Do male virgo's cheat?

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Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
Yes they do. On the bright side, you're not likely to catch them or figure out what's up.



im a scorpio, so i think i would defiently find out.

i 99.9% trust my virgo guy..

but not that long ago i went on his facebook (before you all tell me that this is wrong, we occasioally look on eachothers facebook/text messages. not cause we arent trusting of one another but just coz we do) anyway, he started up a convo on facebook with a girl he was seeing before he was with me. It was NOTHING suspicious, but she then said "oh yeah we should catch up for a game of pool sometime" (they used to do this together) which he agreed to. they didnt actually PLAN anything though, just kind of said it.. I didnt think much of it cause being a scoprio, i usually get a REAL strong instinct if there was something suspicious.. but i didnt get that instinct so i shrugged it off. i sortof hinted a couple times that i knew, but didnt wanna straight out say it. I then looked at the same message again and he had deleted some of the message and made it look like he didnt write back to a few of the things she said. i didnt say anything about it.

(Him and her were never an offical couple because she was a bit weird and lied to him and kissed another man pretty much infront of him on their date! and she does not have herself together very well.)

ANYWAY... i didnt say anything to him about it but then something came up about a game of pool.. and he mentioend to me that the girl had asked him to catch up for a game of pool.. but he made a joke out of it..and i said "yeah and you agreed for a game of pool" and then he then lied and said that he did not agree and said "look at the messages" and i said "i have seen them, and i also seen that you deleted half the conversation". since he got caught out, he then addmitted to deleting it but only so that i dont start an ARGUMENT about it cause it was NOTHING. i then said that i believed it was NOTHING suspicious thats why i didnt straight otu say something straight away but now that he has LIED to me NOW that makes it suspicious. he agreed that it looks suss.. but it's nothing. (which i do believe) i then said, "would you ever catch up with her again" and he said "No, not while im with you" (which again i believe)

it's just annoying. 😢 he also got very badly cheated on by his ex of 3 years so i dont believe he would do it
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ALSO.. he went away for 2 weeks interstate with friends.. i didnt wanna be clingy so i let him do most of the initiating contact etc! and he told me he missed me and wished i was there. one of the nights he went out clubbing with his mates.. and he told me that he got hit on by a few girls.. so straight away he got his phone out and showed them his screen saver which is a pic of me to show them he has a girlfriend. this kind of stuff i really appreciate!
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Are there any redeeming qualities— Virgo makes are seriously becoming not worth it in my book. I just don't see what the advantage of getting with one is any longer. To be cheated on? By some punk insecure selfish dude who has the emotional capacity of wood. I don't think my ego can handle this.



Hehehehe, you crack me up!

And I totally agree with ya. I don't like to write off any signs but I'm going to have to steer clear of Virgos. Y'all are something else.
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Lmao.
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I don't have any proof that the Virgo men in my life have cheated, but I know way too many Virgo women who have cheated. I think the only reason I know is because the virgo women saw no harm in telling me about it. So fuck yeah I think the men cheat too. But I think it's for the same reason other earth signs or even water signs cheat...they're not really in love.
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For a while, I couldn't see Virgo men cheating either...I am admittedly a little prejudiced when it comes to them.lol I used to have a Virgos can do no wrong mindset, until I started spending so much time with several Virgo women. However, being completely honest, if any sign could be an epic cheater and still come off as innocent and virginal...it would be a Virgo man.lol

I do wonder if the women are just more jaded than the men, but that could simply be my mind's way of trying to keep Virgo men on the pedestal I have for them.lol whatevs...wishful thinking.

The cheating bit aside, I do actually like hanging out with Virgo women. I learn so much and they're seriously inspiring.
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My Virgo sis dated a Scorpio forever(about 4-5yrs) and never cheated. I actually use to try and push her to talk to other guys just because she got sooooo much attention, and because the Scorp was crazy, but she was in love. I agree that true love cut out all the extra with earth signs.

I dont think my Libra aunt Virgo husband ever cheated on her. He was really controlling though.
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Unpopular opinion here but I've never known a Virgo to cheat. I think you'll find levels of cheating in all signs. I guess if you're wondering then you probably have a reason to be suspicious? (I don't know the full backstory, I just read the question). It sounds to me like you might be happier single. As you said you haven't even slept with a super sexy Italian. Be a fishy and go explore the waters if you want to! Best of luck with everything 🙂
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Alright with virgo its really 50/50 now you have to see what type of virgo you have. There is the virgo that wants to be with someone but does not like to give out a lot of emotions "cough'" cough" mr defense lol. Than you have the super moral virgo which is just to moral to do that most of the time they get cheated on all the time because they are so boring. But they always forgive the cheater. Than you have the I don't give a fuck type virgo they curse a lot and most of the time they have tats and they always have a vibe like I don't give fuck about anything. Those are the ones that cheat they are harder to spot sometimes because they act like an angle sometimes.
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What do you mean? It's simple, not all Virgo??s cheat. Simply ask him has he ever cheated?

If he says yes, then watch out. If he says no, then he's probably a keeper. However, if he lies about it, the relationship was doomed from the start.

When I asked my Sagi she said —I??ve never cheated.?? I said —Alrighty then.?? I believe her. Especially she knew I was coming from an infidelity relationship. She says I don't deserve this type of treatment.

I??ve always said —I??d rather live with the truth and be hurt, than live with a lie and be happy.??

A commitment between two people is unfathomable. This is your life long partner, you trust with your life, with your kids, with your family, with your money, with your future.

Any betrayal cuts deep, in business, friendship or lovers. You can never trust that person again.

So back to just asking him, have you ever cheated?
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Yes, we do. I have twice over the years (separate relationships). For me, when the woman I'm with and I lose that connection, she stops appreciating me, starts playing games, etc..and I'm over it, I have cheated. Not consistent, just those two times.

I always ended it right afterwards, but never told the girl because I didn't want to hurt her. Never seriously dated the girls I cheated on them with, either, which I never really realized until just now. Curious.. lol
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I'm a virgo woman but I'll respond anyway..

I've never cheated on anyone in my entire life. The sheer thought of cheating on someone I love makes my stomach turn.

I will either be in a serious committed relationship where I only have eyes for that person, or I will date around until I meet that person that makes me feel that way.. So that way I'm not cheating on anyone because I'm not being exclusive.

I've never even been tempted to cheat in a relationship. I will usually loose interest and end the relationship way before I'm even thinking about seeing someone else.

I think planet Venus would also have an impact on the question.. I don't know much about the other planets but from what I gather the sun sign affects overall personality while Venus affects how the person behaves in relationships.