i can't stand it. spent so many hours being depressed and all...
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Well, i guess you are being a little rude with her Elena..why do you care if she wants to save her face or something?
yeah you can....when he pops up in your head, get up and do something, grab a book, make a cake, work out, when he comes into your mind, lovingly look at him and simply turn away as your turning away, you can actually say to him, I am turning away and letting you go and just walk away and do that until you don't have to do it again, YOU HAVE OPTIONS, your not helpless, when you begin to shift your focus you will feel some relief, right now your torturing yourself...STOP IT...you will also notice that all the time wasted thinking about him and you will really feel silly....start being present, meaning stop thinking and start feeling, wipe your brain free and pay attention to whats directly in front of you and throw yourself into it, so if you are with your kids, stop thinking and focus on them and when you find yourself drifting off then you snap your fingers or put a rubber band around your wrist and pop it on your wrist to remind you to stop DAY DREAMING and get back into REALITY
No one is saying NOT deal with them, you can deal with them in your own way all day, if you like living in misery then live there...peace
tiki, thanks.
FG's basically playing the same game the crablvr lady was but she's not aggressive about it...
Actually FG, I'm quite amused not irritated...that you managed to play this game and with all the ladies giving you advice for so long...well done girl!
FG's basically playing the same game the crablvr lady was but she's not aggressive about it...
Actually FG, I'm quite amused not irritated...that you managed to play this game and with all the ladies giving you advice for so long...well done girl!
And how exactly she attacked you?
you should do you and not worry about her me thinks...but that's me 
keep us posted if you will - nice story for a change ...
keep us posted if you will - nice story for a change ...
yeah FG your back in that delusional space again, so get to cussing cuz I aint scared...your not fine, your obsessing and your looking for encouragement to obsess by coming back to this thread time and time again and each time you come there is NO answer to his actions and yes there are some on dxp and in your life that will help you be obsessive but I'm not one of them, you keep coming here looking for validation and an answer, WE DON'T HAVE AN ANSWER for you and your obessive nature is a turn off
the jist of it is, he's CHOSEN not to talk to you, only he knows why...none of your obsessing is going to change that, make it different in any way
the jist of it is, he's CHOSEN not to talk to you, only he knows why...none of your obsessing is going to change that, make it different in any way
you are acting like a robot by allowing someone elses behavior to CONTROL you and your no different than crabluvr in respects of acting obsessive over a man, I love men and lord knows when I'm ignored I almost lose it myself but I will be dayum if I sit around caring about it to the point of obsession, if you were dating and having fun you wouldn't be acting this way, yes you would be concerned but not to the level you have taken it to but you refuse to develop that part of your life and thus another man will show up and do you the exact same way because you don't have ANYTHING or ANYONE to fall back on, your self esteem in this area of your life will always be low because your not taking care of that one part of your life that NEEDS ATTENTION and how you pay attention to it could make a huge impact when men behave this way, you simply wouldn't give it so much thought becuase there would be too many men in front of you that do want to hang with you and make you laugh and make you happy and not ignore you
Yeah, I'm married, Ashley .. to a Virgo man .. for quite a few years.
Our marriage is no longer sexual ..
Our marriage is no longer sexual ..
"I have been reading your posts... how are you doing? Hope things are looking up for you now" ...yeah, what she said.
As for cancer baby boys... As a kid, I was probably the trouble-maker out of my mom's 7 kids. I was the youngest of the first 3 (my birth marked the separation of my parents). My story will probably a little out of the ordinary (as I felt like a loner for most of my youth), but I was always happy in my mother's presence... unless she was feeling down. I have 5 brothers, 1 gem, 1 pis, 1 leo, 1 aqua, 1 libra... and my sister is pis. Ironically (quoting my mother), she is a cap. I was easy to teach (not that I liked/believed this, but I was probably told by more of my family members that I was smart [more so than my siblings], even my brothers and sister continue to tell me this). I always wanted to have company (weird how sometimes I still do), but barely ever had it. I was quiet around strangers. Never wanted to talk to either of my parents about a problem (but I think that was because I felt they didn't have time for me). When I was old enough to realize they did have the time for me... I didn't know how to talk to them (so if I were you, I would build a strong line of communication with him early on). I was the only one of my mother's kids to smoke (or do drugs), the first to drink (and now I'm one of the two that do), I always wandered into dangerous places and situations when I was young (to see what all the hype/fear was about) but never got in too deep, I would never let any problems I got into follow me back to the house (I wouldn't be able to live with myself if my family got hurt because of something I did [I'd rather die in the street]), I got (and still do get) bored with things that are too easy, and when I was 14 I found out some family secrets that have scarred my ability to trust.
Be honest, no matter how bad it hurts your cancer child, that way they will always trust you. Cancer boys are very determined... we're the best at what we do. Which means:
-If we're gonna be liars... you WILL believe us (after enough practice). Keep the trust.
-If we're going to cheat... you'll believe we earned it.
-If we're going to steal... we'll convince you we found it.
-etc. etc. etc. the list could go on (instilling strong morals from the beginning [even if they choose the wrong path at any given time in life] will cause them to see where they are wrong... and they will try their hardest to find their way back)
CONGRATULATIONS Lady!
As for cancer baby boys... As a kid, I was probably the trouble-maker out of my mom's 7 kids. I was the youngest of the first 3 (my birth marked the separation of my parents). My story will probably a little out of the ordinary (as I felt like a loner for most of my youth), but I was always happy in my mother's presence... unless she was feeling down. I have 5 brothers, 1 gem, 1 pis, 1 leo, 1 aqua, 1 libra... and my sister is pis. Ironically (quoting my mother), she is a cap. I was easy to teach (not that I liked/believed this, but I was probably told by more of my family members that I was smart [more so than my siblings], even my brothers and sister continue to tell me this). I always wanted to have company (weird how sometimes I still do), but barely ever had it. I was quiet around strangers. Never wanted to talk to either of my parents about a problem (but I think that was because I felt they didn't have time for me). When I was old enough to realize they did have the time for me... I didn't know how to talk to them (so if I were you, I would build a strong line of communication with him early on). I was the only one of my mother's kids to smoke (or do drugs), the first to drink (and now I'm one of the two that do), I always wandered into dangerous places and situations when I was young (to see what all the hype/fear was about) but never got in too deep, I would never let any problems I got into follow me back to the house (I wouldn't be able to live with myself if my family got hurt because of something I did [I'd rather die in the street]), I got (and still do get) bored with things that are too easy, and when I was 14 I found out some family secrets that have scarred my ability to trust.
Be honest, no matter how bad it hurts your cancer child, that way they will always trust you. Cancer boys are very determined... we're the best at what we do. Which means:
-If we're gonna be liars... you WILL believe us (after enough practice). Keep the trust.
-If we're going to cheat... you'll believe we earned it.
-If we're going to steal... we'll convince you we found it.
-etc. etc. etc. the list could go on (instilling strong morals from the beginning [even if they choose the wrong path at any given time in life] will cause them to see where they are wrong... and they will try their hardest to find their way back)
CONGRATULATIONS Lady!