Posted by DMVI did. His exact words were "never". So I gotta find a way to convince him otherwise.
Ask him
Posted by ArinoaquaConvince them some how. Throw hints? I dunno this post is mostly me venting but open for suggestions.
I don’t understand the question lol. How do you get someone to do something they don’t want to do.....
Posted by LostinmyMind11I thought about that but I'm so fucking awkward. Knowing me I'd trip on my bra or something. 😂
Give him one first 🤷🏼♀️
Posted by MadTwins80_Yes exactly you understand what I'm trying to say. I know he has to think he is doing it on his own. That's usually what he does when he swings it in my face, it's like a power thing. He has no problem denying me.
He's a dom?
Start with flattery about his body .Obviously if he thinks you want something from him then he won't give it easily as that's not dominant. So drop little hints about how you are helpless against his seductive dancing. He has to feel he has the power, right? Not that he's dancing for you but that he's dancing to have power over you
My guess
Posted by TomboyyyyI asked. He said no. I have not mentioned it again. But that does not mean I can't convince him.Posted by SeaLionPosted by DMV
Ask him
I did. His exact words were "never". So I gotta find a way to convince him otherwise.
Or maybe just respect him.click to expand
Posted by SeaLionI totally feel you there. I have no rhythm and I just know I'll start acting goofy and start laughing 😆.Posted by LostinmyMind11
Give him one first 🤷🏼♀️
I thought about that but I'm so fucking awkward. Knowing me I'd trip on my bra or something. 😂click to expand
Posted by blackphvseIkr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Posted by TomboyyyyNah we have had a whole open conversation about his stripper days and he was very open and honest about what went down and why he stopped doing it. It wasn't anything like that. He just got tired of the drugs and wanted to get out b4 it got to late and he was stuck in that life.Posted by SeaLionPosted by TomboyyyyPosted by SeaLionPosted by DMV
Ask him
I did. His exact words were "never". So I gotta find a way to convince him otherwise.
Or maybe just respect him.
I asked. He said no. I have not mentioned it again. But that does not mean I can't convince him.
It’s all fun and games for you, but have you thought that maybe he might have had a bad experience at some point or feels shame about that?
Anyway I’m just gonna say it... it sounds borderline rapey that you want to coerce him to do something you clearly know he doesn’t want to do.
I’m gonna bounce now because I don’t think this subject is healthy. You know my opinion.click to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11We don't drink. He's not aloud to anymore.
Get him drunk and dance sexy with him...then kinda back off and see if it brings it outta him?
Posted by ArinoaquaAnal. He wants anal. I have yet to concede to his begging.Posted by SeaLionPosted by Arinoaqua
I don’t understand the question lol. How do you get someone to do something they don’t want to do.....
Convince them some how. Throw hints? I dunno this post is mostly me venting but open for suggestions.
Quid pro quo? Lol. What is something he wants from you that you can compromiseclick to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterHe's a Virgo but he has a Scorpio moon and a Libra rising. Sexy AF. Plus, he did it professionally so it's not like he'd be just making shit up as he went along, he knows what he is doing.Posted by blackphvse
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Ikr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
Dxp doesn't get any better than thisclick to expand
Posted by SeaLionOhhh so that's where he get this from I see. Scorpio moon. That pretty much explains it all. I'm a Libra rising too btw. All my soft shy and feminine cancer placements gets in my way for pursuing a male model career.Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by blackphvse
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Ikr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
Dxp doesn't get any better than this
He's a Virgo but he has a Scorpio moon and a Libra rising. Sexy AF. Plus, he did it professionally so it's not like he'd be just making shit up as he went along, he knows what he is doing.
Yeah I'd probably laugh but I'd love it too.click to expand
Posted by SeaLionProbably a good thing ..Scorp mooners and alcohol don't mix well.Posted by LostinmyMind11
Get him drunk and dance sexy with him...then kinda back off and see if it brings it outta him?
We don't drink. He's not aloud to anymore.click to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11He used to drink a lot when we first met. I remember one time he called me from Texas drunk off his ass and had me on the phone for like 2 hours. It was hilarious. I told him the next day that he asked me to marry him and I said yes....he didn't believe me 😂Posted by SeaLionPosted by LostinmyMind11
Get him drunk and dance sexy with him...then kinda back off and see if it brings it outta him?
We don't drink. He's not aloud to anymore.
Probably a good thing ..Scorp mooners and alcohol don't mix well.click to expand
Posted by ArinoaquaYeah didn't think about it until this post tho lol.Posted by SeaLionPosted by ArinoaquaPosted by SeaLionPosted by Arinoaqua
I don’t understand the question lol. How do you get someone to do something they don’t want to do.....
Convince them some how. Throw hints? I dunno this post is mostly me venting but open for suggestions.
Quid pro quo? Lol. What is something he wants from you that you can compromise
Anal. He wants anal. I have yet to concede to his begging.
🙃 sounds like you already know thenclick to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterYes, Libra rising ppl are very pretty I have found. Helps that I have a lot of Leo placements so Libra and Leos have a good connection as far as finding each other attractive. I used to be obsessed with this Libra sun guy and this other Virgo who had a lot of Libra placements. Both signs appreciate beauty.Posted by SeaLionPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by blackphvse
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Ikr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
Dxp doesn't get any better than this
He's a Virgo but he has a Scorpio moon and a Libra rising. Sexy AF. Plus, he did it professionally so it's not like he'd be just making shit up as he went along, he knows what he is doing.
Yeah I'd probably laugh but I'd love it too.
Ohhh so that's where he get this from I see. Scorpio moon. That pretty much explains it all. I'm a Libra rising too btw. All my soft shy and feminine cancer placements gets in my way for pursuing a male model career.
Also I wasn't laughing to insult you or trying to take a dig at you or anything. I just find Virgo men in general to be funny. I know tons of them that are hilarious, but in a good way. I rolls with Virgo men not so much the women of that sign. This thread just made my day complete.click to expand
Posted by stillstillwaterI dont want to make him feel ashamed or embarrassed by it. I feel like if I told him I wouldn't get turned on by male strippers that he would feel like I am disgusted by them and in turn by him. I want him to know I feel comfortable with the fact that he used to do it and that I'm 💯 ok with it. We just had a convo about how he doesn't want a woman who is neg and puts him down, making him feel bad about himself....had nothing to do with stripping, we were fighting about something else and I said some hard truths that he didn't like.
so since he has no issue denying you.... what if you do the opposite.. like yea i dont know if i'd ever get turned on by a male striptease.... I guess reverse psychology
Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. I'm trying to stay away from any negativity about it.
Watch magic Mike with him and talk shit on channum, male strippers, etc. Just be like, this is goofy. Idk why women get off on this.
Posted by SeaLionok ok...back to the drawing board...Posted by stillstillwater
so since he has no issue denying you.... what if you do the opposite.. like yea i dont know if i'd ever get turned on by a male striptease.... I guess reverse psychology
I dont want to make him feel ashamed or embarrassed by it. I feel like if I told him I wouldn't get turned on by male strippers that he would feel like I am disgusted by them and in turn by him. I want him to know I feel comfortable with the fact that he used to do it and that I'm 💯 ok with it. We just had a convo about how he doesn't want a woman who is neg and puts him down, making him feel bad about himself....had nothing to do with stripping, we were fighting about something else and I said some hard truths that he didn't like.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineSeriously? Lol
Didn’t you end the it with him?
Posted by WeedsThis must be why Virgos work so well with Cancers 🤔🧐😏
That's easy GUILT!."you did it for complete strangers but not for me?"
Posted by saggurl88Yes seriously lol ...Posted by MyStarsShine
Didn’t you end the it with him?
Seriously? Lolclick to expand
Posted by OnigenZI will when he stops trying to get me to do anal with him.
Respect boundaries. Stop trying to get him to do what he doesnt want to do.
Posted by saggurl88BLASPHEMY!!!Posted by Weeds
That's easy GUILT!."you did it for complete strangers but not for me?"
This must be why Virgos work so well with Cancers 🤔🧐😏click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineWhat does that have to do with wanting him to strip?Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
Didn’t you end the it with him?
Seriously? Lol
Yes seriously lol ...click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineNo, I said I was thinking about it. We were in the middle of a big fight and things were said.Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
Didn’t you end the it with him?
Seriously? Lol
Yes seriously lol ...click to expand
Posted by WeedsMakes me wish I was good at it! 😝Posted by saggurl88Posted by Weeds
That's easy GUILT!."you did it for complete strangers but not for me?"
This must be why Virgos work so well with Cancers 🤔🧐😏
BLASPHEMY!!!click to expand
Posted by WeedsLmaoPosted by saggurl88Posted by Weeds
That's easy GUILT!."you did it for complete strangers but not for me?"
This must be why Virgos work so well with Cancers 🤔🧐😏
BLASPHEMY!!!click to expand
Posted by SeaLionOkay...I thought I’d imagined it 😀Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
Didn’t you end the it with him?
Seriously? Lol
Yes seriously lol ...
No, I said I was thinking about it. We were in the middle of a big fight and things were said.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88IPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
Didn’t you end the it with him?
Seriously? Lol
Yes seriously lol ...
What does that have to do with wanting him to strip?
And if she’s talking about it, it clearly hasn’t ended. 🤨click to expand
Posted by OnigenZIf the genders in this scenario were reversed then OP would be a creepy rapist.
Respect boundaries. Stop trying to get him to do what he doesnt want to do.
Posted by HemispheresWhy? Because I want a lap dance? I feel if the roles were reversed and I was a guy asking for a lap dance everyone would be OK with it and tell me to break up with her since she's a prude and can't satisfy my sexual desires and to find someone who I'm more sexually compatible with.Posted by OnigenZ
Respect boundaries. Stop trying to get him to do what he doesnt want to do.
If the genders in this scenario were reversed then OP would be a creepy rapist.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SeaLion
Ever since I found out the Virgo used to be a professional stripper I can't stop fantasizing about him giving me a strip tease. But he said he never would. Yeah, I've seen him naked obviously and yes he has on occasion swung it in my face... but that was b4 I knew he did it professionally lol now I want the whole show.
How can I convince a Virgo dom to give me the strip tease I've always wanted. Yes, I've had a lap dance from a male stripper b4, my sisters arranged one for a birthday one year, but that was some stranger and I was on stage drunk in front of a crowd of ppl. This would be more intimate and with someone I actually have feelings for so way more of a turn on.
Any suggestions? My Leo bits love a challenge so this could be a fun game.
Pay himclick to expand
Posted by SeaLionI was thinking the same thing and the English man beat me to it lolPosted by alexscariesPosted by SeaLion
Ever since I found out the Virgo used to be a professional stripper I can't stop fantasizing about him giving me a strip tease. But he said he never would. Yeah, I've seen him naked obviously and yes he has on occasion swung it in my face... but that was b4 I knew he did it professionally lol now I want the whole show.
How can I convince a Virgo dom to give me the strip tease I've always wanted. Yes, I've had a lap dance from a male stripper b4, my sisters arranged one for a birthday one year, but that was some stranger and I was on stage drunk in front of a crowd of ppl. This would be more intimate and with someone I actually have feelings for so way more of a turn on.
Any suggestions? My Leo bits love a challenge so this could be a fun game.
Pay himclick to expand
Posted by SeaLionWell. The only thing I did close to pursuing it was cross dress as a little kid where I slipped on one of my Gemini sister dresses. In fact all us boys did that to be funny. Kids of course do the darnedest things. But I'm not gonna cross dress now and sure as hell won't make a career out of it either.Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by SeaLionPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by blackphvse
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Ikr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
Dxp doesn't get any better than this
He's a Virgo but he has a Scorpio moon and a Libra rising. Sexy AF. Plus, he did it professionally so it's not like he'd be just making shit up as he went along, he knows what he is doing.
Yeah I'd probably laugh but I'd love it too.
Ohhh so that's where he get this from I see. Scorpio moon. That pretty much explains it all. I'm a Libra rising too btw. All my soft shy and feminine cancer placements gets in my way for pursuing a male model career.
Also I wasn't laughing to insult you or trying to take a dig at you or anything. I just find Virgo men in general to be funny. I know tons of them that are hilarious, but in a good way. I rolls with Virgo men not so much the women of that sign. This thread just made my day complete.
Yes, Libra rising ppl are very pretty I have found. Helps that I have a lot of Leo placements so Libra and Leos have a good connection as far as finding each other attractive. I used to be obsessed with this Libra sun guy and this other Virgo who had a lot of Libra placements. Both signs appreciate beauty.
I also get the shyness keeping you away from modeling. I dabled in modeling and acting when I was a teenager but my shyness really stopped me from pursuing it. I went as far as getting accepted to a modeling and acting agency and getting professional photo shoots for my portfolio but my shyness really kept me from going further. I kick myself a lot for that. Ah well. Such is life. You gotta go where it takes you.click to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterI'm sure a lot of guys have done that but won't admit it.Posted by SeaLionPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by SeaLionPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by blackphvse
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Ikr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
Dxp doesn't get any better than this
He's a Virgo but he has a Scorpio moon and a Libra rising. Sexy AF. Plus, he did it professionally so it's not like he'd be just making shit up as he went along, he knows what he is doing.
Yeah I'd probably laugh but I'd love it too.
Ohhh so that's where he get this from I see. Scorpio moon. That pretty much explains it all. I'm a Libra rising too btw. All my soft shy and feminine cancer placements gets in my way for pursuing a male model career.
Also I wasn't laughing to insult you or trying to take a dig at you or anything. I just find Virgo men in general to be funny. I know tons of them that are hilarious, but in a good way. I rolls with Virgo men not so much the women of that sign. This thread just made my day complete.
Yes, Libra rising ppl are very pretty I have found. Helps that I have a lot of Leo placements so Libra and Leos have a good connection as far as finding each other attractive. I used to be obsessed with this Libra sun guy and this other Virgo who had a lot of Libra placements. Both signs appreciate beauty.
I also get the shyness keeping you away from modeling. I dabled in modeling and acting when I was a teenager but my shyness really stopped me from pursuing it. I went as far as getting accepted to a modeling and acting agency and getting professional photo shoots for my portfolio but my shyness really kept me from going further. I kick myself a lot for that. Ah well. Such is life. You gotta go where it takes you.
Well. The only thing I did close to pursuing it was cross dress as a little kid where I slipped on one of my Gemini sister dresses. In fact all us boys did that to be funny. Kids of course do the darnedest things. But I'm not gonna cross dress now and sure as hell won't make a career out of it either.click to expand
Posted by SeaLionYeah that's what I don't understand about people. So scared and ashame to admit anything. If maybe I had some fire in my chart I probably would pursue a career in comedian. I really do love to make people laugh and love to see people have a good time.Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by SeaLionPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by SeaLionPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by blackphvse
You guys are funny. That would be awkward af for me. I'd definitely have a hard time not laughing at a guy if he did that in front of me. Lmao
Ikr? I'm laughing now. And a Virgo dude at that too......bwahahahahaha
Dxp doesn't get any better than this
He's a Virgo but he has a Scorpio moon and a Libra rising. Sexy AF. Plus, he did it professionally so it's not like he'd be just making shit up as he went along, he knows what he is doing.
Yeah I'd probably laugh but I'd love it too.
Ohhh so that's where he get this from I see. Scorpio moon. That pretty much explains it all. I'm a Libra rising too btw. All my soft shy and feminine cancer placements gets in my way for pursuing a male model career.
Also I wasn't laughing to insult you or trying to take a dig at you or anything. I just find Virgo men in general to be funny. I know tons of them that are hilarious, but in a good way. I rolls with Virgo men not so much the women of that sign. This thread just made my day complete.
Yes, Libra rising ppl are very pretty I have found. Helps that I have a lot of Leo placements so Libra and Leos have a good connection as far as finding each other attractive. I used to be obsessed with this Libra sun guy and this other Virgo who had a lot of Libra placements. Both signs appreciate beauty.
I also get the shyness keeping you away from modeling. I dabled in modeling and acting when I was a teenager but my shyness really stopped me from pursuing it. I went as far as getting accepted to a modeling and acting agency and getting professional photo shoots for my portfolio but my shyness really kept me from going further. I kick myself a lot for that. Ah well. Such is life. You gotta go where it takes you.
Well. The only thing I did close to pursuing it was cross dress as a little kid where I slipped on one of my Gemini sister dresses. In fact all us boys did that to be funny. Kids of course do the darnedest things. But I'm not gonna cross dress now and sure as hell won't make a career out of it either.
I'm sure a lot of guys have done that but won't admit it.click to expand
Posted by SeaLionI'm just saying, if a dude came on here asking for advice on how to get his ex to fulfill a fantasy he's already said no to the women on this site would clown his ass.Posted by HemispheresPosted by OnigenZ
Respect boundaries. Stop trying to get him to do what he doesnt want to do.
If the genders in this scenario were reversed then OP would be a creepy rapist.
Why? Because I want a lap dance? I feel if the roles were reversed and I was a guy asking for a lap dance everyone would be OK with it and tell me to break up with her since she's a prude and can't satisfy my sexual desires and to find someone who I'm more sexually compatible with.
Its a lap dance. I'm not forcing him to go down on me or strapping on a dildo so I can ass rape him. I'm asking him, and trying to convince him to do it since it is a fantasy. Just like he has fantasies that he has asked me to fulfill. He has to convince me to do some of them too.click to expand