How do Virgos show/or hide that they're falling in love

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by nats on Friday, January 28, 2022 and has 18 replies.
Posted by GammaArietis

They make fun of you when they like you
I'm meaning more so falling in love than like but yes she does make fun alot.
Posted by nats
Posted by GammaArietis

They make fun of you when they like you


I'm meaning more so falling in love than like but yes she does make fun alot.
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Allowing you to be in her presence.

Ppl are irritative lil shits.
It's a secret...... an ancient Chinese secret
i'm weirdly distant and aloof at times but prob wanting to go on trips together is a safe bet i'd like you around and it's always a great way to see how someone can be like when you have to be around each other a lot before living together.

like normally, i don't go to company events but management had this resort thing we have to go to with co-workers and i'm taking the cancer sun/virgo moon on this business trip.

it's important for me to see that we get along. i need someone cooperative.

how are you like if we have to build tents or make our own food without much to work with? what if i booked somewhere expensive? what if i do this or that? are you easily angered? are you a quitter? lazy? abusive? can you tell if i'm lying or hurt and why? i'd like to know these things so i like to go on trips with you.
Best of both worlds with showing and hiding.

Little game of peek-a-boo 🤣🤣🤣

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Seems like its in a super practical way. Here are some things this virgo sun/cancer moon/virgo venus does. I already know she likes me but is she falling in love?

Contacts me all day everyday via text and social media

Randomly calls me or face times me

We see each other VERY often (its been 3 months since we've known each other - Feb will be 4 months)

She's VERY physically affectionate. Literally next to me all the time and wants to snuggle all the time or gets upset if I'm not sitting close to her for a period of time while we're watching tv for example because im "too distant"

Tells me everything about her day and her life in details

Asks me for advice or my opinion on what she should do on personal important matters that stress her

Is very jealous of anyone I give attention to thats not her

Whenever she's out partying with friends OR just out with friends she's texting me consistently

She's actually pretty intense

She demands my time and attention

She's invited me overseas to her country (shes currently in my country and leaving in 5 months) when she returns

Shes told her mother and her therapist about me

She's been wanting us to go on trips and has mentioned it several times and now we're finally going on one in 2weeks time for a few days

Shes posted me on her IG stories but in a private way not showing me entirely but captioning things like "baby"

We're we're driving she reaches out to hold my hand or my thigh

However, she doesnt ask me a lot of personal questions about myself (but complains I tell her nothing about my life and she doesnt stop talking about hers and that shes telling me too much). In the start of us meeting she would say "omg I have soo many questions" but instead would go silent and not ask and we'd speak about other things. Then I asked why she doesnt ask me and she said because I'm already answering them without her having to ask me..

She NEVER discusses how she feels about me and I've tried soo hard to get it out but I get nothing and its frustrating. We've been having arguments recently and she's become distant but we met up to speak and have spent time together since and she cried over one of our arguments because it hurt her and she said she wants to start fresh but still feels distant. After one argument she went MIA for 2 days then text me apologising and saying she missed me.

Whats going on here?
You have to admit it first. You can tell she’s into you. Once you admit feelings, it will validate her reassurances and she most likely will relax.

I dated a guy with these placements and he just kept getting pissed off with me being emotionally unavailable.

It ended up giving me more validation that he wasn’t the one for me. It backfired and turned me off instead.

If you take hints well and actually like her then validate her feelings by letting her know you’re into her.
I've been very vocal about how I feel about her. I dont think theres more I can say or do to be clear I like her. I've expressed myself deeply several times. I've asked her what the chances of us being in a serious relo are and she said very high but we'd first of all need to be in the same country. She's admitted to liking me and having feelings but thats where it stops. She doesnt express more. She has however said she's terrified of our emotional closeness because shes never been this close to anyone before
Posted by nats

I've been very vocal about how I feel about her. I dont think theres more I can say or do to be clear I like her. I've expressed myself deeply several times. I've asked her what the chances of us being in a serious relo are and she said very high but we'd first of all need to be in the same country. She's admitted to liking me and having feelings but thats where it stops. She doesnt express more. She has however said she's terrified of our emotional closeness because shes never been this close to anyone before
Well being in the same country will definitely help.

You were saying you were spending lots of time together. The previous post made it seem like she lived closer.

I don’t have much else to say because I don’t understand being terrified of being close to a spouse or potential partner.

It seems like an excuse to me, but some people actually are scared.

She seems to be telling you what she needs to be in a secure relationship.

What emotional words do you need to hear, if they aren’t going to lead to a relationship?

Sorry. I’m much too logical for this style of thought process and also NOT a Virgo.

I’m just typing 💬 opinions that come to mind.

Don’t mind me lol 🚶‍♀️💨
We want to talk to you. Be around you and share our life with you.

Focus on the word "WANT"

Posted by GammaArietis

They make fun of you when they like you


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Remember it could also vary depending on their love language because I like to make cute gestures with cards, acts of service, and little gifts. Unhealthy ways of hiding falling in love would be pulling away and acting aloof. In general acting awkwardly quiet and poking fun at qualities in an endearing way.
gemini man with a virgo woman always reminds me of

but maybe it's just the virgo moon to the virgo sun

Posted by nats

this is my experience with them as an Aries.

They want to show you= they don't, they avoid you.

They want to hide it from you= they can't, they act weird around you.

Rule of opposites for them.
They point out your flaws
Posted by PoshChickenLove1111
Posted by nats

this is my experience with them as an Aries.

They want to show you= they don't, they avoid you.

They want to hide it from you= they can't, they act weird around you.

Rule of opposites for them.
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weird and avoidant so accurate 😁😁

tbh i'd always feel a little shy and jumpy around someone i'm really into. like i'd always avoid their eyes when they compliment me or say something really sweet. it makes me look probably bishy but i'm just really embarrassed 🙈🙉
I say it and show it.

*shocked pikachu face*