Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do

Posted by Gem03

Update: Early June, I wrote a mini paragraph saying "When you said yes then 2 days later broke things off? It was painful and I compartmentalized it for awhile but that was fucked up. That was the trigger….not me jumping to conclusions. I genuinely hope you never do that to someone again. Goodbye".

He responded "Hurting you was the exact thing I was trying to avoid, my feelings for you have not changed. I’m glad you found someone else to talk to and I hope they are able to accomplish what I was unable to."

I left it at that then yesterday I was like I need answers. We had a day long convo about everything. He said he is cautious and wanted to take things slowwww bc he knows he is worth it. That he's a good catch. I was like how does one drag a talking stage to a YEAR. I called him out for being inconsistent. I can't type everything out lmao.

But I have unblocked him.

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Posted by Gem03

Update: Early June, I wrote a mini paragraph saying "When you said yes then 2 days later broke things off? It was painful and I compartmentalized it for awhile but that was fucked up. That was the trigger….not me jumping to conclusions. I genuinely hope you never do that to someone again. Goodbye".

He responded "Hurting you was the exact thing I was trying to avoid, my feelings for you have not changed. I’m glad you found someone else to talk to and I hope they are able to accomplish what I was unable to."

I left it at that then yesterday I was like I need answers. We had a day long convo about everything. He said he is cautious and wanted to take things slowwww bc he knows he is worth it. That he's a good catch. I was like how does one drag a talking stage to a YEAR. I called him out for being inconsistent. I can't type everything out lmao.

But I have unblocked him.

I am curious about Virgos and sometimes I lurk this forum, so! I am always surprised how people out of blue decide to pour their heart out in front of someone who gives 0 foxes about it. It is June, summer time & summer vibe, dude must be chilling somewhere with his girlfriends (well, based on the info you posted before) and then Bam! Message (a paragraph) from you talking about things which happened almost in the past life. He also has a nerve to state he is a catch (#rollingeyes emoji). What is your goal in this situation?

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Posted by Gem03

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Posted by Gem03

Update: Early June, I wrote a mini paragraph saying "When you said yes then 2 days later broke things off? It was painful and I compartmentalized it for awhile but that was fucked up. That was the trigger….not me jumping to conclusions. I genuinely hope you never do that to someone again. Goodbye".

He responded "Hurting you was the exact thing I was trying to avoid, my feelings for you have not changed. I’m glad you found someone else to talk to and I hope they are able to accomplish what I was unable to."


I left it at that then yesterday I was like I need answers. We had a day long convo about everything. He said he is cautious and wanted to take things slowwww bc he knows he is worth it. That he's a good catch. I was like how does one drag a talking stage to a YEAR. I called him out for being inconsistent. I can't type everything out lmao.

But I have unblocked him.

I am curious about Virgos and sometimes I lurk this forum, so! I am always surprised how people out of blue decide to pour their heart out in front of someone who gives 0 foxes about it. It is June, summer time & summer vibe, dude must be chilling somewhere with his girlfriends (well, based on the info you posted before) and then Bam! Message (a paragraph) from you talking about things which happened almost in the past life. He also has a nerve to state he is a catch (#rollingeyes emoji). What is your goal in this situation?

He isn't exactly happy im talking to someone else.

I don't have a goal tbh. A lot of what i did was call him out on his bs. He explained his side and whatnot but not much I can do, its his loss.

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Posted by Gem03

He has also said that he is better than other men. I'm like....."boy you tryna convince me or you?"

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Posted by Gem03

Update: Early June, I wrote a mini paragraph saying "When you said yes then 2 days later broke things off? It was painful and I compartmentalized it for awhile but that was fucked up. That was the trigger….not me jumping to conclusions. I genuinely hope you never do that to someone again. Goodbye".

He responded "Hurting you was the exact thing I was trying to avoid, my feelings for you have not changed. I’m glad you found someone else to talk to and I hope they are able to accomplish what I was unable to."


I left it at that then yesterday I was like I need answers. We had a day long convo about everything. He said he is cautious and wanted to take things slowwww bc he knows he is worth it. That he's a good catch. I was like how does one drag a talking stage to a YEAR. I called him out for being inconsistent. I can't type everything out lmao.

But I have unblocked him.

I am curious about Virgos and sometimes I lurk this forum, so! I am always surprised how people out of blue decide to pour their heart out in front of someone who gives 0 foxes about it. It is June, summer time & summer vibe, dude must be chilling somewhere with his girlfriends (well, based on the info you posted before) and then Bam! Message (a paragraph) from you talking about things which happened almost in the past life. He also has a nerve to state he is a catch (#rollingeyes emoji). What is your goal in this situation?

He isn't exactly happy im talking to someone else.

I don't have a goal tbh. A lot of what i did was call him out on his bs. He explained his side and whatnot but not much I can do, its his loss.

Did not you call him out already 3 months ago when you decided to "gracefully let go"?

So, you sent him an emotional message how he is unavailable 3 months ago, when blocked him on social media/phone. When you followed up calling him out and unblocked everywhere. Right, I see no goal here. Do you think he cant see it as well?

"He responded "Hurting you was the exact thing I was trying to avoid, my feelings for you have not changed. I’m glad you found someone else to talk to and I hope they are able to accomplish what I was unable to." -> yeah, narcissists can not stand competition that is true. Also "hurting you was the exact thing I was trying to avoid" sounds legit to me! I mean, who would expect you to be hurt after he promised the world and went on vacation with 3 girls stunting on Instagram? People here already told you about all red flags, I am not going to repeat that. It is okay to dive into some emotional turmoil, especially when you are young and have all time in the world.

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Posted by 81gems

Virgo sun AND moon man?

RUN.

Virgo sun is too critical, moody, fucked up and weird. Now add the moon to that.

Run from any sign that will analyze their mistakes and make every excuse in the world for them, while crucifying you for the same thing. No one does this better than Virgo. Natural born psychopaths.

Oh, two thing Virgo has going for them; they can be cold blooded bastards when it comes to business and making money. All right if you want to be the next Madoff. Also, once they're committed, they stay committed. No matter how deceitful and abusive and fucked up the relationship is, no matter how it fucks up other family members or their children, Virgo just never leaves. The relationship can go to Hell and take them and their kids and everyone else in the world with them and Virgo will just always stick around. Pretty pathetic considering they're a sign that "doesn't put up with [I]nonsense."[/I]

*eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll*

Taurus is actually the better earth sign here. Both are supposed to be straightforward, but Taurus ACTUALLY is. Meanwhile Virgo "doesn't like confrontations" so they're too pussy to say what needs to be said at the right time. And because Taurus is so sensitive, you CAN potentially get through to them with a little honesty followed by a heart to heart. No matter what, Virgo never learns. Like, Ever!

Posted by Gem03

Posted by 81gems

Virgo sun AND moon man?

RUN.

Virgo sun is too critical, moody, fucked up and weird. Now add the moon to that.

Run from any sign that will analyze their mistakes and make every excuse in the world for them, while crucifying you for the same thing. No one does this better than Virgo. Natural born psychopaths.

Oh, two thing Virgo has going for them; they can be cold blooded bastards when it comes to business and making money. All right if you want to be the next Madoff. Also, once they're committed, they stay committed. No matter how deceitful and abusive and fucked up the relationship is, no matter how it fucks up other family members or their children, Virgo just never leaves. The relationship can go to Hell and take them and their kids and everyone else in the world with them and Virgo will just always stick around. Pretty pathetic considering they're a sign that "doesn't put up with [I]nonsense."[/I]

*eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll* *eyeroll*

Taurus is actually the better earth sign here. Both are supposed to be straightforward, but Taurus ACTUALLY is. Meanwhile Virgo "doesn't like confrontations" so they're too pussy to say what needs to be said at the right time. And because Taurus is so sensitive, you CAN potentially get through to them with a little honesty followed by a heart to heart. No matter what, Virgo never learns. Like, Ever!

I feel like with taurus, they understand emotions. Virgos its like there are a bunch of gears where the heart is supposed to be.

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