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It's a secret...... an ancient Chinese secret
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Mar 24, 2019Comments: 5072 · Posts: 10541 · Topics: 281
i'm weirdly distant and aloof at times but prob wanting to go on trips together is a safe bet i'd like you around and it's always a great way to see how someone can be like when you have to be around each other a lot before living together.
like normally, i don't go to company events but management had this resort thing we have to go to with co-workers and i'm taking the cancer sun/virgo moon on this business trip.
it's important for me to see that we get along. i need someone cooperative.
how are you like if we have to build tents or make our own food without much to work with? what if i booked somewhere expensive? what if i do this or that? are you easily angered? are you a quitter? lazy? abusive? can you tell if i'm lying or hurt and why? i'd like to know these things so i like to go on trips with you.
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Feb 23, 2013Comments: 22238 · Posts: 25616 · Topics: 84
Best of both worlds with showing and hiding.
Little game of peek-a-boo 🤣🤣🤣
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Jun 10, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 966 · Topics: 54
Seems like its in a super practical way. Here are some things this virgo sun/cancer moon/virgo venus does. I already know she likes me but is she falling in love?
Contacts me all day everyday via text and social media
Randomly calls me or face times me
We see each other VERY often (its been 3 months since we've known each other - Feb will be 4 months)
She's VERY physically affectionate. Literally next to me all the time and wants to snuggle all the time or gets upset if I'm not sitting close to her for a period of time while we're watching tv for example because im "too distant"
Tells me everything about her day and her life in details
Asks me for advice or my opinion on what she should do on personal important matters that stress her
Is very jealous of anyone I give attention to thats not her
Whenever she's out partying with friends OR just out with friends she's texting me consistently
She's actually pretty intense
She demands my time and attention
She's invited me overseas to her country (shes currently in my country and leaving in 5 months) when she returns
Shes told her mother and her therapist about me
She's been wanting us to go on trips and has mentioned it several times and now we're finally going on one in 2weeks time for a few days
Shes posted me on her IG stories but in a private way not showing me entirely but captioning things like "baby"
We're we're driving she reaches out to hold my hand or my thigh
However, she doesnt ask me a lot of personal questions about myself (but complains I tell her nothing about my life and she doesnt stop talking about hers and that shes telling me too much). In the start of us meeting she would say "omg I have soo many questions" but instead would go silent and not ask and we'd speak about other things. Then I asked why she doesnt ask me and she said because I'm already answering them without her having to ask me..
She NEVER discusses how she feels about me and I've tried soo hard to get it out but I get nothing and its frustrating. We've been having arguments recently and she's become distant but we met up to speak and have spent time together since and she cried over one of our arguments because it hurt her and she said she wants to start fresh but still feels distant. After one argument she went MIA for 2 days then text me apologising and saying she missed me.
Whats going on here?
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Feb 23, 2013Comments: 22238 · Posts: 25616 · Topics: 84
You have to admit it first. You can tell she’s into you. Once you admit feelings, it will validate her reassurances and she most likely will relax.
I dated a guy with these placements and he just kept getting pissed off with me being emotionally unavailable.
It ended up giving me more validation that he wasn’t the one for me. It backfired and turned me off instead.
If you take hints well and actually like her then validate her feelings by letting her know you’re into her.
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I've been very vocal about how I feel about her. I dont think theres more I can say or do to be clear I like her. I've expressed myself deeply several times. I've asked her what the chances of us being in a serious relo are and she said very high but we'd first of all need to be in the same country. She's admitted to liking me and having feelings but thats where it stops. She doesnt express more. She has however said she's terrified of our emotional closeness because shes never been this close to anyone before
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We want to talk to you. Be around you and share our life with you.
Focus on the word "WANT"
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Remember it could also vary depending on their love language because I like to make cute gestures with cards, acts of service, and little gifts. Unhealthy ways of hiding falling in love would be pulling away and acting aloof. In general acting awkwardly quiet and poking fun at qualities in an endearing way.
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They point out your flaws
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
I say it and show it.
*shocked pikachu face*