right in my eyes. TOTALLY caught me. She is a ninja; it was SO FAST - faster than I could move my eyeballs....Do Scorpios test people that hard? I could only laugh after getting busted like that. I've never seen a woman do such a thing.
How does this all end? And how serious is the Scorpio obsession? Is it something they can turn off? Its only mentioned in passing on the sites and in the books I've read. Can I get some details on this?
I bounce my eyes off her real quick and every time she's looking. She did this other move - I wonder if this also is in the Scorpio bag of tricks. I'm no longer staring, buuuuuut, she has a really nice figure and when she was walking away (hips swinging), I did soak it in. She INSTANTLY whipped her head back 180 degrees, and looks right in my eyes. TOTALLY caught me. She is a ninja; it was SO FAST - faster than I could move my eyeballs....Do Scorpios test people that hard? I could only laugh after getting busted like that. I've never seen a woman do such a thing.
How does this all end? And how serious is the Scorpio obsession? Is it something they can turn off? Its only mentioned in passing on the sites and in the books I've read. Can I get some details on this?
I honestly would do this if she did not have a man. I just know if we go down that road and she has a man (maybe even kids), I could do some major damage to her relationship/family. I started a friendship thing with my best friend's Leo wife. It was after my divorce a few years ago and I was in a bad spot. She helped em out alot, but then started to like me and really tried to escalate things, culminating in her actually grabbing my crotch one day. I shut it down completely, but the whole situation got really messy, and really hurt their family. I take alot of the blame for entertaining what I knew was an emotional kind of intimacy that she should have only had with him. I've never been able to maintain a simple "friendship" with a woman ever; it always seems to heat up....
Can I just say, thank you so much for posting this. I can't ever tell you how happy that made me feel..to see the relationship from a male's perspective. I'm a Scorpio female and I've been with my Taurus boyfriend for nearly two years now. It's by FAR in my opinion, one of the best astrological matches. We never fight, as popular astrology websites warn- because we can find absolutely nothing to fight about. Scorpio's get a reputation for being controlling women that pack a powerful sting -all the time-. And let me tell you, I am living proof that in our breed runs a streak of sweetness and compromise. Don't ever be afraid of this Scorpio that you've fallen for because if she were to truly fall in love and care about you she wouldn't be dangerous. She wouldn't hurt you, if she was angry she would express it to you in the gentlest of ways- just for the fear that the tone of her voice may slightly hurt your feelings.
Those sad eyes you were talking about aren't always so sad, it comes from a deep rooted passion that simmers inside of us. Sometimes it may swallow us whole and depress us, and other times it blossoms and we create things of beauty- and all those close to us flourish with along with our out pour of passion. Anyways, I agree that you should keep your element of mystery- mystery is sexy to us. Eye contact is really attractive as well, fearlessness is riveting- but vulnerability is so real. I hope all goes well for the two of you, you would both end up very happy
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Those sad eyes you were talking about aren't always so sad, it comes from a deep rooted passion that simmers inside of us. Sometimes it may swallow us whole and depress us, and other times it blossoms and we create things of beauty- and all those close to us flourish with along with our out pour of passion. Anyways, I agree that you should keep your element of mystery- mystery is sexy to us. Eye contact is really attractive as well, fearlessness is riveting- but vulnerability is so real. I hope all goes well for the two of you, you would both end up very happy
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Some of the most beautiful, most talented and warmest women I have known have been Scorpios. I wish you and your bf the very best of luck, love and joy.
Please read and advise on my new posting about Taurus men being confusing. One thing that really stuck out there for me with this posting is the comment about the eyes! My Taurus told me that he was drawn to me the first time he saw me by my eyes! He said "It was your eyes"! I was like what?? Never have been told that before! hahaha
Do you think it's because both Taurus and Scorpios use the eyes to possess each other? We Scorpios look into another's eyes to see and capture their souls. I've Taurus's do the same thing. Is that right?
Are you a Taurus or Scorpio? I totally agree with you! I was taught a long time ago that if someone can not look you in the eye when talking to you, that they are hiding or lying about something.
Can you take a look at my posting and tell me what you think? It's the one about him being confusing. Thanks
Can you take a look at my posting and tell me what you think? It's the one about him being confusing. Thanks
87Scorpio: Lol! I can only speak for myself, but the only way for me to get rid of an obsession is to 1. realise I don't want it anymore or 2. find something bigger and better to chase after.
>>>I think I'm going to have to do these things to get rid of *my* obsession with this girl. Today was another rough day; I didn't realize how emotionally entangled I was. I swear every powerful handsome dude was orbitting around this girl today and she just kept looking over at me. I actually felt jealousy over a woman I haven't not even formally met. She was super extroverted today laughing it up and flirting, and all directly in front of me. Very awkward. I was silly enough to think this would be easy - I could just stop looking. My eyes keep going back to her's like a magnet though. Its not a free will thing; its a force of nature thing.
>>>I think I'm going to have to do these things to get rid of *my* obsession with this girl. Today was another rough day; I didn't realize how emotionally entangled I was. I swear every powerful handsome dude was orbitting around this girl today and she just kept looking over at me. I actually felt jealousy over a woman I haven't not even formally met. She was super extroverted today laughing it up and flirting, and all directly in front of me. Very awkward. I was silly enough to think this would be easy - I could just stop looking. My eyes keep going back to her's like a magnet though. Its not a free will thing; its a force of nature thing.
MeowScorpii: I can't ever tell you how happy that made me feel..to see the relationship from a male's perspective. I'm a Scorpio female and I've been with my Taurus boyfriend for nearly two years now. It's by FAR in my opinion, one of the best astrological matches.
>>>If only I'd known sooner!
MeowScorpii: Scorpio's get a reputation for being controlling women that pack a powerful sting -all the time-. And let me tell you, I am living proof that in our breed runs a streak of sweetness and compromise.
>>>Sorry to keep referring to your angelic appearance but you look like the sweetest person on the planet. Have you ever used that stinger? I picture blue birds and doves fluttering out of your closet with your clothing in the morning, and butterflies doing your makeup while you rest your feet on the backs of baby white rabbits from the forest.
MeowScorpii: Don't ever be afraid of this Scorpio that you've fallen for because if she were to truly fall in love and care about you she wouldn't be dangerous. She wouldn't hurt you, if she was angry she would express it to you in the gentlest of ways- just for the fear that the tone of her voice may slightly hurt your feelings.
>>>You know, that's the thing. Deep down, I know this girl is SO sweet. I can see the frosted side of her miniwheats. My dad (a scorpio) was a pretty intimidating man to alot of people, but to those he loved he was the most sensitive, gentle, kind/forgiving person.
MeowScorpii: Sometimes it may swallow us whole and depress us, and other times it blossoms and we create things of beauty- and all those close to us flourish with along with our out pour of passion.
>>>Its funny - when this girl is in a good mood, people swarm around her and are like elated to be conversing with her. Too bad they are all hot guys! Hahahahaha....
MeowScorpii: Anyways, I agree that you should keep your element of mystery- mystery is sexy to us. Eye contact is really attractive as well, fearlessness is riveting- but vulnerability is so real. I hope all goes well for the two of you, you would both end up very happy
>>>Thx a ton for chiming in. I only wish I had that instant confidence I could call upon. I'm confident bordering on arrogance (I know - bad), *but* my confidence tends to build in a relationship slowly over time. I think its my Leo Moon only really kicking in after I feel the trust is there. Pretty shy at first and I take it Scorpio women don't respect this.
>>>If only I'd known sooner!
MeowScorpii: Scorpio's get a reputation for being controlling women that pack a powerful sting -all the time-. And let me tell you, I am living proof that in our breed runs a streak of sweetness and compromise.
>>>Sorry to keep referring to your angelic appearance but you look like the sweetest person on the planet. Have you ever used that stinger? I picture blue birds and doves fluttering out of your closet with your clothing in the morning, and butterflies doing your makeup while you rest your feet on the backs of baby white rabbits from the forest.
MeowScorpii: Don't ever be afraid of this Scorpio that you've fallen for because if she were to truly fall in love and care about you she wouldn't be dangerous. She wouldn't hurt you, if she was angry she would express it to you in the gentlest of ways- just for the fear that the tone of her voice may slightly hurt your feelings.
>>>You know, that's the thing. Deep down, I know this girl is SO sweet. I can see the frosted side of her miniwheats. My dad (a scorpio) was a pretty intimidating man to alot of people, but to those he loved he was the most sensitive, gentle, kind/forgiving person.
MeowScorpii: Sometimes it may swallow us whole and depress us, and other times it blossoms and we create things of beauty- and all those close to us flourish with along with our out pour of passion.
>>>Its funny - when this girl is in a good mood, people swarm around her and are like elated to be conversing with her. Too bad they are all hot guys! Hahahahaha....
MeowScorpii: Anyways, I agree that you should keep your element of mystery- mystery is sexy to us. Eye contact is really attractive as well, fearlessness is riveting- but vulnerability is so real. I hope all goes well for the two of you, you would both end up very happy
>>>Thx a ton for chiming in. I only wish I had that instant confidence I could call upon. I'm confident bordering on arrogance (I know - bad), *but* my confidence tends to build in a relationship slowly over time. I think its my Leo Moon only really kicking in after I feel the trust is there. Pretty shy at first and I take it Scorpio women don't respect this.
Meow is on point with what she said about us Scorpios! We do NOT want to hurt the ones we admire and love! We will walk through fire for the ones we love so that they don't have to suffer any pain and suffering! You do not know the amount of sleep I've lost and meals I've went without so that I could take care of exbf's so that they wouldn't be "inconvenienced". Look how that turned out but I can at least lay my head down every night knowing that I gave my all.
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