Abusive friend

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Ram416

OP, you seem to have a problem setting up proper personal boundaries with this person. Are you the same with other friends?

I don't know of any rational-minded person who would readily agree to be a 3rd wheel and go along with someone to meet their fuckbuddy.

She wanted to see the mountains but I guess it was a stack of flapjacks at Denny’s

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Posted by nikkistar

This reminds me of some C rated Korean Drama I watch, but without some ghost taking over someone's body.

You got two late 30 year old women acting like they accomplished something in their lives.

One gets some weird ego boost from wearing goddy ass name brand stuff, while claiming to own a house her parents titled in her name. Which they only probably did because they are probably scamming some sort of governmental aid (i.e medi-cal, medicaid, section 8, EBT) and can't have the house under their name. With a dad that wears Gucci chanclas. Dropping financial stats on furniture

The other one supposedly jumps on married penis, that lives in some roach infested Section 8 apartment with her disabled mom.

Like @Arielle83 said, what the fuck kind of ass backwards Kardashian show did we just step into?

Sounds like a bunch of FOB Vietnamese living in Orange County trying to one up each other with Armani Xchange T-shirts from the discount bin. The fuck is this shit?

Posted by femme123

Posted by notreally

what is she to you ? not a friend so what ? ditch her and find other friends who are not abusive and/or don't let her do that to you - you deserve better

believe me it doesn't get any better; it gets worse

i did ditch her...she called me all kinds of names from a rat to a snake lol to calling me so many other names then told me to f** off seeing that i no longer wanted to be a friend....so she's gone forever and i feel relieved

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Posted by nikkistar

This reminds me of some C rated Korean Drama I watch, but without some ghost taking over someone's body.

You got two late 30 year old women acting like they accomplished something in their lives.

One gets some weird ego boost from wearing goddy ass name brand stuff, while claiming to own a house her parents titled in her name. Which they only probably did because they are probably scamming some sort of governmental aid (i.e medi-cal, medicaid, section 8, EBT) and can't have the house under their name. With a dad that wears Gucci chanclas. Dropping financial stats on furniture

The other one supposedly jumps on married penis, that lives in some roach infested Section 8 apartment with her disabled mom.

Like @Arielle83 said, what the fuck kind of ass backwards Kardashian show did we just step into?

Sounds like a bunch of FOB Vietnamese living in Orange County trying to one up each other with Armani Xchange T-shirts from the discount bin. The fuck is this shit?

wait a minute.....did you just accused my parents of scamming the government? the post was about my verbally abusive friend by the way....oh wow some people are really messed up in the head...seems like you are the type that tries to come up with shit to accuse people without any evidence at all...you just harassed my own parents by the way by accusing them of doing illegal stuff for which they paid off the loan on their home...i actually shared about my experience to see if you guys had similar friends who were verbally abusive about stuff, not to get stupid comments accusing my parents of illegal stuff....this is absolutely messed up thing of you to do and shows the type of person you must be in life...that's just scary.

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Posted by femme123

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by femme123

Posted by nikkistar

This reminds me of some C rated Korean Drama I watch, but without some ghost taking over someone's body.

You got two late 30 year old women acting like they accomplished something in their lives.

One gets some weird ego boost from wearing goddy ass name brand stuff, while claiming to own a house her parents titled in her name. Which they only probably did because they are probably scamming some sort of governmental aid (i.e medi-cal, medicaid, section 8, EBT) and can't have the house under their name. With a dad that wears Gucci chanclas. Dropping financial stats on furniture

The other one supposedly jumps on married penis, that lives in some roach infested Section 8 apartment with her disabled mom.

Like @Arielle83 said, what the fuck kind of ass backwards Kardashian show did we just step into?

Sounds like a bunch of FOB Vietnamese living in Orange County trying to one up each other with Armani Xchange T-shirts from the discount bin. The fuck is this shit?

wait a minute.....did you just accused my parents of scamming the government? the post was about my verbally abusive friend by the way....oh wow some people are really messed up in the head...seems like you are the type that tries to come up with shit to accuse people without any evidence at all...you just harassed my own parents by the way by accusing them of doing illegal stuff for which they paid off the loan on their home...i actually shared about my experience to see if you guys had similar friends who were verbally abusive about stuff, not to get stupid comments accusing my parents of illegal stuff....this is absolutely messed up thing of you to do and shows the type of person you must be in life...that's just scary.

How can you be in your mid to late 30's and type, act, and talk like an 18 year old dumbass?

Inquiring minds would like to know.

Not one of us cares if your parents paid off a mortgage. Not one of us cares how many zeros go behind the cost of their furniture. Not one of us cares that you have whatever college degree you have. Not one of us cares about you playing one up with your poor af friend that fucks married penis.

It speaks more about YOU, when all you talk about is material objects and monetary value, that isn't even your own accomplishment.

Why don't you stop worrying about your broke friend, and start actually building your own fortune instead of riding the coat tails of your parents.

wow..i see there's tons of verbally abusive people here too...seems like some of you are really angry people here...this was my first and last post here.

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Posted by femme123

p.s. i gave the background of the situation of our living conditions since the issue for her was just that...and you twisted that into me talking about material things ? lol i guess i should not have given any background info....her issue was my living condition, hence the explanation of how our lives are arranged and then i went further with the story of what she tells me etc....you guys seem really angry people here and my bad for even posting and asking for a friendly advice in terms of whether u guys encounter verbal abuse from friends and from the first comment on all I get is angry responses directed AT me when it is the friend who keeps harassing me etc as explained...some bitter people here who use the opportunity to either call names, accused my parents of doing illegal crap etc...im just shocked how angry, rude and tactless you guys are...just because u respond it doesn't give you the right to be so rude and insensitive to someone who has said nothing rude to you. So many angry people...