Cappie ladies, are you really this forgiving?

Posted by Cancan26
mind blown~!



man I didn't know swizz beats was a virgo? whaaaaat alicia an aqua wwwwwwwwwwwhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaattttt?

I didn't know mimi was a cappie ...but Imm tell you that joseline and mimi were friends before and hand and engage in some sexual stuff TOGETHER with stevie then things got messy or maybe joseline wanted stevie the whole time we will never know ...so I'm sure its hard to separate all that out

Posted by lnana04
Could you forgive an ex boyfriend or husband that cheated on you? Forgive him enough to be around him and his new family?

Some of you may not know these people, but this Cap was cheated on by her Virgo husband at the time, and he was cheating with singer Alicia Keys. Him and Alicia are now married with kids. Now, they(Cap, Virgo, Alicia, kids) all take picture s and are in videos together.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BOdeLFqhBoE/

I could see myself being forgiving, but its still odd.

Here's another one that played out in the media, Mimi(Cap) and Joseline(Scorpio). Joseline took Mimi's boyfriend, and it devasted her but Mimi tried to be friends.

https://www.instagram.com/p/7DV5OuAR6S/

I guess Joseline eventually thought it was fake or felt some way about it and I think they are in bad terms now.

My thing is, are there any hidden intentions behind forgiving THAT much, or are we really capable of it and do it out of love?

I may have asked this question before, idk.

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Posted by Cancan26
mind blown~!



man I didn't know swizz beats was a virgo? whaaaaat alicia an aqua wwwwwwwwwwwhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaattttt?

I didn't know mimi was a cappie ...but Imm tell you that joseline and mimi were friends before and hand and engage in some sexual stuff TOGETHER with stevie then things got messy or maybe joseline wanted stevie the whole time we will never know ...so I'm sure its hard to separate all that out

Yeah, Swizz is a Virgo.

I don't know if Joseline and Mimi were friends, but I did hear they all engaged in some activities together. I think that's probably why it hurt Mimi so much too. Mimi is STILL hurt underneath it all, which is why I don't understand the actions of her caring to be friends or friendly. I wonder if its possibly the Cap compartmentalization thing? Being hurt bit able to be friends or cordial? Idk

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Posted by Montgomery
Well... its entirely possible that large sums of

money were exchanged, for one.

Second, the Cap who was dumped may refuse

to let anyone have the satisfaction of seeing

her feathers ruffled, so to speak.

It really fucks with people's minds ?

My .02

Posted by Montgomery
Well... its entirely possible that large sums of

money were exchanged, for one.

Second, the Cap who was dumped may refuse

to let anyone have the satisfaction of seeing

her feathers ruffled, so to speak.

It really fucks with people's minds ?

My .02

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery
Well... its entirely possible that large sums of

money were exchanged, for one.

Second, the Cap who was dumped may refuse

to let anyone have the satisfaction of seeing

her feathers ruffled, so to speak.

It really fucks with people's minds ?

My .02

my sister told me that her mother in law is DEEPLY very very DEEPLY hurt. it tore the family apart, and even the son and daughters were devastated. but they kept on...kept being strong as a family unit.

and why didn't she divorce him? Because she loves him too much. she loves so deeply that she is mothering his children from the mistress.

but she never ever forgave the ex best friend.

yup...this was a FORMER best friend.


you can never forgive something so cruel like that, and a best friend?? if friends like that, who needs enemies?

so I even asked, how come the mistress did that?? why can't she get her OWN man???

well they all spent a lot of time together, going together to parties, events, and she didn't have her own man, and liked the charactertisitcs and charming style of the husband.

then she moved on in like a HAWK, after spending so much time.

Cappy lady TRUSTED her and the husband, she didn't think otherwise that they would do that you know??

it hurts very very deeply.

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Posted by lnana04
The guy in Mimi's and Joseline situation is a Scorpio. They were never married. They are from the reality show Love and Hip Hop. Tried to be "friends" or cordial, but look what's underneath that.

I think that's a good point, being hurt but putting on a brave face, and doing it for the kids if they are involved.

It just all seems like the Cap being a glutton for punishment.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery
Well... its entirely possible that large sums of

money were exchanged, for one.

Second, the Cap who was dumped may refuse

to let anyone have the satisfaction of seeing

her feathers ruffled, so to speak.

It really fucks with people's minds ?

My .02

my sister told me that her mother in law is DEEPLY very very DEEPLY hurt. it tore the family apart, and even the son and daughters were devastated. but they kept on...kept being strong as a family unit.

and why didn't she divorce him? Because she loves him too much. she loves so deeply that she is mothering his children from the mistress.

but she never ever forgave the ex best friend.

yup...this was a FORMER best friend.


you can never forgive something so cruel like that, and a best friend?? if friends like that, who needs enemies?

so I even asked, how come the mistress did that?? why can't she get her OWN man???

well they all spent a lot of time together, going together to parties, events, and she didn't have her own man, and liked the charactertisitcs and charming style of the husband.

then she moved on in like a HAWK, after spending so much time.

Cappy lady TRUSTED her and the husband, she didn't think otherwise that they would do that you know??

it hurts very very deeply.

Ugh, this is not the first or even 2nd time I've heard of this happening to a Cap. Trusting their best friends and boyfriends/husband's too much.

This happened to Misa...Diddys ex and child's mother. Miss(Cap) had been dating Diddy, or Puffy, for years and her friend Kim Porter needed a place to stay, so Miss moved her in with her and Diddy. Of course, Diddy and Kim started sleeping together and eventually started dating and had kids. That's the story I heard.

My sisters Cap friend is like that. If her friends need a place to stay, she's letting them move in with her and her husband. Its sweet, but it seems you can't trust people smh.

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Posted by lnana04
Could you forgive an ex boyfriend or husband that cheated on you? Forgive him enough to be around him and his new family?

Some of you may not know these people, but this Cap was cheated on by her Virgo husband at the time, and he was cheating with singer Alicia Keys. Him and Alicia are now married with kids. Now, they(Cap, Virgo, Alicia, kids) all take picture s and are in videos together.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BOdeLFqhBoE/

I could see myself being forgiving, but its still odd.

Here's another one that played out in the media, Mimi(Cap) and Joseline(Scorpio). Joseline took Mimi's boyfriend, and it devasted her but Mimi tried to be friends.

https://www.instagram.com/p/7DV5OuAR6S/

I guess Joseline eventually thought it was fake or felt some way about it and I think they are in bad terms now.

My thing is, are there any hidden intentions behind forgiving THAT much, or are we really capable of it and do it out of love?

I may have asked this question before, idk.

However, forgiving your cheating partner enough to be able to hang out with his family? It totally depends on what your original relationship was like. If it was harmonious for the most part, then it is possible.

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Posted by lnana04
Could you forgive an ex boyfriend or husband that cheated on you? Forgive him enough to be around him and his new family?

Some of you may not know these people, but this Cap was cheated on by her Virgo husband at the time, and he was cheating with singer Alicia Keys. Him and Alicia are now married with kids. Now, they(Cap, Virgo, Alicia, kids) all take picture s and are in videos together.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BOdeLFqhBoE/

I could see myself being forgiving, but its still odd.

Here's another one that played out in the media, Mimi(Cap) and Joseline(Scorpio). Joseline took Mimi's boyfriend, and it devasted her but Mimi tried to be friends.

https://www.instagram.com/p/7DV5OuAR6S/

I guess Joseline eventually thought it was fake or felt some way about it and I think they are in bad terms now.

My thing is, are there any hidden intentions behind forgiving THAT much, or are we really capable of it and do it out of love?

I may have asked this question before, idk.

However, forgiving your cheating partner enough to be able to hang out with his family? It totally depends on what your original relationship was like. If it was harmonious for the most part, then it is possible.

I on the other hand think that if it was so harmonious then the hurt would be much more and deeper .

In case of cheating, the most difficult part is to look at things objectively. I believe it is easier to do that if you had a good relationship to begin with.

You are right. The hurt is going to be felt much deeper, but there might be less of the bitterness and resentment that is seen in cases where the relationship witnessed abuse and mistreatment prior to cheating.

Not every person's reaction is going to be the same, however. There are so many factors to consider while deciding how one would react in a given situation.

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Posted by lnana04
Could you forgive an ex boyfriend or husband that cheated on you? Forgive him enough to be around him and his new family?

Some of you may not know these people, but this Cap was cheated on by her Virgo husband at the time, and he was cheating with singer Alicia Keys. Him and Alicia are now married with kids. Now, they(Cap, Virgo, Alicia, kids) all take picture s and are in videos together.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BOdeLFqhBoE/

I could see myself being forgiving, but its still odd.

Here's another one that played out in the media, Mimi(Cap) and Joseline(Scorpio). Joseline took Mimi's boyfriend, and it devasted her but Mimi tried to be friends.

https://www.instagram.com/p/7DV5OuAR6S/

I guess Joseline eventually thought it was fake or felt some way about it and I think they are in bad terms now.

My thing is, are there any hidden intentions behind forgiving THAT much, or are we really capable of it and do it out of love?

I may have asked this question before, idk.

No one is infallible. Once you accept that, forgiveness comes easily. It's also important for personal well-being.

However, forgiving your cheating partner enough to be able to hang out with his family? It totally depends on what your original relationship was like. If it was harmonious for the most part, then it is possible.

One would also consider everything that is at stake. Or you would just do it to show that you are strong and unaffected by it all.

BTW, instead of focusing on the Cap, I would be more concerned about Alicia Keys hanging out with her husband's ex-wife.

How does one do that without getting insecure? If the Virgo and Cap are this comfortable with each other, even after having gone through so much, their relationship is certainly stronger than what Alicia has with her husband now.

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Posted by Montgomery
 '... she loves so deeply that she is mothering his children from the mistress'

@lisabethur8


I used to work with a woman years ago, who

(I heard-- she told me) ended up doing the same

damned thing!

I don't think the other woman was a best friend,

but her ex-husband's children with this woman

loved her and I believe she took care of them

while the other worked iirc.

Bizarre... but she's ALWAYS played the martyr.

And she's a LEO, to boot... 12th House issues

maybe. ?

Posted by lnana04
Could you forgive an ex boyfriend or husband that cheated on you? Forgive him enough to be around him and his new family?

Some of you may not know these people, but this Cap was cheated on by her Virgo husband at the time, and he was cheating with singer Alicia Keys. Him and Alicia are now married with kids. Now, they(Cap, Virgo, Alicia, kids) all take picture s and are in videos together.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BOdeLFqhBoE/

I could see myself being forgiving, but its still odd.

Here's another one that played out in the media, Mimi(Cap) and Joseline(Scorpio). Joseline took Mimi's boyfriend, and it devasted her but Mimi tried to be friends.

https://www.instagram.com/p/7DV5OuAR6S/

I guess Joseline eventually thought it was fake or felt some way about it and I think they are in bad terms now.

My thing is, are there any hidden intentions behind forgiving THAT much, or are we really capable of it and do it out of love?

I may have asked this question before, idk.

Posted by marshmallow
@ OP

Never thought it could be true because when i think of myself i know i do not have an ability to forgive people , except for small stuff which i let go after some time. Cheating is a big thing and it not just makes you hurt but takes away your confidence and hampers your self respect . So no i wont be able to forgive and be friends in such a scenario .

Now if i think of it , if there are children involved then may be good parents would ideally want to maintain cordial relationship(atleast on the face of it) for the sake of children ?

Talking about celebrities, Deepika Padukone (Jan 5), i dont know how many people know her here. She is an Indian actor and is on top slot today in India. When she was still new she started dating Ranbir Kapoor (Libra). Now this guy belonged to the most known & influential Bollywood (Indian movies) family . He cheated on her with Katrina Kaif (Cancer ) (funny thing she was also dating a capricorn Salman Khan right before Ranbir Kapoor )

Now when the cheating came out initially they of course broke up and there were few sarcastic and insulting comments Deepika made about Ranbir Kapoor on a talk show and few other places . Fast forward few years they never stopped working with each other and eventually seems or clam to have become friends . Cold war between Katrina and Deepika is much claimed by media here . When i think of it , keeping aside the conversations and efforts that may have happened between the 2 (Deepika and Ranbir) in order to pacify things , I wonder if Deepika was also playing safe to establish her self in the Industry . She was new then and if she would have chosen to never work with him or have sour relationship then she would have missed out on many good opportunities as the industry to think of it is small . There are few people & families who have more hold on the major work happening . Today she is on top . Katrina is nothing more than a pretty face . (Work speaks loudest and is the best revenge)

Her chart :

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Posted by marshmallow
@ OP

Never thought it could be true because when i think of myself i know i do not have an ability to forgive people , except for small stuff which i let go after some time. Cheating is a big thing and it not just makes you hurt but takes away your confidence and hampers your self respect . So no i wont be able to forgive and be friends in such a scenario .

Now if i think of it , if there are children involved then may be good parents would ideally want to maintain cordial relationship(atleast on the face of it) for the sake of children ?

Talking about celebrities, Deepika Padukone (Jan 5), i dont know how many people know her here. She is an Indian actor and is on top slot today in India. When she was still new she started dating Ranbir Kapoor (Libra). Now this guy belonged to the most known & influential Bollywood (Indian movies) family . He cheated on her with Katrina Kaif (Cancer ) (funny thing she was also dating a capricorn Salman Khan right before Ranbir Kapoor )

Now when the cheating came out initially they of course broke up and there were few sarcastic and insulting comments Deepika made about Ranbir Kapoor on a talk show and few other places . Fast forward few years they never stopped working with each other and eventually seems or clam to have become friends . Cold war between Katrina and Deepika is much claimed by media here . When i think of it , keeping aside the conversations and efforts that may have happened between the 2 (Deepika and Ranbir) in order to pacify things , I wonder if Deepika was also playing safe to establish her self in the Industry . She was new then and if she would have chosen to never work with him or have sour relationship then she would have missed out on many good opportunities as the industry to think of it is small . There are few people & families who have more hold on the major work happening . Today she is on top . Katrina is nothing more than a pretty face . (Work speaks loudest and is the best revenge)

Her chart :

hey!! didn't know you were Indian too :-)

I agree about Deepika, she has tried to maintain friendship with Ranbir when she needn't have - she was and is TOP actress today, and Salman too still loves and has maintained friendship with Katrina despite their breakup.. :-)

It's only Cappies both the times who have forgiven and stayed friends with exes... well, except a few girlfriends of Salman :p ..it is said Salman is still friends with Sangeeta Bijlani(Cancer), Somi Ali (Aries - i think she is - she always speaks fondly of him tho).. Katrina also is fond of him.. except Aishwarya Rai with whom his breakup was nasty.


My experience has been, Cappies, if they allow you into their lives that closely will never let you go, no matter how you hurt them, they will take time but will not leave you so easily.

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Posted by lnana04
The guy in Mimi's and Joseline situation is a Scorpio. They were never married. They are from the reality show Love and Hip Hop. Tried to be "friends" or cordial, but look what's underneath that.

I think that's a good point, being hurt but putting on a brave face, and doing it for the kids if they are involved.

It just all seems like the Cap being a glutton for punishment.

do you think it's a publicity stunt?? and it's fake?

I don't see why that her friend would do that.

why can't she get her own man?


this maybe the dark side of scorpio.


Remember Scorpio.org site??

the scorpio woman astrologer on the site said that scorpio can do that,

http://scorpioland.org/tag/julia-roberts/

“If a Scorpio feels destined to sync with someone, nothing will stop it, certainly not some arbitrary man-made morality.” Julia Roberts. Vivian Leigh. Dorothy Dandridge. As much as these Scorpio starlets are known for their Hollywood glamour they are also known for their Scorpio love affairs with married men. With Scorpio & its ruler Pluto being associated with the 8th house — the house of other people’s property — I think it’s safe to say that O.P.P., made famous in the ’90s rap song, is a zodiac hazard. OK, Thrill. Destiny? Well, maybe just a zodiac situation Scorpios (and other 8th house types) might consciously or unconsciously find themselves in whether by personal design or happenstance. The 8th house, with its obsession for sex and psychology and the dark edges of life also involves the experience of benefiting or receiving fortune through things belonging to others. Mostly this is discussed in terms of money and inheritance, but let’s be real here, it can involve a wide range of other..."


it's not scorpio suns, but also scorpionic/plutonic folks too.


remember Angelina Jolie?? she is very plutonic. And she was highly publicized as taking Brad Pitt, (much less that did her since they divorced)

so if the Capricorn woman is plutonic herself, she should already know the wiles and be PREPARED for it.



I've always thought the same thing about Angelina Jolie

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Posted by RumiL
Even Hrithik Roshan(a Cappy) who split with Suzanne(a Scorpio) - he still speaks fondly of her. It is said, she left him during the worst time of his life, he had brain surgery but did not have his wife by his side - now there may be different personal reasons, but still.. Despite their divorce, he still says he will love her forever...

My neighbour is also a Cappy, he is also friends with his exes.. he says, 'life is too short' to hold on to such grudges... But then, he also cheats, likes casual relationships :/

Posted by Capri-sun
I'm like this with my ex husband sometimes. I was just telling him sometimes we get along great as friends, then we sometimes have periods where we hate each other / argue / don't talk.

He's a sag. We went to a show together a couple of days ago.

He says that I'm the person that knows him best. He talks to me sometimes when he's having relationship issues. The most recent one, I guess she felt some type of way with me being his ex, which is understandable. If she knew me, then maybe she wouldn't feel threatened, idk.

At one point we were best friends, and when we can still do that, it's awesome. Do I go out of my way to make conversation with him? No. We are there for each other for the most part though, if one of us is in a bind or needs something (financial, emotional, etc.)

Are there feelings on my end? No. We don't have sex, and I see him as only a friend. At times I am even still guarded with him because sometimes I don't know which version of him I'm going to get while talking to each other.

My cap best friend is/was close or at least cordial with her boyfriend's exes. She still keeps a relationship with his other kids, etc. (They're no longer together, have a child together though)

I don't see anything wrong with keeping peace and harmony in a person's life, especially if children are involved. We haven't always been at the point we are now. There were times of tension, I just prefer things to be easy-going as they are now.

Forgiving him, has been a process for a number of reasons. It was to everyone's benefit imo that we are no longer together. Even when we were married, another woman, him, and I all sat down to have dinner and try to work through some things that I felt was inappropriate and she said I didn't sound mad, just disappointed more than anything.

When I step out of my feelings and look at things objectively, every relationship isn't meant to stand the test of time and last forever.

Posted by Capri-sun
I'm like this with my ex husband sometimes. I was just telling him sometimes we get along great as friends, then we sometimes have periods where we hate each other / argue / don't talk.

He's a sag. We went to a show together a couple of days ago.

He says that I'm the person that knows him best. He talks to me sometimes when he's having relationship issues. The most recent one, I guess she felt some type of way with me being his ex, which is understandable. If she knew me, then maybe she wouldn't feel threatened, idk.

At one point we were best friends, and when we can still do that, it's awesome. Do I go out of my way to make conversation with him? No. We are there for each other for the most part though, if one of us is in a bind or needs something (financial, emotional, etc.)

Are there feelings on my end? No. We don't have sex, and I see him as only a friend. At times I am even still guarded with him because sometimes I don't know which version of him I'm going to get while talking to each other.



My cap best friend is/was close or at least cordial with her boyfriend's exes. She still keeps a relationship with his other kids, etc. (They're no longer together, have a child together though)

I don't see anything wrong with keeping peace and harmony in a person's life, especially if children are involved. We haven't always been at the point we are now. There were times of tension, I just prefer things to be easy-going as they are now.

Forgiving him, has been a process for a number of reasons. It was to everyone's benefit imo that we are no longer together. Even when we were married, another woman, him, and I all sat down to have dinner and try to work through some things that I felt was inappropriate and she said I didn't sound mad, just disappointed more than anything.

When I step out of my feelings and look at things objectively, every relationship isn't meant to stand the test of time and last forever.

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Posted by lnana04
The guy in Mimi's and Joseline situation is a Scorpio. They were never married. They are from the reality show Love and Hip Hop. Tried to be "friends" or cordial, but look what's underneath that.

I think that's a good point, being hurt but putting on a brave face, and doing it for the kids if they are involved.

It just all seems like the Cap being a glutton for punishment.

do you think it's a publicity stunt?? and it's fake?

I don't see why that her friend would do that.

why can't she get her own man?


this maybe the dark side of scorpio.


Remember Scorpio.org site??

the scorpio woman astrologer on the site said that scorpio can do that,

http://scorpioland.org/tag/julia-roberts/

“If a Scorpio feels destined to sync with someone, nothing will stop it, certainly not some arbitrary man-made morality.” Julia Roberts. Vivian Leigh. Dorothy Dandridge. As much as these Scorpio starlets are known for their Hollywood glamour they are also known for their Scorpio love affairs with married men. With Scorpio & its ruler Pluto being associated with the 8th house — the house of other people’s property — I think it’s safe to say that O.P.P., made famous in the ’90s rap song, is a zodiac hazard. OK, Thrill. Destiny? Well, maybe just a zodiac situation Scorpios (and other 8th house types) might consciously or unconsciously find themselves in whether by personal design or happenstance. The 8th house, with its obsession for sex and psychology and the dark edges of life also involves the experience of benefiting or receiving fortune through things belonging to others. Mostly this is discussed in terms of money and inheritance, but let’s be real here, it can involve a wide range of other..."


it's not scorpio suns, but also scorpionic/plutonic folks too.


remember Angelina Jolie?? she is very plutonic. And she was highly publicized as taking Brad Pitt, (much less that did her since they divorced)

so if the Capricorn woman is plutonic herself, she should already know the wiles and be PREPARED for it.



I've always thought the same thing about Angelina Jolie

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I'm like this with my ex husband sometimes. I was just telling him sometimes we get along great as friends, then we sometimes have periods where we hate each other / argue / don't talk.

He's a sag. We went to a show together a couple of days ago.

He says that I'm the person that knows him best. He talks to me sometimes when he's having relationship issues. The most recent one, I guess she felt some type of way with me being his ex, which is understandable. If she knew me, then maybe she wouldn't feel threatened, idk.

At one point we were best friends, and when we can still do that, it's awesome. Do I go out of my way to make conversation with him? No. We are there for each other for the most part though, if one of us is in a bind or needs something (financial, emotional, etc.)

Are there feelings on my end? No. We don't have sex, and I see him as only a friend. At times I am even still guarded with him because sometimes I don't know which version of him I'm going to get while talking to each other.

My cap best friend is/was close or at least cordial with her boyfriend's exes. She still keeps a relationship with his other kids, etc. (They're no longer together, have a child together though)

I don't see anything wrong with keeping peace and harmony in a person's life, especially if children are involved. We haven't always been at the point we are now. There were times of tension, I just prefer things to be easy-going as they are now.

Forgiving him, has been a process for a number of reasons. It was to everyone's benefit imo that we are no longer together. Even when we were married, another woman, him, and I all sat down to have dinner and try to work through some things that I felt was inappropriate and she said I didn't sound mad, just disappointed more than anything.

When I step out of my feelings and look at things objectively, every relationship isn't meant to stand the test of time and last forever.

Sounds like the two of you are in a good place, which is good. Seems like his girlfriend just has to get on board.

I definitely can understand trying to make and keep the peace.

Yeah they actually broke up a few days ago...that's how I ended up going to a show with him.

I want him to be happy, that's why I wouldn't have an issue with anyone he's dating. I know I no longer have a desire to be in a relationship with him.

He just recently came around to the idea of me dating others & him not being able to say anything so that's a relief. I use to think he would be the type of ex to create drama if I was seeing someone so I wouldn't talk to him about that part of my life & always denied talking to anyone.

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I'm like this with my ex husband sometimes. I was just telling him sometimes we get along great as friends, then we sometimes have periods where we hate each other / argue / don't talk.

He's a sag. We went to a show together a couple of days ago.

He says that I'm the person that knows him best. He talks to me sometimes when he's having relationship issues. The most recent one, I guess she felt some type of way with me being his ex, which is understandable. If she knew me, then maybe she wouldn't feel threatened, idk.

At one point we were best friends, and when we can still do that, it's awesome. Do I go out of my way to make conversation with him? No. We are there for each other for the most part though, if one of us is in a bind or needs something (financial, emotional, etc.)

Are there feelings on my end? No. We don't have sex, and I see him as only a friend. At times I am even still guarded with him because sometimes I don't know which version of him I'm going to get while talking to each other.

My cap best friend is/was close or at least cordial with her boyfriend's exes. She still keeps a relationship with his other kids, etc. (They're no longer together, have a child together though)

I don't see anything wrong with keeping peace and harmony in a person's life, especially if children are involved. We haven't always been at the point we are now. There were times of tension, I just prefer things to be easy-going as they are now.

Forgiving him, has been a process for a number of reasons. It was to everyone's benefit imo that we are no longer together. Even when we were married, another woman, him, and I all sat down to have dinner and try to work through some things that I felt was inappropriate and she said I didn't sound mad, just disappointed more than anything.

When I step out of my feelings and look at things objectively, every relationship isn't meant to stand the test of time and last forever.

Sounds like the two of you are in a good place, which is good. Seems like his girlfriend just has to get on board.

I definitely can understand trying to make and keep the peace.

Yeah they actually broke up a few days ago...that's how I ended up going to a show with him.

I want him to be happy, that's why I wouldn't have an issue with anyone he's dating. I know I no longer have a desire to be in a relationship with him.

He just recently came around to the idea of me dating others & him not being able to say anything so that's a relief. I use to think he would be the type of ex to create drama if I was seeing someone so I wouldn't talk to him about that part of my life & always denied talking to anyone.

my mother in law told me (she's a cappy) and her nieces and family members, (brothers and sisters) also had chimed in, that they used to tell her to mind her own business in what the double virgo ex husband was doing with his life. She was just naturally CURIOUS.

if they (the Gemini wife and ex husband) was doing something, she would try to RIVAL it... they told her that it's NOT healthy to keep asking what they're doing for their birthdays or if they were gonna go on vacation and where...

lol

so she decided to keep out of that life, and not give a damn. I think only after her son was 18 (over age) that she finally didn't give a damn.

Lol. I laugh because that's how my ex sag is. At one point he told the kids to stop telling him about things that we do (vacations, birthdays). I'm not sure why people feel the need to compete or one up someone.

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A good cap friend of mine forgave her soon to be husband after discovering he had cheated on her several times. He didn't come clean, she caught him. And by soon husband to be I mean 48 hours before the actual ceremony.

I still get mad when I think of this... Mad for her. I respect her decision even if I'll never understand it.

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A good cap friend of mine forgave her soon to be husband after discovering he had cheated on her several times. He didn't come clean, she caught him. And by soon husband to be I mean 48 hours before the actual ceremony.

I still get mad when I think of this... Mad for her. I respect her decision even if I'll never understand it.

Wow, so she still married him? See, forgiving that would be harder for me then forgiving a cheating husband. No way I would have married the guy.

She had her reasons...... I guess. We've never talked about it again, it's like the elephant in the room. I doubt he knows I know. As much as I can't stand and don't like the guy now for hurting her... (I'm very protective of the ppl I love) ... I want her happiness. I told her I'll never treat him any different. She's my friend, I respect her decision like I said.

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Another tidbit about Mashonda and Swizz relationship. Either while, or before they were married, he cheated on her and got another woman pregnant. Mashonda was also carrying his child and the stress of the situation caused her to have a miscarriage.

The stress of the situation with him and Alicia made a lot of her hair fall out. Its like she's getting paid on one end, but whenever Alicia tries to smooth or make light of the situation Mashonda will say something. She had to put out there before that her hair started falling she was so stressed, so its not to take lightly.

My thing is, what happens to "those" type of emotions?

I read the comments under the YouTube video I posted just now and so many people think she's lying. Say they can see in her body language and eyes that she's still hurt. I'm curious now to where all the emotions, if you REALLY loved some one to the point that they were able to stress you out THAT much, go?

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A good cap friend of mine forgave her soon to be husband after discovering he had cheated on her several times. He didn't come clean, she caught him. And by soon husband to be I mean 48 hours before the actual ceremony.

I still get mad when I think of this... Mad for her. I respect her decision even if I'll never understand it.

Wow, so she still married him? See, forgiving that would be harder for me then forgiving a cheating husband. No way I would have married the guy.

She had her reasons...... I guess. We've never talked about it again, it's like the elephant in the room. I doubt he knows I know. As much as I can't stand and don't like the guy now for hurting her... (I'm very protective of the ppl I love) ... I want her happiness. I told her I'll never treat him any different. She's my friend, I respect her decision like I said.

Wow, what is his sign?

I couldn't imagine entering a effed up situation. I somewhat understand eventually getting stuck in one, but entering?? When you dont have to? I don't get it.

Is she happy now?

He's Taurus

Yea... she sounds happy when we talk. I really hope she is. I get mad because she sacrificed & supported him a lot.

I dunno his birthday but she's mentioned his sun sign before when discussing astrology.

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Another tidbit about Mashonda and Swizz relationship. Either while, or before they were married, he cheated on her and got another woman pregnant. Mashonda was also carrying his child and the stress of the situation caused her to have a miscarriage.

The stress of the situation with him and Alicia made a lot of her hair fall out. Its like she's getting paid on one end, but whenever Alicia tries to smooth or make light of the situation Mashonda will say something. She had to put out there before that her hair started falling she was so stressed, so its not to take lightly.

My thing is, what happens to "those" type of emotions?

I read the comments under the YouTube video I posted just now and so many people think she's lying. Say they can see in her body language and eyes that she's still hurt. I'm curious now to where all the emotions, if you REALLY loved some one to the point that they were able to stress you out THAT much, go?

that's sad. I did read up on that, before he got with Alicia, he was already running around.

I think his placements, being aqua moon and libra mars, Libra dominant according to astrotheme,

needs SPACE. so he's airy dominant.

he will feel CHOKED out if he doesn't get it. I wonder what placements Mashonda is.

so I checked.


she's Cap sun/Gemini moon/ Sag venus conjunct Sag Neptune, Jupiter leo, Cap mars.


so she's very very fiery and with a Gemini moon.


it didn't seem to make him happy. Since both him and Alciia Keys are libra dominant.

libra domiannts do happiness together.

look at Tom Brady/Giselle Budchen,

both different sun signs but happily libra dominants.

I just notice a trend/pattern with the libra dominants.

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Another tidbit about Mashonda and Swizz relationship. Either while, or before they were married, he cheated on her and got another woman pregnant. Mashonda was also carrying his child and the stress of the situation caused her to have a miscarriage.

The stress of the situation with him and Alicia made a lot of her hair fall out. Its like she's getting paid on one end, but whenever Alicia tries to smooth or make light of the situation Mashonda will say something. She had to put out there before that her hair started falling she was so stressed, so its not to take lightly.

My thing is, what happens to "those" type of emotions?

I read the comments under the YouTube video I posted just now and so many people think she's lying. Say they can see in her body language and eyes that she's still hurt. I'm curious now to where all the emotions, if you REALLY loved some one to the point that they were able to stress you out THAT much, go?

that's sad. I did read up on that, before he got with Alicia, he was already running around.

I think his placements, being aqua moon and libra mars, Libra dominant according to astrotheme,

needs SPACE. so he's airy dominant.

he will feel CHOKED out if he doesn't get it. I wonder what placements Mashonda is.

so I checked.


she's Cap sun/Gemini moon/ Sag venus conjunct Sag Neptune, Jupiter leo, Cap mars.


so she's very very fiery and with a Gemini moon.


it didn't seem to make him happy. Since both him and Alciia Keys are libra dominant.

libra domiannts do happiness together.

look at Tom Brady/Giselle Budchen,

both different sun signs but happily libra dominants.

I just notice a trend/pattern with the libra dominants.

I follow him on Instagram and I'm JUST now seeing a bit of happiness in him. I can tell in his face and expression something is bothering him inside. It can have nothing to do with his relationships, idk.

Also, not long after he married Alicia he was caught cheating, or still texting someone he was messing with on Mashonda. A Taurus. Actually, my mother's old friend daughter. Crazy.

He seems hard to please or make happy.

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He was sexting the Taurus and trying to meet up with her. This was shortly after his marriage to Alicia. He's just a cheater.

According to his interview right after he divorced Mashonda, Alicia was more on his level in terms of success and ambition, and according to him Mashonda was not. He said Mashonda was going through his phone all day, and he was tired of being around a scrub basically. He was ready to get upgraded.

I did read about him being involved in some kind of scam. Never heard much more about it.

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He was sexting the Taurus and trying to meet up with her. This was shortly after his marriage to Alicia. He's just a cheater.

According to his interview right after he divorced Mashonda, Alicia was more on his level in terms of success and ambition, and according to him Mashonda was not. He said Mashonda was going through his phone all day, and he was tired of being around a scrub basically. He was ready to get upgraded.

I did read about him being involved in some kind of scam. Never heard much more about it.

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He was sexting the Taurus and trying to meet up with her. This was shortly after his marriage to Alicia. He's just a cheater.

According to his interview right after he divorced Mashonda, Alicia was more on his level in terms of success and ambition, and according to him Mashonda was not. He said Mashonda was going through his phone all day, and he was tired of being around a scrub basically. He was ready to get upgraded.

I did read about him being involved in some kind of scam. Never heard much more about it.

lol @ sexting the Taurus, is that really on his instagram? lol


link it!!

I don't think Alicia Keys would like that at all.

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He was sexting the Taurus and trying to meet up with her. This was shortly after his marriage to Alicia. He's just a cheater.

According to his interview right after he divorced Mashonda, Alicia was more on his level in terms of success and ambition, and according to him Mashonda was not. He said Mashonda was going through his phone all day, and he was tired of being around a scrub basically. He was ready to get upgraded.

I did read about him being involved in some kind of scam. Never heard much more about it.

lol @ sexting the Taurus, is that really on his instagram? lol


link it!!

I don't think Alicia Keys would like that at all.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2038442/Alicia-Keys-husband-Swizz-Beatz-cheat-says-Christina-Elizabeth.html

Another video of him talking about how he likes to have fun. His wife knows it and he comes home.

http://diaryofahollywoodstreetking.com/caught-on-tape-swizz-beats-admits-to-cheating-on-alicia-keys/

It seems like letting him be free is the way to go with him, because he's going to do what he wants any way. I bet it's a burden lifted off of Mashonda.

I think that's the thing too. Seeing how the guys don't change much, the burden lifted makes the process of forgiving and moving on easier. It's probably like ok...it's not my problem to deal with anymore.

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