To act or not to act....

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Forreal68 on Monday, June 26, 2017 and has 26 replies.
How do you know you are in a relationship with a capricorn guy?

He acts like he is my boyfriend and I do sometimes act as a girlfriend too but everytime I come to realized he did not make it official yet, I pulled back.

In this modern age, is it still necessary or as long as there is MU ( mutual understanding ), it is considered you are in a relationship.
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.
Posted by Capricorn91
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.
Are you intimate with your Aqua? Who ended the relationship? Did you get to meet her family and friends and vice versa?
Posted by Forreal68
Posted by Capricorn91
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.
Are you intimate with your Aqua? Who ended the relationship? Did you get to meet her family and friends and vice versa?
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Noooo. Physical Intimacy is going too far. But emotionally yes we were. We had our secret codes to say each other good night. She used to trust me with a lot of personal information which was quite difficult for her with others. We would ask each other whether we had dinner or not and other regular stuff like when she would work late she would tell me that she is working late. But there was a bit of understanding between us which even though it was just regular chat we wanted to know more about each other. We cared for each other. And yes I did meet her family. She was a bit apprehensive initially as to how her family would take me. I liked her family not sure whether they liked me or not. But she used to talk to her mother about me but mostly as a friend even when she knew I had feelings for her. She never once told her mom about it as her mom would have asked her to stay away from me then lol. There was no official end as there was no relationship. We just drifted apart. She went for her higher studies for 2 years and we didn't talk much during that time. And then when we met, it was a bit awkward initially but we tried to connect like old days but we just couldn't. She would still tell me everything during our chats after that but we just couldn't connect like before after that.
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Posted by Forreal68
Posted by Capricorn91
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.
Are you intimate with your Aqua? Who ended the relationship? Did you get to meet her family and friends and vice versa?
Noooo. Physical Intimacy is going too far. But emotionally yes we were. We had our secret codes to say each other good night. She used to trust me with a lot of personal information which was quite difficult for her with others. We would ask each other whether we had dinner or not and other regular stuff like when she would work late she would tell me that she is working late. But there was a bit of understanding between us which even though it was just regular chat we wanted to know more about each other. We cared for each other. And yes I did meet her family. She was a bit apprehensive initially as to how her family would take me. I liked her family not sure whether they liked me or not. But she used to talk to her mother about me but mostly as a friend even when she knew I had feelings for her. She never once told her mom about it as her mom would have asked her to stay away from me then lol. There was no official end as there was no relationship. We just drifted apart. She went for her higher studies for 2 years and we didn't talk much during that time. And then when we met, it was a bit awkward initially but we tried to connect like old days but we just couldn't. She would still tell me everything during our chats after that but we just couldn't connect like before after that.
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Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Intimate for 2 years? Still unsure ifnhenisnyoir BF? Hmmm

How about accidentally blurb 'you are the best BF girl can wish for' and look at his face?

How does he introduce you to his friends and family?
Posted by Gemitati
Intimate for 2 years? Still unsure ifnhenisnyoir BF? Hmmm

How about accidentally blurb 'you are the best BF girl can wish for' and look at his face?

How does he introduce you to his friends and family?
I am his girlfriend.. that what his friend told me. But him never told me that we are gf/bf relationship. I did not meet his family yet coz they live in a different country but he told his sister and mother they gonna meet me soon.
Friends, correction.

Coz I have met his two closed friends.
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Posted by Capz
what sign are you ?


You haven't answered this question.

What do you mean by 'official'? What isn't he doing that would make the relationship feel like it's official?

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I am a virgo woman and please don't judge me just bcoz I am a virgo coz a lot of people here hate virgos.

He is not vocal to me about our status. Other things i can't complain coz he do almost everything for me only that part and I don't want to ask him anymore.

He told me twice he is not good in words that's why he wants to show it more in actions.
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Posted by MiZLeo
Why don't you ask him?
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Posted by Forreal68
Posted by Gemitati
Intimate for 2 years? Still unsure ifnhenisnyoir BF? Hmmm

How about accidentally blurb 'you are the best BF girl can wish for' and look at his face?

How does he introduce you to his friends and family?
I am his girlfriend.. that what his friend told me. But him never told me that we are gf/bf relationship. I did not meet his family yet coz they live in a different country but he told his sister and mother they gonna meet me soon.
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Well, what else would you be after 2 years?

What is wrong with the dating scene these days?

I just need some outputs and go from there...

Thank you dxp people so much
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Posted by Forreal68
Posted by Gemitati
Intimate for 2 years? Still unsure ifnhenisnyoir BF? Hmmm

How about accidentally blurb 'you are the best BF girl can wish for' and look at his face?

How does he introduce you to his friends and family?
I am his girlfriend.. that what his friend told me. But him never told me that we are gf/bf relationship. I did not meet his family yet coz they live in a different country but he told his sister and mother they gonna meet me soon.
Well, what else would you be after 2 years?

What is wrong with the dating scene these days?

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The dating scene these days are so different now than before. Modern technology, I guess. Everything is fast and instant. You can't catch up. Just my opinion...✌️

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Posted by Forreal68
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by Capz
what sign are you ?


You haven't answered this question.

What do you mean by 'official'? What isn't he doing that would make the relationship feel like it's official?

I am a virgo woman and please don't judge me just bcoz I am a virgo coz a lot of people here hate virgos.

He is not vocal to me about our status. Other things i can't complain coz he do almost everything for me only that part and I don't want to ask him anymore.

He told me twice he is not good in words that's why he wants to show it more in actions.


I'm not a Virgo hater, but I do know that Virgos can be pretty insecure and neurotic.

Caps are all about action, not words. Have you vere considered that he may not be into labels? Not everyone is.

From your reply, I really don't see what there is to worry about. Surely, the quality of the relationship is more important than a label?

My advice is to keep things in perspective and to enjoy what you have. If you keep nagging him for an 'official' status, you may end up pushing him away...

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Thank you so much. You are right I have a lot of insecurities especially with this cappy guy. Never been into a kind of relationship like this. This is my first time and it is killing me inside but I am not the nagger type.

Thank you so much again✌️

Posted by Forreal68
Posted by Gemitati
Intimate for 2 years? Still unsure ifnhenisnyoir BF? Hmmm

How about accidentally blurb 'you are the best BF girl can wish for' and look at his face?

How does he introduce you to his friends and family?
I am his girlfriend.. that what his friend told me. But him never told me that we are gf/bf relationship. I did not meet his family yet coz they live in a different country but he told his sister and mother they gonna meet me soon.
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VOILA! So you are girlfriend!

Now insert that 'you are best bf'...and good luck!
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Posted by Capricorn91
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Posted by Capricorn91
I had the same relationship a few years back. I always acted like her bf but was just a friend and she responded mostly like a gf but again we were just friends. But she was an Aqua so the line between friendship and love is a bit blurred there :-p. If you don't approach he will be forever your friend only acting like a bf.
Are you intimate with your Aqua? Who ended the relationship? Did you get to meet her family and friends and vice versa?
Noooo. Physical Intimacy is going too far. But emotionally yes we were. We had our secret codes to say each other good night. She used to trust me with a lot of personal information which was quite difficult for her with others. We would ask each other whether we had dinner or not and other regular stuff like when she would work late she would tell me that she is working late. But there was a bit of understanding between us which even though it was just regular chat we wanted to know more about each other. We cared for each other. And yes I did meet her family. She was a bit apprehensive initially as to how her family would take me. I liked her family not sure whether they liked me or not. But she used to talk to her mother about me but mostly as a friend even when she knew I had feelings for her. She never once told her mom about it as her mom would have asked her to stay away from me then lol. There was no official end as there was no relationship. We just drifted apart. She went for her higher studies for 2 years and we didn't talk much during that time. And then when we met, it was a bit awkward initially but we tried to connect like old days but we just couldn't. She would still tell me everything during our chats after that but we just couldn't connect like before after that.
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

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Just read that you are a Virgo. It is a match made in heaven as the understanding is quite good between these two signs. Just give him space when he wants it and it will be frequent. He sometimes may not want to talk don't take it negatively. It is common. Also when we are stressed we completely change for the moment. So try to be understanding.

Posted by Forreal68
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!
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Posted by Forreal68
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!
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Did you read Gob_Shite comment???

And who are you to judge me? Are you God? You don't know me and don't pretend you have never been in a treetrunking and butterty relationship. People like you should shut up .. if you can't say something nice just keep your mouth shut. I am more comfortable putting his dick every whole in my body, you have a problem with that?

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Cause I am sure you have dark sides too. Before you point your fingers to other people make sure those others fingers are pointing at you.

Posted by Forreal68
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Posted by Forreal68
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!


Did you read Gob_Shite comment???

And who are you to judge me? Are you God? You don't know me and don't pretend you have never been in a treetrunking and butterty relationship. People like you should shut up .. if you can't say something nice just keep your mouth shut. I am more comfortable putting his dick every whole in my body, you have a problem with that?

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Cause I am sure you have dark sides too. Before you point your fingers to other people make sure those others fingers are pointing at you.

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Why so defensive. Its an honest question. Why are you so afraid to ask this dude what your relationship status is??
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Forreal68
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Forreal68
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!


Did you read Gob_Shite comment???

And who are you to judge me? Are you God? You don't know me and don't pretend you have never been in a treetrunking and butterty relationship. People like you should shut up .. if you can't say something nice just keep your mouth shut. I am more comfortable putting his dick every whole in my body, you have a problem with that?

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Cause I am sure you have dark sides too. Before you point your fingers to other people make sure those others fingers are pointing at you.

Why so defensive. Its an honest question. Why are you so afraid to ask this dude what your relationship status is??
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Depends on how you ask a question..

You can ask questions in a nice way.

Posted by Forreal68
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Posted by Forreal68
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Forreal68
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!


Did you read Gob_Shite comment???

And who are you to judge me? Are you God? You don't know me and don't pretend you have never been in a treetrunking and butterty relationship. People like you should shut up .. if you can't say something nice just keep your mouth shut. I am more comfortable putting his dick every whole in my body, you have a problem with that?

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Cause I am sure you have dark sides too. Before you point your fingers to other people make sure those others fingers are pointing at you.

Why so defensive. Its an honest question. Why are you so afraid to ask this dude what your relationship status is??
Depends on how you ask a question..

You can ask questions in a nice way.

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Lol how was it not nice? Genuinely asking.

I didn't name call you. I didn't judge you. I merely confirmed the details you had already provided in straight forward language.

Your offended and defensive because you know you fucked up. Should've confirmed with him your relationship status within the first few months. Instead you were scared to speak and now, 2 years later, have come to the internet hoping to find an astrological connection to give you the answer you want.

Just. Ask. Him.
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by MiZLeo
Why don't you ask him?
^^^^^^^^^^^^
Just just such a simple person
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I think i answered that question already .

He is more of an actions than words.. which do you prefer? Words or actions? Maybe both? What if the actions and words don't match
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Posted by Forreal68
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Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!


Did you read Gob_Shite comment???

And who are you to judge me? Are you God? You don't know me and don't pretend you have never been in a treetrunking and butterty relationship. People like you should shut up .. if you can't say something nice just keep your mouth shut. I am more comfortable putting his dick every whole in my body, you have a problem with that?

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Cause I am sure you have dark sides too. Before you point your fingers to other people make sure those others fingers are pointing at you.

Why so defensive. Its an honest question. Why are you so afraid to ask this dude what your relationship status is??
Depends on how you ask a question..

You can ask questions in a nice way.

Lol how was it not nice? Genuinely asking.

I didn't name call you. I didn't judge you. I merely confirmed the details you had already provided in straight forward language.

Your offended and defensive because you know you fucked up. Should've confirmed with him your relationship status within the first few months. Instead you were scared to speak and now, 2 years later, have come to the internet hoping to find an astrological connection to give you the answer you want.

Just. Ask. Him.
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Have you ever been in a situation where you have no one to talk too? Like you need other people opinions because your knew you friend will take your side and his friends will take his sides? That is why i came here. My friends have better things to do than listen to my crap. Why are you here? To make other people feel more bad and to act you have a perfect relationship?

You are more more lucky than us . Good for you.
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Posted by Forreal68
Oh, I see. But we have similar situation except that we are intimate for 2 years now.

I have read a lot about capricorn guys . They maybe too slow but the waiting is worthy. They said if a capricorn guy likes you he will make some time and effort to be with you and do practical things for you to show they care .

If you have one piece of advice to me, what would it be?

Thank you so much

Wow so let me get this right...you have no problem taking his dick inside your body for the last 2 years and yet your afraid to ask him to define the terms of the relationship??!


Did you read Gob_Shite comment???

And who are you to judge me? Are you God? You don't know me and don't pretend you have never been in a treetrunking and butterty relationship. People like you should shut up .. if you can't say something nice just keep your mouth shut. I am more comfortable putting his dick every whole in my body, you have a problem with that?

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Cause I am sure you have dark sides too. Before you point your fingers to other people make sure those others fingers are pointing at you.

Why so defensive. Its an honest question. Why are you so afraid to ask this dude what your relationship status is??
Depends on how you ask a question..

You can ask questions in a nice way.

Lol how was it not nice? Genuinely asking.

I didn't name call you. I didn't judge you. I merely confirmed the details you had already provided in straight forward language.

Your offended and defensive because you know you fucked up. Should've confirmed with him your relationship status within the first few months. Instead you were scared to speak and now, 2 years later, have come to the internet hoping to find an astrological connection to give you the answer you want.

Just. Ask. Him.
Have you ever been in a situation where you have no one to talk too? Like you need other people opinions because your knew you friend will take your side and his friends will take his sides? That is why i came here. My friends have better things to do than listen to my crap. Why are you here? To make other people feel more bad and to act you have a perfect relationship?

You are more more lucky than us . Good for you.
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I haven't said anything about myself. If you think perfect relationships exist your in for a rude awakening.

As a cap dominant person what you see is what you get. It boggles my mind that he hasn't verbally locked you down. You need to have this conversation with him, not friends, not randoms on the internet.

Posted by Forreal68
How do you know you are in a relationship with a capricorn guy?

He acts like he is my boyfriend and I do sometimes act as a girlfriend too but everytime I come to realized he did not make it official yet, I pulled back.

In this modern age, is it still necessary or as long as there is MU ( mutual understanding ), it is considered you are in a relationship.
If there was mutual understanding you wouldn't be here looking for an answer to whether or not your in a relationship with him.

Communication.
Classic dxp 'confused'

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