Going Dutch
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by beautifulsoul74Posted by DazedScorpPosted by beautifulsoul74
@Dazed:
Its almost a lose/lose. In my experience if you say Dutch from the get go, moaning and knashing of the teeth ensues.
Can you explain?
If I suggest we go Dutch, I get complaints. If I say okay I'll pay or take them somewhere that's within my budget...I get called a cheapskate. Then when I say, well you pay then, I get called a loser lmao.
I can see that.
But why don't you try this...
Say you'll pay, and if she has a problem with where you go... Say fuck it, you're not the one for me, and move on to the next?click to expand
Lmao! I have! I got a funny/sad story about an experience I had a few months ago. I'll tell it in a second.
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@Aurora yes it is a sad topic. At least the son has a really excellent mom. I know some kids have nobody.
@LIB yes you're right. It was probably best the dad wasn't really there all along so the son has less to detach from.
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Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by virgokingPosted by CluelessCancer
VirgoKing you didn't say if i am supposed to meet a Cancer man or not...
Any man with strong 4th house placements will do but a cancer mars may drive you crazy in love lol.
What does that mean..anybody with strong 4th house placements?click to expand
It means some one that has more than one planet in the 4th house. Example me I have 4 planets in virgo and 3 of them are in the 11 house so I have a strong 11 house.
lol@CC
Lucky Senior to land a 30y/o.
Has this guy been married before or been with someone long term? like looong term?
I would be careful with an older guy whose never had a serious relationship.
Lucky Senior to land a 30y/o.
Has this guy been married before or been with someone long term? like looong term?
I would be careful with an older guy whose never had a serious relationship.
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Sounds like an "unevolved Leo" that I know @LibraConfused84. They want to test you & see how far you'll let them push the envelope. So its up to you... do you want to keep playing these "games" or do you want to "stand up" for your beliefs and REALLY make an impression on him that he will remember you in a positive light for? I say go for the latter! Do YOU and be that kind yet strong woman and don't let him keep playing mind games with you
Wise words, not to fight who you are. And actually ambiversion or introversion does sound pretty useful after reading all your posts here. I absolutely see the benefits of calmness and quiet reflection, I do it quite often too, and I think that is how other people generally see me, at least at first. Maybe it's my Leo moon that hates being ignored that has a difficult time coping with the introversion.. lol..actually I have no idea, I'm only just learning about the other aspects of my chart.
Interesting point about the ascendent.. I have to read more about it. Did you mean the Sag ascendent and the Leo moon, and the fact that they are both fire signs? Thankful for any insight.
aqalight,
I don't know what you mean by your question about the Sag ascendent and Leo moon--I didn't mention anything about those... Can you clarify?
Interesting point about the ascendent.. I have to read more about it. Did you mean the Sag ascendent and the Leo moon, and the fact that they are both fire signs? Thankful for any insight.
aqalight,
I don't know what you mean by your question about the Sag ascendent and Leo moon--I didn't mention anything about those... Can you clarify?
Posted by SweetLibraPosted by virgokingPosted by SweetLibra
Wow Virgoking you are awesome! Is it too late to get in the game? I'm almost afraid to hear what you have to say. Here it goes:
Jupiter in Gemini .043 R IV Taurus 6.37
ASC in Scorpio 3.31 XII Scorpio 6.37
And would retrograde affect the outcome at all?
Your is in the 8th house he would have to be good at sex he must talk dirty to you and he will teach you about the darker sides of humanity. He maybe into astrology or likes to talk about the occult. You can find him at a funeral home,or at a funeral, or a lwayer. Someone with strong scorpio placements or strong 8th house placements.
Thank you VirgoKing. I'll have to think on this. Half of it is true. The sex part is true. But I hate going to funerals. And lawyers are usually liars.
Oh well, I really do appreciate you doing that for me though. Thank you for your time.
After reading this I'm going to have to double check my birth time. This just doesn't feel like it fits me.click to expand
Your jupiter maybe in the 7 house it just made gemnini. I would need bday time and place to make sure
Posted by aquasnozPosted by Mr. Defense
I do go on regular dates, I also do open doors for women, give the hugs, and give them gifts. This is not romance though, this is simple interaction. As a matter of fact, I'm the first person to arrange a date to a nice place, because I love going out, and hate being stuck in the house.
Maybe the problem here is that you're not viewing them as romantic gestures which by all means I agree to you it might not be overly apparent but I think when something is genuine one doesn't need to think whether it was romantic or not.
As intrigued pointed out before sometimes these smaller gestures can be far more romantic than over the top ones depending on the person.click to expand
+1, exactly. romantic is more someone who looks out for you, checks in on you, worries for you, wants to take care of you, is there for you, sometimes even indirectly, not making it obvious. girls pick up on the indirect care. and girls can also tell the genuine from the fake. a smooth talker is not going to go anywhere with superficial flowery talk. the silent guy who irritates because he never says much is still going to get all the brownie points for showing it all through his actions. haha and if one ever confronts him about what's up with all the concern, he might not even accept that he was showing concern, because he is humble. he is not doing it expecting any acknowledgement, he is doing it because that is how he feels about that person. like we do stuff for our family/friends because we want to not because we want anything in return, because it is the emotion you feel for them. same time some direct display of affection is also a must when both have acknowledged the relation.
Spot on for me... Mom pregnant at 16, didn't want to be a mom. I was passed around from one relative to another, spent some time in foster care, on my own as soon as I turned 17. Now I'm in my thirties, and have a good relationship with my mom.
Still, I find I am in constant conflict with myself, being a Capricorn sun and Scorpio moon...
The Sun wants to remain aloof and in control, the Moon is stupid and romantic and constantly making bad decisions regarding relationships. I've already been divorced twice. I wish I could turn off this moon and just be happy being on my own!
Still, I find I am in constant conflict with myself, being a Capricorn sun and Scorpio moon...
The Sun wants to remain aloof and in control, the Moon is stupid and romantic and constantly making bad decisions regarding relationships. I've already been divorced twice. I wish I could turn off this moon and just be happy being on my own!